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Wife left: tell me about seeking arrangements

Don’t want to risk hookers and i eventually want to tr...
spectacular chapel marketing idea
  09/22/25
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Bateful abnormal brethren doctorate
  09/23/25
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Bateful abnormal brethren doctorate
  09/23/25
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Bateful abnormal brethren doctorate
  09/23/25
I'm not sure you're gonna be able to command top dollar cons...
Nighttime Adventurous Roommate
  09/22/25
If they can’t handle me at my worst they don’t d...
spectacular chapel marketing idea
  09/22/25
Your refusal to state your height speaks volumes.
Nighttime Adventurous Roommate
  09/22/25
6’2” 220 (terrible build) Slight receding...
spectacular chapel marketing idea
  09/23/25
why did your wife leave you?
cracking sneaky criminal sandwich
  09/22/25
Wife had a mid life crisis. We married young but waited to h...
spectacular chapel marketing idea
  09/23/25
if you have a chance to bludgeon yourself retarded with rust...
stimulating principal's office
  09/22/25
Grinder.com
Marvelous Dilemma Lettuce
  09/22/25
I don't believe OP is gay, though
Nighttime Adventurous Roommate
  09/23/25
There are some gems on SA if you’re willing to wade th...
Aphrodisiac step-uncle's house
  09/23/25
Search for the seeking arrangement poaster’s threads. ...
dashing queen of the night
  09/23/25
wow
mustard really tough guy temple
  09/23/25
What's ur $$$$$ situation and geography? DESCRIBE ur terr...
sapphire sinister nursing home
  09/23/25
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Bateful abnormal brethren doctorate
  09/23/25
"Don’t want to risk hookers" I've got som...
Silver native
  09/23/25
There’s some pros on there for sure but there’s ...
Aphrodisiac step-uncle's house
  09/23/25
It is all literally sex for money.
Silver native
  09/23/25
They're not hookers. They're just seeking Mutually Benefi...
Nighttime Adventurous Roommate
  09/23/25
Actual professional hookers seem less risky than this.
Mewling Amethyst Incel
  09/23/25
How so?
Aphrodisiac step-uncle's house
  09/23/25
They're not going to do something dumb like call or text you...
Mewling Amethyst Incel
  09/23/25
I’d rather deal with an amateur hooker than a professi...
Aphrodisiac step-uncle's house
  09/23/25
professional hookers are in business bcs they are profession...
Balding multi-billionaire feces
  09/23/25
…?
Aphrodisiac step-uncle's house
  09/23/25
Do not take advice from this poaster. He is dumb.
flickering gay mood
  09/23/25
I’m speaking from experience, are you?
Aphrodisiac step-uncle's house
  09/24/25
that's why you give them a burner number and not your real n...
Nighttime Adventurous Roommate
  09/23/25
Also this
Aphrodisiac step-uncle's house
  09/23/25
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obsidian faggot firefighter associate
  09/23/25
What does this sentence mean: “ start autistically get...
dashing queen of the night
  09/23/25
I think he means dedicate your life to hobbies or scholarshi...
Aphrodisiac step-uncle's house
  09/23/25
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obsidian faggot firefighter associate
  09/23/25
...
mustard really tough guy temple
  09/23/25
The time required to match/vet and potential for headaches t...
flickering gay mood
  09/23/25
Or he can go to church and find a decent woman to date/marry
Razzle-dazzle Magical Chad Public Bath
  09/23/25
1) he says he doesn’t want to marry, 2) dating is very...
flickering gay mood
  09/24/25
You will be amazed at how often their cars break down, famil...
Light Jet-lagged Foreskin
  09/23/25
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Nighttime Adventurous Roommate
  09/24/25
lol, sounds ghastly
Silver native
  09/24/25
SA is a huge waste of time. Just hire hookers every now and ...
Aquamarine Arousing Lodge Internal Respiration
  09/23/25
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obsidian faggot firefighter associate
  09/23/25
It is until you get caught in a sting.
Nighttime Adventurous Roommate
  09/24/25
There is no value in this. It died the same way dating apps...
flirting garrison
  09/24/25
SA Poaster Here... I got into a more serious relationship...
nubile deep stag film
  10/21/25
What kind of PPM should I be looking at for high col city?
spectacular chapel marketing idea
  10/21/25
WHITE MEN DONT PAY FOR SEX DURR DURR
idiotic juggernaut
  11/02/25
Reminder: nyuug isn't a Korean citizen, only has US Passport...
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idiotic juggernaut
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nyuug
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nyuug
  06/14/26
This is like the worst parts of dating plus still having to ...
spectacular chapel marketing idea
  01/21/26
These women are nuts
spectacular chapel marketing idea
  01/24/26
why not just go hunting the Bumblesauruses?
boyish international law enforcement agency
  06/08/26


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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:05 PM
Author: spectacular chapel marketing idea

Don’t want to risk hookers and i eventually want to try dating again but it’s been too long with the wife.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49291749)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: Bateful abnormal brethren doctorate

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49293910)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:50 AM
Author: Bateful abnormal brethren doctorate

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49293939)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:40 PM
Author: Bateful abnormal brethren doctorate

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49296549)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:08 PM
Author: Nighttime Adventurous Roommate

I'm not sure you're gonna be able to command top dollar considering your:

- age;

- height;

- remaining hair

But give it a go!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49291759)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:17 PM
Author: spectacular chapel marketing idea

If they can’t handle me at my worst they don’t deserve me at my best

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49291776)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 4:15 PM
Author: Nighttime Adventurous Roommate

Your refusal to state your height speaks volumes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49291944)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:00 AM
Author: spectacular chapel marketing idea

6’2”

220 (terrible build)

Slight receding with a widows peak. I don’t look balding yet but I’ve got some worries.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49293643)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 4:15 PM
Author: cracking sneaky criminal sandwich

why did your wife leave you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49291946)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:04 AM
Author: spectacular chapel marketing idea

Wife had a mid life crisis. We married young but waited to have kids so I’m not sure what her problem is.

I work too much is part of it.

She didn’t cuck me before separation but I assume she has by now.

So I’m done.

Don’t really want another wife while my kids are young.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49293651)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 5:11 PM
Author: stimulating principal's office

if you have a chance to bludgeon yourself retarded with rust caked pipes, do that over and over instead

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49292139)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 5:40 PM
Author: Marvelous Dilemma Lettuce

Grinder.com

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49292243)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:22 PM
Author: Nighttime Adventurous Roommate

I don't believe OP is gay, though

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49295397)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:18 AM
Author: Aphrodisiac step-uncle's house

There are some gems on SA if you’re willing to wade through the trash. Ideal would be to find a cute-ish 20-25 yo girl who will have sex for $500 a pop that you can see twice a month or so. There’s a lot of flakes, I suggest quickly moving conversation to “hey let’s meet up for a drink, are you free tonight?” to see if they are serious / interested or not.

Don’t talk about money / sex on the app, wait to meet up and feel things out in person. Hopefully you have a least a little game.

Also, get in shape.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49293677)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:20 AM
Author: dashing queen of the night

Search for the seeking arrangement poaster’s threads. All the scholarship you need.

The short version is if you are moderately good looking you’ll do great. Tell them up front you are looking for pay per meet. You will undoubtedly have some kooky situations. Ultimately, you will grow tired of it and your soul will be diminished.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49293681)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:21 PM
Author: mustard really tough guy temple

wow

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49296963)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: sapphire sinister nursing home

What's ur $$$$$ situation and geography?

DESCRIBE ur terrible physique and honestly rate ur facial aesthetics and genetic makeup

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49293908)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: Bateful abnormal brethren doctorate

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49293911)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:16 PM
Author: Silver native

"Don’t want to risk hookers"

I've got some bad news about SA

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49294299)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:54 PM
Author: Aphrodisiac step-uncle's house

There’s some pros on there for sure but there’s also some college girls looking for an allowance

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49294402)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 2:57 PM
Author: Silver native

It is all literally sex for money.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49295292)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:23 PM
Author: Nighttime Adventurous Roommate

They're not hookers.

They're just seeking Mutually Beneficial arrangements, tee-hee

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49295402)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:57 PM
Author: Mewling Amethyst Incel

Actual professional hookers seem less risky than this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49294413)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:59 PM
Author: Aphrodisiac step-uncle's house

How so?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49294425)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 1:18 PM
Author: Mewling Amethyst Incel

They're not going to do something dumb like call or text you at the wrong time or go nuts on you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49294503)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:15 PM
Author: Aphrodisiac step-uncle's house

I’d rather deal with an amateur hooker than a professional one, the pros are more likely to be sketchy, have a criminal record, drug use, poverty, STDs, etc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49295355)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 4:23 PM
Author: Balding multi-billionaire feces

professional hookers are in business bcs they are professional, not on drugs, germ-free, take credit cards where as amateurs are all dirty druggies with std's they dont even know about, "oh that itch/rash/sore/fever, i thought it was cuz I havent showered in 5 days".

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49295517)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:25 PM
Author: Aphrodisiac step-uncle's house

…?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49296355)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:43 PM
Author: flickering gay mood

Do not take advice from this poaster. He is dumb.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49296572)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:09 AM
Author: Aphrodisiac step-uncle's house

I’m speaking from experience, are you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49297045)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:23 PM
Author: Nighttime Adventurous Roommate

that's why you give them a burner number and not your real name.

Rookie

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49295406)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 4:13 PM
Author: Aphrodisiac step-uncle's house

Also this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49295494)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 1:00 PM
Author: obsidian faggot firefighter associate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49294429)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:14 PM
Author: dashing queen of the night

What does this sentence mean: “ start autistically getting to a surrogate activity”

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49296185)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:26 PM
Author: Aphrodisiac step-uncle's house

I think he means dedicate your life to hobbies or scholarship instead of wasting time on women

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49296383)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:55 PM
Author: obsidian faggot firefighter associate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49296940)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:22 PM
Author: mustard really tough guy temple



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49296966)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:39 PM
Author: flickering gay mood

The time required to match/vet and potential for headaches that can come from the fake dating with SA always seemed like a big negative to me. That single non-parent dude in CO who was lining them up 3 per night and poasted all those pics and sex diaries seemed like the right way to SA. Ie it’s a tool suited to single middle aged dudes with a lot of time to search for a daddy issues Cinderella. But for a single dad with young kids it seems awful. Requires time you don’t have and energy/stress you should spare yourself. If you want to fuck a hot chick, pay over $500/hr (usually $800 in a big city), get a burner, use a fake name, set up a fake LinkedIn and treat yourself to a high end escort every once in a while. No reason that would prevent you from dating later on or concurrently, in fact I’d argue it would improve your performance because you won’t depend on dating for sex, you’ll have more time and you will be more rational in your assessments of potential long term candidates.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49296544)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:16 PM
Author: Razzle-dazzle Magical Chad Public Bath

Or he can go to church and find a decent woman to date/marry

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49296958)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 3:24 AM
Author: flickering gay mood

1) he says he doesn’t want to marry, 2) dating is very hard as a single parent with little kids, 3) the only women at church who see a single dad wrangling two kids and think to themselves “ohh I wonder if he’s single or his wife just has a stomach bug” are 300+ lbs. You’re right that mongering is a soul-rotting practice, but he’s the rare dude where the soul rot is worth the trade for the convenient access to sex with a woman who is otherwise far too attractive for him to ever have a chance with.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49297191)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:47 PM
Author: Light Jet-lagged Foreskin

You will be amazed at how often their cars break down, family members/pets have costly medical emergencies, etc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49296638)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:51 AM
Author: Nighttime Adventurous Roommate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49297113)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 2:08 PM
Author: Silver native

lol, sounds ghastly

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49298625)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:07 PM
Author: Aquamarine Arousing Lodge Internal Respiration

SA is a huge waste of time. Just hire hookers every now and then.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49296951)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:10 PM
Author: obsidian faggot firefighter associate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49296954)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:50 AM
Author: Nighttime Adventurous Roommate

It is until you get caught in a sting.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49297112)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:03 AM
Author: flirting garrison

There is no value in this. It died the same way dating apps died. The hot chicks are on instagram and if they need extra cash post on onlyfans. The dude who posted here about SA posted a lot of 30s women. Why bother with that?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49297025)



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Date: October 21st, 2025 5:03 PM
Author: nubile deep stag film

SA Poaster Here...

I got into a more serious relationship with a chick I met off a dating app... We ended up having a bunch of mutual friends in common and went from there so I haven't been on SA in ages... I also started doing great on the apps (this takes a bit of time as the algo ranks you and can be frustrating/discouraging at first so be patient), so I got off SA completely.

However, for your situation I think it's fine, just use a google voice burner number and ideally don't take them to where you live until you've hooked up with them at least once and aren't getting any sketchy or crazy vibes. I only say that because you have kids. I met up with plenty of chicks straight at my house straight away, including late at night and it was fine but if I had kids I wouldn't do that.

If you search SA on here you'll get all my poasts which have quite a bit of scholarship on the matter. Ideally you find 1 or 2 you actually have some fun hanging out with who are great in bed and you just keep them on rotation whenever you're free.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49364680)



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Date: October 21st, 2025 5:44 PM
Author: spectacular chapel marketing idea

What kind of PPM should I be looking at for high col city?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49364751)



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Date: November 2nd, 2025 7:21 PM
Author: idiotic juggernaut

WHITE MEN DONT PAY FOR SEX DURR DURR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49396314)



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Date: January 13th, 2026 6:54 PM
Author: idiotic juggernaut

Reminder: nyuug isn't a Korean citizen, only has US Passport

http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3466376&forum_id=2#32188261



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49587124)



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Date: January 13th, 2026 7:08 PM
Author: idiotic juggernaut



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49587194)



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Date: June 8th, 2026 12:38 AM
Author: idiotic juggernaut



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49921692)



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Date: June 8th, 2026 12:54 AM
Author: idiotic juggernaut



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49921779)



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Date: June 8th, 2026 8:00 PM
Author: nyuug



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49923921)



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Date: June 14th, 2026 9:42 PM
Author: nyuug



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49939211)



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Date: January 21st, 2026 5:33 PM
Author: spectacular chapel marketing idea

This is like the worst parts of dating plus still having to pay.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49607174)



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Date: January 24th, 2026 9:40 AM
Author: spectacular chapel marketing idea

These women are nuts

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49614072)



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Date: June 8th, 2026 5:55 AM
Author: boyish international law enforcement agency

why not just go hunting the Bumblesauruses?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2...#49921905)