\
  The most prestigious law school admissions discussion board in the world.
BackRefresh Options Favorite

Normal to prefer masturbation over sex with wife?

...
glittery ocher friendly grandma space
  05/20/22
in my older age I can’t stand the feeling of an orgasm...
curious twinkling uncleanness
  05/20/22
Jfc
flickering trip elastic band bawdyhouse
  05/21/22
I've gone thru periods like this but only v there is some we...
Hairless Church Building Sneaky Criminal
  05/20/22
That’s pretty mainstream now
curious twinkling uncleanness
  05/20/22
other than those periods, youre cool with just fuckin the sa...
glittery ocher friendly grandma space
  05/20/22
Link?
flickering trip elastic band bawdyhouse
  05/21/22
Describe your wife’s appearance and the tightness of h...
Offensive whorehouse mad-dog skullcap
  05/20/22
...
hideous nofapping faggot firefighter corner
  05/20/22
no
Slate prole site
  05/20/22
i'm like this, my wife too. it's just so much easier.
territorial gaped location deer antler
  05/20/22
Its just understood and theres no resentment? What your wife...
glittery ocher friendly grandma space
  05/20/22
i think she wishes we had sex more often but she accepts tha...
territorial gaped location deer antler
  05/20/22
so its more on your end and she does it as a response to you...
glittery ocher friendly grandma space
  05/20/22
yeah that's fair. i have no interest in fucking her.
territorial gaped location deer antler
  05/20/22
is she overweight? age?
Slate prole site
  05/20/22
nah she's still pretty thin, not super fit like when we met ...
territorial gaped location deer antler
  05/20/22
i've been with my wife for 12 years, married to her for 7 ye...
Slate prole site
  05/20/22
good for you two.
territorial gaped location deer antler
  05/20/22
Bad for me, bc I get turned down for sex a couple days a wee...
Slate prole site
  05/20/22
2-4x is really not bad though IMO. Look around on XO - tons...
magical jet temple
  05/20/22
Yeah i dont think its about objective physical attractivenes...
glittery ocher friendly grandma space
  05/20/22
yeah i mean if some hot new slut came into my life i'd be fu...
territorial gaped location deer antler
  05/20/22
Life is miserable isn’t it
copper field mad cow disease
  05/20/22
for the most part.
territorial gaped location deer antler
  05/20/22
...
Monikor
  08/26/26
COVID killed it for sure. You can't be around someone nearly...
Charcoal disrespectful pit ladyboy
  05/20/22
my wife and i both worked from home for about 15 months duri...
Slate prole site
  05/20/22
*2 years of marriage
shimmering hairy legs multi-billionaire
  05/21/22
rare honesty
exhilarant pozpig
  05/20/22
...
Fantasy-prone crawly hell
  05/20/22
you are a slave, a perfect subject for Zuck's "metavers...
Brindle messiness jewess
  05/20/22
oh ok *gets dick hard to fuck aging woman who just griped...
glittery ocher friendly grandma space
  05/20/22
(*gets dick hard for digital image of woman he will never to...
Brindle messiness jewess
  05/20/22
...
exhilarant pozpig
  05/20/22
Women view sex as a “give” and they want to take...
Comical avocado brethren
  05/20/22
not all relationships degrade into transactionalism
Brindle messiness jewess
  05/20/22
Go get married and report back after a couple years, sucker
Comical avocado brethren
  05/20/22
I've been married well over a decade
Brindle messiness jewess
  05/20/22
And how often do you have sex? You’re trying to argue...
Comical avocado brethren
  05/20/22
frequently & yes. presumably you were in a relationsh...
Brindle messiness jewess
  05/20/22
xo posters are betabucks losers that women only fuck for res...
bespoke son of senegal fanboi
  05/20/22
Relationships are not the same as marriage & you’r...
Comical avocado brethren
  05/20/22
why would I lie to you? what have I ever done on XO that wou...
Brindle messiness jewess
  05/20/22
lol cmon man
glittery ocher friendly grandma space
  05/20/22
You’re pumo scum you tell me
Comical avocado brethren
  05/20/22
pumanimals are not pumos, come on
Brindle messiness jewess
  05/20/22
...
Frisky Sepia Foreskin
  05/20/22
So, you need to understand where xo Melvins are comimg from....
Frisky Sepia Foreskin
  05/20/22
well this response for one
exhilarant pozpig
  05/20/22
...
glittery ocher friendly grandma space
  05/20/22
...
Comical avocado brethren
  05/20/22
I'm genuinely confused, it's not like I have some history on...
Brindle messiness jewess
  05/20/22
who cares about your "history," its about the shit...
glittery ocher friendly grandma space
  05/20/22
what did he say, that frequent sex with a wife is possible? ...
Slate prole site
  05/20/22
OP isnt about whether you can "possibly" fuck your...
glittery ocher friendly grandma space
  05/20/22
idgi. i am in the same boat as pumanimal. i know from exper...
Slate prole site
  05/20/22
would you say its normal to prefer that over masturbation? ...
glittery ocher friendly grandma space
  05/20/22
yes, i think it's normal. by 'possible' i mean that i pr...
Slate prole site
  05/20/22
fair
glittery ocher friendly grandma space
  05/20/22
if you think what I'm saying is so obviously untrue, I feel ...
Brindle messiness jewess
  05/20/22
When i need it to be fast, absolutely. But if i have 30 minu...
Frisky Sepia Foreskin
  05/20/22
I look forward to masturbating later while I'm having sex wi...
Cerebral newt church
  05/21/22
you sound like a bitch boi
cruel-hearted spot
  05/21/22
100% true for me. My wife is old and overweight and insists ...
Tan vivacious resort
  05/21/22
...
glittery ocher friendly grandma space
  05/21/22
and cheat when I can tp
lfo
  08/26/26
I dont even feel like fumming but my body forces me to like ...
coalition of rabbis
  08/26/26


Poast new message in this thread



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 8:44 AM
Author: glittery ocher friendly grandma space



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543233)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 8:45 AM
Author: curious twinkling uncleanness

in my older age I can’t stand the feeling of an orgasm. too intense. It just irritates me and puts me in a shitty mood

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543235)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2022 9:33 PM
Author: flickering trip elastic band bawdyhouse

Jfc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44551901)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 8:45 AM
Author: Hairless Church Building Sneaky Criminal

I've gone thru periods like this but only v there is some weird fetish that appealed to me. For a few weeks, I was really into chicks high on meth having sex. I know, sick fuck.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543237)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 8:46 AM
Author: curious twinkling uncleanness

That’s pretty mainstream now

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543242)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 10:53 AM
Author: glittery ocher friendly grandma space

other than those periods, youre cool with just fuckin the same woman over the visual stimulation of a wider range of chicks?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543679)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2022 9:34 PM
Author: flickering trip elastic band bawdyhouse

Link?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44551907)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 8:48 AM
Author: Offensive whorehouse mad-dog skullcap

Describe your wife’s appearance and the tightness of her puss

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543244)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 10:55 AM
Author: hideous nofapping faggot firefighter corner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543693)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 10:55 AM
Author: Slate prole site

no

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543698)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 11:02 AM
Author: territorial gaped location deer antler

i'm like this, my wife too. it's just so much easier.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543739)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 11:04 AM
Author: glittery ocher friendly grandma space

Its just understood and theres no resentment? What your wife fantasize about?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543750)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 11:06 AM
Author: territorial gaped location deer antler

i think she wishes we had sex more often but she accepts that it's a normal part of marriage. none of her friends fuck their spouses anymore either. and even when we do it's kind of comical, like, what the fuck are we doing we feel like siblings?

i don't know what she fantasizes about but she watches porn.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543759)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 11:10 AM
Author: glittery ocher friendly grandma space

so its more on your end and she does it as a response to your lack of drive?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543778)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 11:24 AM
Author: territorial gaped location deer antler

yeah that's fair. i have no interest in fucking her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543844)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 11:32 AM
Author: Slate prole site

is she overweight? age?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543883)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 11:35 AM
Author: territorial gaped location deer antler

nah she's still pretty thin, not super fit like when we met but not fat at all. we've just fought so much over the years that i don't have any desire for her anymore. she feels more like a roommate that i have to constantly negotiate with. also maybe some of it is due to COVID and spending literally 24/7 together for 2 years. we're 40.

but again, it's totally normal not to fuck anymore after 10 years of marriage. hell most people stop after 3 or 4 years. it just gets old man and familiarity breeds contempt.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543899)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 11:43 AM
Author: Slate prole site

i've been with my wife for 12 years, married to her for 7 years and i still want to fuck her daily. in practice we only manage 2-4 times per week, largely bc her sex drive is less than mine and life isn't easy with two kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543956)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 11:48 AM
Author: territorial gaped location deer antler

good for you two.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544022)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 12:04 PM
Author: Slate prole site

Bad for me, bc I get turned down for sex a couple days a week

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544124)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 3:09 PM
Author: magical jet temple

2-4x is really not bad though IMO. Look around on XO - tons of these guys' wives won't fuck them at all.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44545213)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 11:43 AM
Author: glittery ocher friendly grandma space

Yeah i dont think its about objective physical attractiveness. Just arguing and hashing out all the real life shit doesn't do anything to increase sexual desire compared to some hot chick whose psychological hangups you know nothing about lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543961)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 11:48 AM
Author: territorial gaped location deer antler

yeah i mean if some hot new slut came into my life i'd be fucking her several times a day, but eventually we'd get to the same point. it's all so tiresome.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544016)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 11:54 AM
Author: copper field mad cow disease

Life is miserable isn’t it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544062)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 11:55 AM
Author: territorial gaped location deer antler

for the most part.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544063)



Reply Favorite

Date: August 26th, 2026 9:52 AM
Author: Monikor



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#50093926)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 12:17 PM
Author: Charcoal disrespectful pit ladyboy

COVID killed it for sure. You can't be around someone nearly 24/7 and keep a spark going. You just become roommates or siblings. She's been sick this week, so we've started sleeping in different rooms and it's been 180. I feel great when I wake up in the morning.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544182)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 3:05 PM
Author: Slate prole site

my wife and i both worked from home for about 15 months during COVID. but yeah, we sleep in separate rooms at least 3 or 4 times a month and it helped.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44545191)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2022 9:28 PM
Author: shimmering hairy legs multi-billionaire

*2 years of marriage

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44551859)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 11:34 AM
Author: exhilarant pozpig

rare honesty

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543890)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 1:52 PM
Author: Fantasy-prone crawly hell



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544744)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 11:14 AM
Author: Brindle messiness jewess

you are a slave, a perfect subject for Zuck's "metaverse," a terminal faggot who prefers the simulacrum to the real

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543794)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 11:22 AM
Author: glittery ocher friendly grandma space

oh ok

*gets dick hard to fuck aging woman who just griped about the work entailed in raising 2 kids, bitched about her coworkers, and detailed the intricacies of properly loading the dishwasher*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543836)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 11:24 AM
Author: Brindle messiness jewess

(*gets dick hard for digital image of woman he will never touch tenderly penetrated by two dicks he begins to secretly wish were inside him*)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543848)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 11:34 AM
Author: exhilarant pozpig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543894)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 11:24 AM
Author: Comical avocado brethren

Women view sex as a “give” and they want to take from you after it

That’s why it’s not worth it half the time

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543845)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 11:28 AM
Author: Brindle messiness jewess

not all relationships degrade into transactionalism

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543864)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 11:30 AM
Author: Comical avocado brethren

Go get married and report back after a couple years, sucker

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543875)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 11:39 AM
Author: Brindle messiness jewess

I've been married well over a decade

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543932)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 11:40 AM
Author: Comical avocado brethren

And how often do you have sex? You’re trying to argue with a straight face she doesn’t use sex to extract resources?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543938)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 11:49 AM
Author: Brindle messiness jewess

frequently & yes.

presumably you were in a relationship where this *didn't* happen at some point, right?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544027)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 11:50 AM
Author: bespoke son of senegal fanboi

xo posters are betabucks losers that women only fuck for resources.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544035)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 11:51 AM
Author: Comical avocado brethren

Relationships are not the same as marriage & you’re a liar, hth

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544042)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 11:53 AM
Author: Brindle messiness jewess

why would I lie to you? what have I ever done on XO that would make me come off as a liar. please tell me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544055)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 11:57 AM
Author: glittery ocher friendly grandma space

lol cmon man

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544083)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 11:58 AM
Author: Comical avocado brethren

You’re pumo scum you tell me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544088)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 12:01 PM
Author: Brindle messiness jewess

pumanimals are not pumos, come on

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544107)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 12:05 PM
Author: Frisky Sepia Foreskin



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544128)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 2:18 PM
Author: Frisky Sepia Foreskin

So, you need to understand where xo Melvins are comimg from. They don't choose women based on being a good fit. In fact, they think the women who are like them (intelligent and disinterested in getting dolled up) are the bane of this world. So, instead they date whores. Since they never even attempt to have a real relationship, it's transactional. And since they are so repulsive, the women constantly feel like they've been screwed in this deal, and get more bitter and angry and exploitative of their pathetic excuse of a husband.

Don't feel bad that these people can't understand our lives.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544916)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 12:00 PM
Author: exhilarant pozpig

well this response for one

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544097)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 12:01 PM
Author: glittery ocher friendly grandma space



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544103)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 12:01 PM
Author: Comical avocado brethren



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544105)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 12:03 PM
Author: Brindle messiness jewess

I'm genuinely confused, it's not like I have some history on the boart of being a braggart, then I could understand.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544120)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 12:06 PM
Author: glittery ocher friendly grandma space

who cares about your "history," its about the shit youre saying

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544134)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 12:09 PM
Author: Slate prole site

what did he say, that frequent sex with a wife is possible? depends how you define frequent, but multiple times per week is certainly possible even after years of marriage

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544146)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 12:15 PM
Author: glittery ocher friendly grandma space

OP isnt about whether you can "possibly" fuck your wife a couple times a week

question is about preference

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544174)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 12:18 PM
Author: Slate prole site

idgi. i am in the same boat as pumanimal. i know from experience it's possible to prefer and engage in frequent sex with your wife after years of marriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544188)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 12:20 PM
Author: glittery ocher friendly grandma space

would you say its normal to prefer that over masturbation?

dont know where "possible" became the standard

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544205)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 12:23 PM
Author: Slate prole site

yes, i think it's normal.

by 'possible' i mean that i prefer sex with my wife over masturbation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544220)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 12:27 PM
Author: glittery ocher friendly grandma space

fair

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544237)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 12:16 PM
Author: Brindle messiness jewess

if you think what I'm saying is so obviously untrue, I feel sorry for you, and will say a prayer for you, pumo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544175)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 20th, 2022 2:19 PM
Author: Frisky Sepia Foreskin

When i need it to be fast, absolutely. But if i have 30 minutes to spare, i like going to pound town

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544919)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2022 4:28 AM
Author: Cerebral newt church

I look forward to masturbating later while I'm having sex with my wife

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44548580)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2022 10:00 PM
Author: cruel-hearted spot

you sound like a bitch boi

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44552039)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2022 9:41 PM
Author: Tan vivacious resort

100% true for me. My wife is old and overweight and insists that I finger her for like an hour before I can go inside. It's just not worth that much work for low-quality sex. I'd rather just quickly jack off before bed and cheat when I can.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44551937)



Reply Favorite

Date: May 21st, 2022 9:55 PM
Author: glittery ocher friendly grandma space



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44552011)



Reply Favorite

Date: August 26th, 2026 9:52 AM
Author: lfo

and cheat when I can tp

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#50093928)



Reply Favorite

Date: August 26th, 2026 9:54 AM
Author: coalition of rabbis

I dont even feel like fumming but my body forces me to like eating or breathing

Def don't want sex anymore

Barely can even get hard for wife

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#50093931)