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Wife left: tell me about seeking arrangements

Don’t want to risk hookers and i eventually want to tr...
comical crotch indian lodge
  09/22/25
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balding grizzly persian state
  09/23/25
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balding grizzly persian state
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balding grizzly persian state
  09/23/25
I'm not sure you're gonna be able to command top dollar cons...
alcoholic pit
  09/22/25
If they can’t handle me at my worst they don’t d...
comical crotch indian lodge
  09/22/25
Your refusal to state your height speaks volumes.
alcoholic pit
  09/22/25
6’2” 220 (terrible build) Slight receding...
comical crotch indian lodge
  09/23/25
why did your wife leave you?
Vivacious Heaven Gunner
  09/22/25
Wife had a mid life crisis. We married young but waited to h...
comical crotch indian lodge
  09/23/25
if you have a chance to bludgeon yourself retarded with rust...
Dark water buffalo halford
  09/22/25
Grinder.com
Stimulating Home Legend
  09/22/25
I don't believe OP is gay, though
alcoholic pit
  09/23/25
There are some gems on SA if you’re willing to wade th...
maroon messiness
  09/23/25
Search for the seeking arrangement poaster’s threads. ...
well-lubricated black locus mediation
  09/23/25
wow
smoky disgusting hall
  09/23/25
What's ur $$$$$ situation and geography? DESCRIBE ur terr...
Electric jet-lagged location regret
  09/23/25
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balding grizzly persian state
  09/23/25
"Don’t want to risk hookers" I've got som...
Overrated sienna garrison coffee pot
  09/23/25
There’s some pros on there for sure but there’s ...
maroon messiness
  09/23/25
It is all literally sex for money.
Overrated sienna garrison coffee pot
  09/23/25
They're not hookers. They're just seeking Mutually Benefi...
alcoholic pit
  09/23/25
Actual professional hookers seem less risky than this.
Idiotic Sanctuary Affirmative Action
  09/23/25
How so?
maroon messiness
  09/23/25
They're not going to do something dumb like call or text you...
Idiotic Sanctuary Affirmative Action
  09/23/25
I’d rather deal with an amateur hooker than a professi...
maroon messiness
  09/23/25
professional hookers are in business bcs they are profession...
Judgmental Vermilion Ladyboy Market
  09/23/25
…?
maroon messiness
  09/23/25
Do not take advice from this poaster. He is dumb.
Big Aqua National Security Agency Center
  09/23/25
I’m speaking from experience, are you?
maroon messiness
  09/24/25
that's why you give them a burner number and not your real n...
alcoholic pit
  09/23/25
Also this
maroon messiness
  09/23/25
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Unholy Crimson Stain
  09/23/25
What does this sentence mean: “ start autistically get...
well-lubricated black locus mediation
  09/23/25
I think he means dedicate your life to hobbies or scholarshi...
maroon messiness
  09/23/25
...
Unholy Crimson Stain
  09/23/25
...
smoky disgusting hall
  09/23/25
The time required to match/vet and potential for headaches t...
Big Aqua National Security Agency Center
  09/23/25
Or he can go to church and find a decent woman to date/marry
soggy razzmatazz sandwich
  09/23/25
1) he says he doesn’t want to marry, 2) dating is very...
Big Aqua National Security Agency Center
  09/24/25
You will be amazed at how often their cars break down, famil...
exhilarant spot
  09/23/25
...
alcoholic pit
  09/24/25
lol, sounds ghastly
Overrated sienna garrison coffee pot
  09/24/25
SA is a huge waste of time. Just hire hookers every now and ...
mint useless brakes
  09/23/25
...
Unholy Crimson Stain
  09/23/25
It is until you get caught in a sting.
alcoholic pit
  09/24/25
There is no value in this. It died the same way dating apps...
haunting narrow-minded haunted graveyard school cafeteria
  09/24/25
SA Poaster Here... I got into a more serious relationship...
chrome fanboi
  10/21/25
What kind of PPM should I be looking at for high col city?
comical crotch indian lodge
  10/21/25
WHITE MEN DONT PAY FOR SEX DURR DURR
abusive startling prole house
  11/02/25
Reminder: nyuug isn't a Korean citizen, only has US Passport...
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abusive startling prole house
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nyuug
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nyuug
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nyuug
  06/08/26
This is like the worst parts of dating plus still having to ...
comical crotch indian lodge
  01/21/26
These women are nuts
comical crotch indian lodge
  01/24/26
why not just go hunting the Bumblesauruses?
Long PlayroomPoon Clown Conniption
  06/08/26


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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:05 PM
Author: comical crotch indian lodge

Don’t want to risk hookers and i eventually want to try dating again but it’s been too long with the wife.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49291749)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: balding grizzly persian state

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49293910)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:50 AM
Author: balding grizzly persian state

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49293939)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:40 PM
Author: balding grizzly persian state

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49296549)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:08 PM
Author: alcoholic pit

I'm not sure you're gonna be able to command top dollar considering your:

- age;

- height;

- remaining hair

But give it a go!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49291759)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:17 PM
Author: comical crotch indian lodge

If they can’t handle me at my worst they don’t deserve me at my best

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49291776)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 4:15 PM
Author: alcoholic pit

Your refusal to state your height speaks volumes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49291944)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:00 AM
Author: comical crotch indian lodge

6’2”

220 (terrible build)

Slight receding with a widows peak. I don’t look balding yet but I’ve got some worries.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49293643)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 4:15 PM
Author: Vivacious Heaven Gunner

why did your wife leave you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49291946)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:04 AM
Author: comical crotch indian lodge

Wife had a mid life crisis. We married young but waited to have kids so I’m not sure what her problem is.

I work too much is part of it.

She didn’t cuck me before separation but I assume she has by now.

So I’m done.

Don’t really want another wife while my kids are young.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49293651)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 5:11 PM
Author: Dark water buffalo halford

if you have a chance to bludgeon yourself retarded with rust caked pipes, do that over and over instead

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49292139)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 5:40 PM
Author: Stimulating Home Legend

Grinder.com

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49292243)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:22 PM
Author: alcoholic pit

I don't believe OP is gay, though

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49295397)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:18 AM
Author: maroon messiness

There are some gems on SA if you’re willing to wade through the trash. Ideal would be to find a cute-ish 20-25 yo girl who will have sex for $500 a pop that you can see twice a month or so. There’s a lot of flakes, I suggest quickly moving conversation to “hey let’s meet up for a drink, are you free tonight?” to see if they are serious / interested or not.

Don’t talk about money / sex on the app, wait to meet up and feel things out in person. Hopefully you have a least a little game.

Also, get in shape.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49293677)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:20 AM
Author: well-lubricated black locus mediation

Search for the seeking arrangement poaster’s threads. All the scholarship you need.

The short version is if you are moderately good looking you’ll do great. Tell them up front you are looking for pay per meet. You will undoubtedly have some kooky situations. Ultimately, you will grow tired of it and your soul will be diminished.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49293681)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:21 PM
Author: smoky disgusting hall

wow

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49296963)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: Electric jet-lagged location regret

What's ur $$$$$ situation and geography?

DESCRIBE ur terrible physique and honestly rate ur facial aesthetics and genetic makeup

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49293908)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: balding grizzly persian state

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49293911)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:16 PM
Author: Overrated sienna garrison coffee pot

"Don’t want to risk hookers"

I've got some bad news about SA

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49294299)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:54 PM
Author: maroon messiness

There’s some pros on there for sure but there’s also some college girls looking for an allowance

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49294402)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 2:57 PM
Author: Overrated sienna garrison coffee pot

It is all literally sex for money.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49295292)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:23 PM
Author: alcoholic pit

They're not hookers.

They're just seeking Mutually Beneficial arrangements, tee-hee

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49295402)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:57 PM
Author: Idiotic Sanctuary Affirmative Action

Actual professional hookers seem less risky than this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49294413)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:59 PM
Author: maroon messiness

How so?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49294425)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 1:18 PM
Author: Idiotic Sanctuary Affirmative Action

They're not going to do something dumb like call or text you at the wrong time or go nuts on you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49294503)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:15 PM
Author: maroon messiness

I’d rather deal with an amateur hooker than a professional one, the pros are more likely to be sketchy, have a criminal record, drug use, poverty, STDs, etc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49295355)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 4:23 PM
Author: Judgmental Vermilion Ladyboy Market

professional hookers are in business bcs they are professional, not on drugs, germ-free, take credit cards where as amateurs are all dirty druggies with std's they dont even know about, "oh that itch/rash/sore/fever, i thought it was cuz I havent showered in 5 days".

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49295517)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:25 PM
Author: maroon messiness

…?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49296355)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:43 PM
Author: Big Aqua National Security Agency Center

Do not take advice from this poaster. He is dumb.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49296572)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:09 AM
Author: maroon messiness

I’m speaking from experience, are you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49297045)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:23 PM
Author: alcoholic pit

that's why you give them a burner number and not your real name.

Rookie

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49295406)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 4:13 PM
Author: maroon messiness

Also this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49295494)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 1:00 PM
Author: Unholy Crimson Stain



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49294429)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:14 PM
Author: well-lubricated black locus mediation

What does this sentence mean: “ start autistically getting to a surrogate activity”

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49296185)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:26 PM
Author: maroon messiness

I think he means dedicate your life to hobbies or scholarship instead of wasting time on women

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49296383)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:55 PM
Author: Unholy Crimson Stain



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49296940)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:22 PM
Author: smoky disgusting hall



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49296966)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:39 PM
Author: Big Aqua National Security Agency Center

The time required to match/vet and potential for headaches that can come from the fake dating with SA always seemed like a big negative to me. That single non-parent dude in CO who was lining them up 3 per night and poasted all those pics and sex diaries seemed like the right way to SA. Ie it’s a tool suited to single middle aged dudes with a lot of time to search for a daddy issues Cinderella. But for a single dad with young kids it seems awful. Requires time you don’t have and energy/stress you should spare yourself. If you want to fuck a hot chick, pay over $500/hr (usually $800 in a big city), get a burner, use a fake name, set up a fake LinkedIn and treat yourself to a high end escort every once in a while. No reason that would prevent you from dating later on or concurrently, in fact I’d argue it would improve your performance because you won’t depend on dating for sex, you’ll have more time and you will be more rational in your assessments of potential long term candidates.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49296544)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:16 PM
Author: soggy razzmatazz sandwich

Or he can go to church and find a decent woman to date/marry

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49296958)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 3:24 AM
Author: Big Aqua National Security Agency Center

1) he says he doesn’t want to marry, 2) dating is very hard as a single parent with little kids, 3) the only women at church who see a single dad wrangling two kids and think to themselves “ohh I wonder if he’s single or his wife just has a stomach bug” are 300+ lbs. You’re right that mongering is a soul-rotting practice, but he’s the rare dude where the soul rot is worth the trade for the convenient access to sex with a woman who is otherwise far too attractive for him to ever have a chance with.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49297191)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:47 PM
Author: exhilarant spot

You will be amazed at how often their cars break down, family members/pets have costly medical emergencies, etc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49296638)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:51 AM
Author: alcoholic pit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49297113)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 2:08 PM
Author: Overrated sienna garrison coffee pot

lol, sounds ghastly

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49298625)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:07 PM
Author: mint useless brakes

SA is a huge waste of time. Just hire hookers every now and then.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49296951)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:10 PM
Author: Unholy Crimson Stain



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49296954)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:50 AM
Author: alcoholic pit

It is until you get caught in a sting.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49297112)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:03 AM
Author: haunting narrow-minded haunted graveyard school cafeteria

There is no value in this. It died the same way dating apps died. The hot chicks are on instagram and if they need extra cash post on onlyfans. The dude who posted here about SA posted a lot of 30s women. Why bother with that?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49297025)



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Date: October 21st, 2025 5:03 PM
Author: chrome fanboi

SA Poaster Here...

I got into a more serious relationship with a chick I met off a dating app... We ended up having a bunch of mutual friends in common and went from there so I haven't been on SA in ages... I also started doing great on the apps (this takes a bit of time as the algo ranks you and can be frustrating/discouraging at first so be patient), so I got off SA completely.

However, for your situation I think it's fine, just use a google voice burner number and ideally don't take them to where you live until you've hooked up with them at least once and aren't getting any sketchy or crazy vibes. I only say that because you have kids. I met up with plenty of chicks straight at my house straight away, including late at night and it was fine but if I had kids I wouldn't do that.

If you search SA on here you'll get all my poasts which have quite a bit of scholarship on the matter. Ideally you find 1 or 2 you actually have some fun hanging out with who are great in bed and you just keep them on rotation whenever you're free.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49364680)



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Date: October 21st, 2025 5:44 PM
Author: comical crotch indian lodge

What kind of PPM should I be looking at for high col city?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49364751)



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Date: November 2nd, 2025 7:21 PM
Author: abusive startling prole house

WHITE MEN DONT PAY FOR SEX DURR DURR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49396314)



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Date: January 13th, 2026 6:54 PM
Author: abusive startling prole house

Reminder: nyuug isn't a Korean citizen, only has US Passport

http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3466376&forum_id=2#32188261



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49587124)



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Date: January 13th, 2026 7:08 PM
Author: abusive startling prole house



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49587194)



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Date: June 8th, 2026 12:38 AM
Author: nyuug



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49921692)



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Date: June 8th, 2026 12:54 AM
Author: nyuug



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49921779)



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Date: June 8th, 2026 8:00 PM
Author: nyuug



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49923921)



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Date: January 21st, 2026 5:33 PM
Author: comical crotch indian lodge

This is like the worst parts of dating plus still having to pay.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49607174)



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Date: January 24th, 2026 9:40 AM
Author: comical crotch indian lodge

These women are nuts

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49614072)



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Date: June 8th, 2026 5:55 AM
Author: Long PlayroomPoon Clown Conniption ( )

why not just go hunting the Bumblesauruses?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2E#49921905)