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best way to prep for divorce w 10+ yr marriage & multiple kids?
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:33 PM Author: ''''''"'''"" lib state
other than peper thy angus
wife works, 50/50 custody the goal |
Date: September 11th, 2026 5:34 PM Author: .,..,.,.,.,.,.,,.,..,,..,.,.,.,. (CSLG)
or rather, like CSLG, just make FUCKTONS of money & power through it |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:34 PM Author: ''''''"'''"" ntcr. assume 300-500k/year hhi, wife makes 100k of it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2E#50130504) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:35 PM Author: .,..,.,.,.,.,.,,.,..,,..,.,.,.,. then just pepper thy angus (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2E#50130505) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:36 PM Author: ''''''"'''"" i consulted with a divorce attorney a few years ago, she said alimony won't be too bad given wife works and if 50/50 custody. the QOL hit will be substantial though (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2E#50130509) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:36 PM Author: Nazca Redlines Don't get divorced with kids. Why would you do that? Only seeing your kids half the time--at most--would be terrible.
Suck it up until they're older. |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:37 PM Author: ''''''"'''"" because she sucks. how old is OK to divorce? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2E#50130511) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:41 PM Author: Nazca Redlines How so? Is it so bad that dealing with it for a few more years is worse than losing your kids 50-90% of the time?
I'd want my youngest to be about 16-17 before I hied to greener pastures. By then, they're their own people. Before that, they need their dad in the picture and I want to be with them. |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:44 PM Author: ''''''"'''"" it would be longer than a few years. she has undiagnosed BPD (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2E#50130525) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:48 PM Author: Nazca Redlines Sorry to hear. Even though it's not going to get better, wouldn't you rather be there for your kids every day than only have them half the time, while they spend the other half (or more--it's often more) with a vengeful, BPD ex-wife and whoever she brings around? Can't you just check out? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2E#50130531) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:50 PM Author: ''''''"'''"" I am checked out, but I don't know if it is better for them to have half-time away from BPD or to lower key suffer from it full-time. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2E#50130541) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:54 PM Author: snake coke you know fully well which is better, although i understand why you would pretend to be stumped on the matter. this whole situation is your doing; don’t dump it on your kids. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2E#50130551) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 6:00 PM Author: ''''''"'''"" until when? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2E#50130568) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:54 PM Author: Nazca Redlines Suck it up. It's better for them to have their dad around every day.
What's she going to be up to around them if you're not there? |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 5:59 PM Author: ''''''"'''"" there's a limit to my tolerance
likely BPD breakdowns as she does now |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 6:01 PM Author: Nazca Redlines What can you not tolerate? Just check out and ignore that stuff. Be there for your kids. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2E#50130571) |
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Date: September 11th, 2026 6:00 PM Author: .,.,...,..,.,..:,,:,......,;:.,.:..:.,:,::,. Divorced women almost always bring strange men around their kids, especially crazy BPD types like your wife. Stick it out if you can just to protect your kids. GTFO after they're old enough to protect themselves. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5902828&forum_id=2E#50130569) |