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Normal to prefer masturbation over sex with wife?

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concupiscible ungodly water buffalo
  05/20/22
in my older age I can’t stand the feeling of an orgasm...
Bateful Sadistic Double Fault
  05/20/22
Jfc
Jet-lagged Temple Internal Respiration
  05/21/22
I've gone thru periods like this but only v there is some we...
Glittery Aquamarine Regret
  05/20/22
That’s pretty mainstream now
Bateful Sadistic Double Fault
  05/20/22
other than those periods, youre cool with just fuckin the sa...
concupiscible ungodly water buffalo
  05/20/22
Link?
Jet-lagged Temple Internal Respiration
  05/21/22
Describe your wife’s appearance and the tightness of h...
awkward greedy hospital
  05/20/22
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Adventurous magenta milk locus
  05/20/22
no
boyish startling dysfunction state
  05/20/22
i'm like this, my wife too. it's just so much easier.
cream public bath
  05/20/22
Its just understood and theres no resentment? What your wife...
concupiscible ungodly water buffalo
  05/20/22
i think she wishes we had sex more often but she accepts tha...
cream public bath
  05/20/22
so its more on your end and she does it as a response to you...
concupiscible ungodly water buffalo
  05/20/22
yeah that's fair. i have no interest in fucking her.
cream public bath
  05/20/22
is she overweight? age?
boyish startling dysfunction state
  05/20/22
nah she's still pretty thin, not super fit like when we met ...
cream public bath
  05/20/22
i've been with my wife for 12 years, married to her for 7 ye...
boyish startling dysfunction state
  05/20/22
good for you two.
cream public bath
  05/20/22
Bad for me, bc I get turned down for sex a couple days a wee...
boyish startling dysfunction state
  05/20/22
2-4x is really not bad though IMO. Look around on XO - tons...
Vibrant Kitchen Dog Poop
  05/20/22
Yeah i dont think its about objective physical attractivenes...
concupiscible ungodly water buffalo
  05/20/22
yeah i mean if some hot new slut came into my life i'd be fu...
cream public bath
  05/20/22
Life is miserable isn’t it
naked puppy pit
  05/20/22
for the most part.
cream public bath
  05/20/22
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Monikor
  08/26/26
COVID killed it for sure. You can't be around someone nearly...
Self-centered Puce Therapy Fanboi
  05/20/22
my wife and i both worked from home for about 15 months duri...
boyish startling dysfunction state
  05/20/22
*2 years of marriage
emerald brunch
  05/21/22
rare honesty
arousing smoky elastic band
  05/20/22
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ruddy erotic messiness school
  05/20/22
you are a slave, a perfect subject for Zuck's "metavers...
Brass trump supporter
  05/20/22
oh ok *gets dick hard to fuck aging woman who just griped...
concupiscible ungodly water buffalo
  05/20/22
(*gets dick hard for digital image of woman he will never to...
Brass trump supporter
  05/20/22
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arousing smoky elastic band
  05/20/22
Women view sex as a “give” and they want to take...
Olive step-uncle's house faggot firefighter
  05/20/22
not all relationships degrade into transactionalism
Brass trump supporter
  05/20/22
Go get married and report back after a couple years, sucker
Olive step-uncle's house faggot firefighter
  05/20/22
I've been married well over a decade
Brass trump supporter
  05/20/22
And how often do you have sex? You’re trying to argue...
Olive step-uncle's house faggot firefighter
  05/20/22
frequently & yes. presumably you were in a relationsh...
Brass trump supporter
  05/20/22
xo posters are betabucks losers that women only fuck for res...
Embarrassed To The Bone Marvelous Roast Beef Faggotry
  05/20/22
Relationships are not the same as marriage & you’r...
Olive step-uncle's house faggot firefighter
  05/20/22
why would I lie to you? what have I ever done on XO that wou...
Brass trump supporter
  05/20/22
lol cmon man
concupiscible ungodly water buffalo
  05/20/22
You’re pumo scum you tell me
Olive step-uncle's house faggot firefighter
  05/20/22
pumanimals are not pumos, come on
Brass trump supporter
  05/20/22
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primrose vivacious hall
  05/20/22
So, you need to understand where xo Melvins are comimg from....
primrose vivacious hall
  05/20/22
well this response for one
arousing smoky elastic band
  05/20/22
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concupiscible ungodly water buffalo
  05/20/22
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Olive step-uncle's house faggot firefighter
  05/20/22
I'm genuinely confused, it's not like I have some history on...
Brass trump supporter
  05/20/22
who cares about your "history," its about the shit...
concupiscible ungodly water buffalo
  05/20/22
what did he say, that frequent sex with a wife is possible? ...
boyish startling dysfunction state
  05/20/22
OP isnt about whether you can "possibly" fuck your...
concupiscible ungodly water buffalo
  05/20/22
idgi. i am in the same boat as pumanimal. i know from exper...
boyish startling dysfunction state
  05/20/22
would you say its normal to prefer that over masturbation? ...
concupiscible ungodly water buffalo
  05/20/22
yes, i think it's normal. by 'possible' i mean that i pr...
boyish startling dysfunction state
  05/20/22
fair
concupiscible ungodly water buffalo
  05/20/22
if you think what I'm saying is so obviously untrue, I feel ...
Brass trump supporter
  05/20/22
When i need it to be fast, absolutely. But if i have 30 minu...
primrose vivacious hall
  05/20/22
I look forward to masturbating later while I'm having sex wi...
painfully honest motley meetinghouse pervert
  05/21/22
you sound like a bitch boi
sickened rehab becky
  05/21/22
100% true for me. My wife is old and overweight and insists ...
translucent contagious menage
  05/21/22
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concupiscible ungodly water buffalo
  05/21/22
and cheat when I can tp
lfo
  08/26/26
I dont even feel like fumming but my body forces me to like ...
coalition of rabbis
  08/26/26


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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:44 AM
Author: concupiscible ungodly water buffalo



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543233)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:45 AM
Author: Bateful Sadistic Double Fault

in my older age I can’t stand the feeling of an orgasm. too intense. It just irritates me and puts me in a shitty mood

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543235)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:33 PM
Author: Jet-lagged Temple Internal Respiration

Jfc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44551901)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:45 AM
Author: Glittery Aquamarine Regret

I've gone thru periods like this but only v there is some weird fetish that appealed to me. For a few weeks, I was really into chicks high on meth having sex. I know, sick fuck.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543237)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:46 AM
Author: Bateful Sadistic Double Fault

That’s pretty mainstream now

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543242)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 10:53 AM
Author: concupiscible ungodly water buffalo

other than those periods, youre cool with just fuckin the same woman over the visual stimulation of a wider range of chicks?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543679)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:34 PM
Author: Jet-lagged Temple Internal Respiration

Link?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44551907)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:48 AM
Author: awkward greedy hospital

Describe your wife’s appearance and the tightness of her puss

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543244)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 10:55 AM
Author: Adventurous magenta milk locus



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543693)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 10:55 AM
Author: boyish startling dysfunction state

no

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543698)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:02 AM
Author: cream public bath

i'm like this, my wife too. it's just so much easier.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543739)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:04 AM
Author: concupiscible ungodly water buffalo

Its just understood and theres no resentment? What your wife fantasize about?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543750)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:06 AM
Author: cream public bath

i think she wishes we had sex more often but she accepts that it's a normal part of marriage. none of her friends fuck their spouses anymore either. and even when we do it's kind of comical, like, what the fuck are we doing we feel like siblings?

i don't know what she fantasizes about but she watches porn.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543759)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:10 AM
Author: concupiscible ungodly water buffalo

so its more on your end and she does it as a response to your lack of drive?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543778)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:24 AM
Author: cream public bath

yeah that's fair. i have no interest in fucking her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543844)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:32 AM
Author: boyish startling dysfunction state

is she overweight? age?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543883)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:35 AM
Author: cream public bath

nah she's still pretty thin, not super fit like when we met but not fat at all. we've just fought so much over the years that i don't have any desire for her anymore. she feels more like a roommate that i have to constantly negotiate with. also maybe some of it is due to COVID and spending literally 24/7 together for 2 years. we're 40.

but again, it's totally normal not to fuck anymore after 10 years of marriage. hell most people stop after 3 or 4 years. it just gets old man and familiarity breeds contempt.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543899)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:43 AM
Author: boyish startling dysfunction state

i've been with my wife for 12 years, married to her for 7 years and i still want to fuck her daily. in practice we only manage 2-4 times per week, largely bc her sex drive is less than mine and life isn't easy with two kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543956)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:48 AM
Author: cream public bath

good for you two.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544022)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:04 PM
Author: boyish startling dysfunction state

Bad for me, bc I get turned down for sex a couple days a week

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544124)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 3:09 PM
Author: Vibrant Kitchen Dog Poop

2-4x is really not bad though IMO. Look around on XO - tons of these guys' wives won't fuck them at all.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44545213)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:43 AM
Author: concupiscible ungodly water buffalo

Yeah i dont think its about objective physical attractiveness. Just arguing and hashing out all the real life shit doesn't do anything to increase sexual desire compared to some hot chick whose psychological hangups you know nothing about lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543961)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:48 AM
Author: cream public bath

yeah i mean if some hot new slut came into my life i'd be fucking her several times a day, but eventually we'd get to the same point. it's all so tiresome.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544016)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:54 AM
Author: naked puppy pit

Life is miserable isn’t it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544062)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:55 AM
Author: cream public bath

for the most part.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544063)



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Date: August 26th, 2026 9:52 AM
Author: Monikor



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#50093926)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:17 PM
Author: Self-centered Puce Therapy Fanboi

COVID killed it for sure. You can't be around someone nearly 24/7 and keep a spark going. You just become roommates or siblings. She's been sick this week, so we've started sleeping in different rooms and it's been 180. I feel great when I wake up in the morning.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544182)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 3:05 PM
Author: boyish startling dysfunction state

my wife and i both worked from home for about 15 months during COVID. but yeah, we sleep in separate rooms at least 3 or 4 times a month and it helped.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44545191)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:28 PM
Author: emerald brunch

*2 years of marriage

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44551859)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:34 AM
Author: arousing smoky elastic band

rare honesty

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543890)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 1:52 PM
Author: ruddy erotic messiness school



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544744)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:14 AM
Author: Brass trump supporter

you are a slave, a perfect subject for Zuck's "metaverse," a terminal faggot who prefers the simulacrum to the real

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543794)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:22 AM
Author: concupiscible ungodly water buffalo

oh ok

*gets dick hard to fuck aging woman who just griped about the work entailed in raising 2 kids, bitched about her coworkers, and detailed the intricacies of properly loading the dishwasher*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543836)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:24 AM
Author: Brass trump supporter

(*gets dick hard for digital image of woman he will never touch tenderly penetrated by two dicks he begins to secretly wish were inside him*)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543848)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:34 AM
Author: arousing smoky elastic band



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543894)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:24 AM
Author: Olive step-uncle's house faggot firefighter

Women view sex as a “give” and they want to take from you after it

That’s why it’s not worth it half the time

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543845)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:28 AM
Author: Brass trump supporter

not all relationships degrade into transactionalism

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543864)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:30 AM
Author: Olive step-uncle's house faggot firefighter

Go get married and report back after a couple years, sucker

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543875)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:39 AM
Author: Brass trump supporter

I've been married well over a decade

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543932)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:40 AM
Author: Olive step-uncle's house faggot firefighter

And how often do you have sex? You’re trying to argue with a straight face she doesn’t use sex to extract resources?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44543938)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:49 AM
Author: Brass trump supporter

frequently & yes.

presumably you were in a relationship where this *didn't* happen at some point, right?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544027)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:50 AM
Author: Embarrassed To The Bone Marvelous Roast Beef Faggotry

xo posters are betabucks losers that women only fuck for resources.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544035)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:51 AM
Author: Olive step-uncle's house faggot firefighter

Relationships are not the same as marriage & you’re a liar, hth

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544042)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:53 AM
Author: Brass trump supporter

why would I lie to you? what have I ever done on XO that would make me come off as a liar. please tell me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544055)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:57 AM
Author: concupiscible ungodly water buffalo

lol cmon man

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544083)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:58 AM
Author: Olive step-uncle's house faggot firefighter

You’re pumo scum you tell me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544088)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:01 PM
Author: Brass trump supporter

pumanimals are not pumos, come on

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544107)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:05 PM
Author: primrose vivacious hall



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544128)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 2:18 PM
Author: primrose vivacious hall

So, you need to understand where xo Melvins are comimg from. They don't choose women based on being a good fit. In fact, they think the women who are like them (intelligent and disinterested in getting dolled up) are the bane of this world. So, instead they date whores. Since they never even attempt to have a real relationship, it's transactional. And since they are so repulsive, the women constantly feel like they've been screwed in this deal, and get more bitter and angry and exploitative of their pathetic excuse of a husband.

Don't feel bad that these people can't understand our lives.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544916)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:00 PM
Author: arousing smoky elastic band

well this response for one

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544097)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:01 PM
Author: concupiscible ungodly water buffalo



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544103)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:01 PM
Author: Olive step-uncle's house faggot firefighter



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544105)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:03 PM
Author: Brass trump supporter

I'm genuinely confused, it's not like I have some history on the boart of being a braggart, then I could understand.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544120)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:06 PM
Author: concupiscible ungodly water buffalo

who cares about your "history," its about the shit youre saying

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544134)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:09 PM
Author: boyish startling dysfunction state

what did he say, that frequent sex with a wife is possible? depends how you define frequent, but multiple times per week is certainly possible even after years of marriage

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544146)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:15 PM
Author: concupiscible ungodly water buffalo

OP isnt about whether you can "possibly" fuck your wife a couple times a week

question is about preference

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544174)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:18 PM
Author: boyish startling dysfunction state

idgi. i am in the same boat as pumanimal. i know from experience it's possible to prefer and engage in frequent sex with your wife after years of marriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544188)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:20 PM
Author: concupiscible ungodly water buffalo

would you say its normal to prefer that over masturbation?

dont know where "possible" became the standard

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544205)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:23 PM
Author: boyish startling dysfunction state

yes, i think it's normal.

by 'possible' i mean that i prefer sex with my wife over masturbation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544220)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:27 PM
Author: concupiscible ungodly water buffalo

fair

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544237)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:16 PM
Author: Brass trump supporter

if you think what I'm saying is so obviously untrue, I feel sorry for you, and will say a prayer for you, pumo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544175)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 2:19 PM
Author: primrose vivacious hall

When i need it to be fast, absolutely. But if i have 30 minutes to spare, i like going to pound town

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44544919)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 4:28 AM
Author: painfully honest motley meetinghouse pervert

I look forward to masturbating later while I'm having sex with my wife

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44548580)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 10:00 PM
Author: sickened rehab becky

you sound like a bitch boi

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44552039)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:41 PM
Author: translucent contagious menage

100% true for me. My wife is old and overweight and insists that I finger her for like an hour before I can go inside. It's just not worth that much work for low-quality sex. I'd rather just quickly jack off before bed and cheat when I can.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44551937)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:55 PM
Author: concupiscible ungodly water buffalo



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#44552011)



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Date: August 26th, 2026 9:52 AM
Author: lfo

and cheat when I can tp

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#50093928)



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Date: August 26th, 2026 9:54 AM
Author: coalition of rabbis

I dont even feel like fumming but my body forces me to like eating or breathing

Def don't want sex anymore

Barely can even get hard for wife

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2E#50093931)