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i think i'm getting "gamed" by woman on dating app who is using AI

i matched with this woman recently (asian, not sure what bre...
Indigo fragrant associate police squad
  06/22/26
Get her to whatsapp you some nude photos and videos & se...
Mustard address
  06/22/26
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Primrose Business Firm Famous Landscape Painting
  06/22/26
Honestly, I wouldn't read too much into whether the messages...
Exhilarant electric furnace
  06/22/26
Given what didn't work in your last relationship tp
Tripping glittery ticket booth
  06/22/26
wow, this is actually really helpful, thanks do you have ...
Indigo fragrant associate police squad
  06/22/26
I really like it here
Sepia confused casino sandwich
  06/22/26
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Impressive gaping
  06/24/26
Dating a 50 year old Bulgarian man tp
Bonkers house giraffe
  06/22/26
this is her: https://imgur.com/a/mHFr2Lf i don't wanna...
Indigo fragrant associate police squad
  06/22/26
cute! what is she, 37, 38? That's about when women "com...
Nubile fuchsia corner
  06/22/26
thanks man. it seems rude to ask her age but on her coffee m...
Indigo fragrant associate police squad
  06/22/26
Korean. Also, AI.
Sienna library
  06/22/26
Yeah, OP established she was using AI to enhance her message...
Sepia confused casino sandwich
  06/22/26
Lol
Sienna library
  06/23/26
I wouldn't read too much into this. Based on her pics, she i...
violet idea he suggested
  06/22/26
You shouldn’t have more than 2-3 messages before switc...
Sienna library
  06/22/26
It would be rude for a boyfriend/whatever to hurry her along...
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Nubile fuchsia corner
  06/22/26
Great pushback.
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Impressive gaping
  06/24/26
She sent me this this morning: "“Work hard today,...
Indigo fragrant associate police squad
  06/23/26
incredible moniker
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  06/24/26
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Indigo fragrant associate police squad
  06/24/26
i would not jump right to assuming it’s ai. cultures a...
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Impressive gaping
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she sent me this one this morning: "Go make the world a...
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Date: June 22nd, 2026 1:00 PM
Author: Indigo fragrant associate police squad

i matched with this woman recently (asian, not sure what breed) and we started exchanging messages back and forth. at first, her english was pretty bad. she's pretty obviously a fairly recent immigrant and so english is her second language

but over time, her english has inexplicably gotten better, but it doesn't sound right. i think she might be using AI to write her chat messages to me. last week she sent me a message: “Sending you, my handsome, a pocket full of love, a kiss for later, and enough good vibes to survive the whole workday. You’ve got this, my love.” i'm not a "Women Expert" or anything, but this doesn't really seem like something that an adult woman would actually say to her boyfriend/whatever

do you think this means that she likes me more? like she's so desperate to make a good impression that she's turning to AI for help? i want to see it as a good sign. my last asian wife left me because i "wasn't romantic enough" but honestly i would have been more romantic if i could have understood what she was saying more than half the time. she made it pretty hard

i got another message from her this morning: "“Just wanted to wish my favorite human a great day at work. Go make money, be handsome, and come back to me later. 💕” along with a pic of her doing a kissy-face with cat ears on her head (like actually fused to her head like she was really a cat, i assume she had AI edit the pic?). just not sure what to think about it. hoping my XO bros have some helpful input

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2...id..#49955549)



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Date: June 22nd, 2026 1:07 PM
Author: Mustard address

Get her to whatsapp you some nude photos and videos & send her "cum tributes" in response. Know a lot of married couples that started out this way. Dating is different in the cyber age.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2...id..#49955560)



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Date: June 22nd, 2026 2:58 PM
Author: Primrose Business Firm Famous Landscape Painting



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2...id..#49955684)



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Date: June 22nd, 2026 1:08 PM
Author: Exhilarant electric furnace

Honestly, I wouldn't read too much into whether the messages are AI-assisted one way or the other — plenty of people, especially when writing in a second language, lean on tools to say something that feels affectionate but doesn't quite match how they'd naturally phrase it out loud. That's not evidence of how much she likes you, and it's not evidence against it either; it's just a communication gap she's trying to close. The more useful move is to ask her directly, gently, how she likes to communicate and whether she feels comfortable expressing herself in English yet — you might find she'd rather text in her first language and have you use a translator on your end, or that she genuinely enjoys sending sweet messages and the polish is just her trying to get the wording right. Given what didn't work in your last relationship, it's probably worth having an honest, low-pressure conversation now about how you both want to handle the language difference, rather than trying to decode her feelings from the style of her texts.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2...id..#49955561)



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Date: June 22nd, 2026 1:10 PM
Author: Tripping glittery ticket booth

Given what didn't work in your last relationship tp

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2...id..#49955564)



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Date: June 22nd, 2026 1:40 PM
Author: Indigo fragrant associate police squad

wow, this is actually really helpful, thanks

do you have personal experience with this sort of thing or something?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2...id..#49955589)



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Date: June 22nd, 2026 1:32 PM
Author: Sepia confused casino sandwich

I really like it here

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2...id..#49955580)



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Date: June 24th, 2026 10:03 AM
Author: Impressive gaping



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Date: June 22nd, 2026 1:39 PM
Author: Bonkers house giraffe

Dating a 50 year old Bulgarian man tp

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2...id..#49955588)



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Date: June 22nd, 2026 1:45 PM
Author: Indigo fragrant associate police squad

this is her:

https://imgur.com/a/mHFr2Lf

i don't wanna post the pic of her with the cat ears, it was a little too intimate to share with xo randoms

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2...id..#49955594)



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Date: June 22nd, 2026 2:08 PM
Author: Nubile fuchsia corner

cute! what is she, 37, 38? That's about when women "come into their own" in my experience.

hoping the best for you two!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2...id..#49955609)



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Date: June 22nd, 2026 2:26 PM
Author: Indigo fragrant associate police squad

thanks man. it seems rude to ask her age but on her coffee meets bagel profile she said she was 29

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2...id..#49955622)



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Date: June 22nd, 2026 2:24 PM
Author: Sienna library

Korean. Also, AI.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2...id..#49955621)



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Date: June 22nd, 2026 5:40 PM
Author: Sepia confused casino sandwich

Yeah, OP established she was using AI to enhance her messages. She looks really cute from that pic though

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2...id..#49956175)



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Date: June 23rd, 2026 5:16 PM
Author: Sienna library

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2...id..#49958808)



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Date: June 22nd, 2026 2:21 PM
Author: violet idea he suggested

I wouldn't read too much into this. Based on her pics, she is definitely a bit shy!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2...id..#49955613)



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Date: June 22nd, 2026 2:24 PM
Author: Sienna library

You shouldn’t have more than 2-3 messages before switching to phone and scheduling a meet.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2...id..#49955618)



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Date: June 22nd, 2026 2:35 PM
Author: Concupiscible university idiot

It would be rude for a boyfriend/whatever to hurry her along. Her truth at her speed

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2...id..#49955645)



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Date: June 22nd, 2026 2:50 PM
Author: Nubile fuchsia corner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2...id..#49955660)



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Date: June 22nd, 2026 5:43 PM
Author: citrine zombie-like property ladyboy

Great pushback.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2...id..#49956180)



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Date: June 22nd, 2026 5:54 PM
Author: Indigo fragrant associate police squad



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2...id..#49956259)



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Date: June 24th, 2026 10:05 AM
Author: Impressive gaping



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2...id..#49960464)



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Date: June 23rd, 2026 1:07 PM
Author: Indigo fragrant associate police squad

She sent me this this morning: "“Work hard today, but don’t forget to take breaks and drink water. Your girlfriend is very invested in keeping her favorite, most handsome person alive and thriving. 😘”

I responded with the "thumbs up" emoji (default yellow color) I didn't know what else to say

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2...id..#49958173)



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Date: June 24th, 2026 9:58 AM
Author: Nubile fuchsia corner

incredible moniker

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2...id..#49960449)



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Date: June 24th, 2026 10:14 AM
Author: Indigo fragrant associate police squad



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2...id..#49960483)



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Date: June 24th, 2026 10:01 AM
Author: Impertinent Twinkling Toaster

i would not jump right to assuming it’s ai. cultures are different in other places and often come off as unusual to americans. it may just be that she really has cat ears irl.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2...id..#49960456)



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Date: June 24th, 2026 10:06 AM
Author: Impressive gaping



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2...id..#49960466)



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Date: June 24th, 2026 10:14 AM
Author: Indigo fragrant associate police squad

she sent me this one this morning: "Go make the world a better place today, handsome. The sun came up this morning, but you're still my favorite source of warmth and happiness.🥰"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5876465&forum_id=2...id..#49960480)