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Incredibly good-looking, successful nd wants me to move to Falls Church, VA
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Date: July 31st, 2021 9:39 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier so I'm sure you guys won't believe in saying a really good looking guy but he just texted me a selfie so ill screenshot it if you guys Really want proof that badly.
So I've found myself in an LDR...again. but this guy lives in Falls Church, VA which is a nice but boring suburb of DC. He wants me to move down there with him. He has a really lucrative job at a F500 company o it makes more sense for me to move than him to come to NYC (I have been working remotely ever since I got my new job last April and will be doing so for the foreseeable future).
So... I love him and am willing to leave my life and friends and family to be with him but... I do not want to live in the burbs. I want him to sell his house and move to DC. Is this too much to ask? I'm sacrificing to be with him and all that I ask is that we live in the city. It will be easier for him as well since he works in DC and he won't have to commute anymore. He doesn't want to move though and he says we will need a house once we marry and have kids so it makes no sense to move.
Who is in the right here? |
Date: July 31st, 2021 9:40 AM Author: hairraiser cyan juggernaut boiling water LMAO
Couldn’t handle Box getting some attention, could you? |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 9:41 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier Is the Box back too?
Awesome!
Hey girl, holla at a sister. |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:53 AM Author: Jet wild office filthpig ❤❤❤ hello! we briefly talked in the other thread - i think he sounds great, and no strong opinion on the location thing. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874713) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 9:40 AM Author: Anal church building Why do you want to live in the city so bad? Dc isn't NYC (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874438) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 9:42 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier I know; I've been spending a lot of time there since its where we normally hang out there when I'm visiting him. But Falls Church is so, so boring. OMG there is nothing to do there.
He doesn't care bc all he does is play tennis and golf and he belongs to a country club there but I want restaurants, nightlife, shopping etc. He tells me to grow up and says those things won't matter since we plan to have kids in a few years anyway. |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 9:43 AM Author: Anal church building What is there to do in DC? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874445) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 9:49 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier Bars, clubs, restaurants, shopping, tons of museuMs/galleries, black people (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874460) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:56 AM Author: Jet wild office filthpig are you within a reasonable distance to just go out in the city? like when i lived in long beach i went out in LA all the time and that was like 25mi. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874723) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:59 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier It should only take like 20 minutes to half an hour but sometimes the traffic can be REALLY bad. You're from the DMV right?How was it following up in a random DC suburb? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874734) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:07 AM Author: Jet wild office filthpig yeah it can get rly bad on the beltway etc. same shit in LA though... i just chilled in an uber. it wasn't rly a big deal (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874781) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:08 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier How is your life going?
Are you still in a band? Are you still dating the black guy? |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:11 AM Author: Jet wild office filthpig still in the band and it's my favorite thing ever! and omg ex turned out to be a disaster, there are threads abt it, he's out of the picture =D i'm boutta pass out, hope to catch u later (tho neither of us should stick around for long) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874811) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:13 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier Yeah I'm definitely not sticking around for long.
I am so much more positive and happy when I am away from this place. It's just too negative. |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 9:43 AM Author: Magenta thriller stage circlehead FC is a great place to live. One of the nation’s best leafy, sleepy little towns. Really sad that it’s starting to slide into decay if the likes of you are able to move there. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874446) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 9:48 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier LMAO
I prob couldn't afford to live there on my own. I'm just hypergamous and happen to be dating a guy who owns a home there.
What do you like about Falls Church? I find it to be so boring. |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 9:51 AM Author: mint lodge I'm sure you can find a heroin dealer in Falls Church, don't worry. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874466) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 9:53 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier lol I haven't done any opiates in years
I didn't even use all of the Percocet I was prescribed for dental trouble in December.
Oh and there are most certainly NOT heroin dealers in this place LOL |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 9:56 AM Author: Nubile Citrine Marketing Idea So what exactly do you do together? Do you go to the country club? Are you going into DC multiple times a week? Seems like you have very different interests. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874483) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:00 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier I go visit him for long periods of time bc I can work from wherever. He rarely comea to NYC. WHEN I'M down in the DMV we go to restaurants, hang out at his club (I am horribly unathlwtic but he loves sports so he tries to teach me), we go to malls (never seen so many malls in one place), we hang out at his house, go visit his friends in the area... I don't know, old people stuff.
We don't have much in common and I don't know that I'm passionately in love with him but my family loves him and he is perfect on paper (tall, good-looking, Ivy-educated, UMC black man never married/no kids) and he wants to marry me for some reason. Oh he also has a big dick. 😍 |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 9:59 AM Author: Burgundy point preventive strike "He doesn't want to move though and he says we will need a house once we marry and have kids so it makes no sense to move."
whats wrong with this? |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:00 AM Author: mint lodge You must be new to BSthreading. Her interests start and end with MEMEMEMEMEMEMEMEMEMEMEMEMEMEME. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874495) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:04 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier Inagine my basing my major life decisions on what will make me happy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874511) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:05 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier Nothing is wrong with it but I want to eke out a few more years of quasi-youth/city-living. I want to marry at 38 and have a kid at 39. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874514) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:06 AM Author: Burgundy point preventive strike you should pop out kids now otherwise they will get autism pwned and end up like Chris-chan (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874518) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:17 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier lol who's Chris Chan (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874558) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:08 AM Author: Diverse mood corner Which club? DC country clubs are fairly stratified (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874522) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:17 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier (Doobs) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874562) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:50 AM Author: Diverse mood corner (NOT welcome at Chevy Chase, Bannockburn, or Congressional) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874690) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:55 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier I dont know what those are but I doubt his club is one of the "top" ones.
Hes black and only 39. |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:13 AM Author: Diverse mood corner At least you’re honest about it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874828) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:11 AM Author: Vibrant Station I hope you froze your eggs
Get a condo in the city for weekends and live in falls church |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:18 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier I don't think he's go for this
He makes a lot of money but he's frugal |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:25 AM Author: dashing bronze range Wait, so your last LDR didn’t work out? Lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874598) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:30 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier Since no one asked for proof...
What do you guys rate him? |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:32 AM Author: 180 skinny woman background story BS, you're now childless and pushing 40. Any port in a storm. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874622) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:33 AM Author: hairraiser cyan juggernaut boiling water (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874624) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:34 AM Author: mint lodge You don't understand ... she NEEDS to be with her fellow hoodrats on nights and weekends ... she DESERVES her happiness. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874630) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:41 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier lol...hoodrats?
Do you think of my life as a Megan the Stallion video?
Most of my friends are like accountants who went to Princeton or something. |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:42 AM Author: mint lodge Lots of heroin addicts from the ivy league, eh? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874655) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:51 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier I don't think I have ever had a "friend" who was a heroin addict (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874697) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:35 AM Author: dashing bronze range Nope, she *has* to live in the city, or else! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874637) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:40 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier Spinsterhood may be preferable to Falls Church. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874648) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:38 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier My bad
Thoughts? |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:40 AM Author: mint lodge fulano, evan39, earl ... your thoughts? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874646) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:45 AM Author: Magenta thriller stage circlehead White genetics and good nutrition have given him light skin and some length of bone, but he’s just 3 generations from living in a house with a dirt floor (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874671) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:57 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier That's another thing.
Both of us are white as fuck so our kids would have absolutely no melanin. 😞 I have always wanted to have brown children. |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:58 AM Author: Rusted ceo Dark Ben Affleck (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874730) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:00 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier I think he is incredibly good looking.
I honestly dont know how he went this long without some woman snapping him up. Hes like perfect. |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:10 AM Author: wonderful amethyst degenerate trailer park he's gay (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874803) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:13 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier I knew xoxo would say that!
Well if he's gay why is he choosing to marry a beard now rather than all the other chances he must have had before? |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:15 AM Author: wonderful amethyst degenerate trailer park needs to start on family at this age (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874838) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:02 AM Author: Jet wild office filthpig he is super attractive, u guys are prob so cute together 😭
obviously don't ignore any 🚩🚩🚩s or irreconcilable preferences. but if it's more a matter of u thinking he's kinda boring... ur still getting to know him, which some ppl say is the best part of relationships! |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:05 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier No I know him. We have been dating over a year lol. I would never consider moving to live with some guy I had just started dating.
And thank you I think we are really cute together too.
No lie: One time we were on the DC metro and this old white lady came up to us and was like "You two young people are so good looking." I wish I could have filmed it because no one believes us when we tell the story. |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:08 AM Author: Jet wild office filthpig no like there's that thing ppl say about how marriage is a constant process of getting to know each other and that's the beauty of it!!
THAT'S AMAZING. CALLED IT. |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:09 AM Author: Scarlet Haunting Candlestick Maker International Law Enforcement Agency (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874797) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:10 AM Author: Curious bright rigpig space An aesthetic bro (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874799) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:11 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier Yeah I think our kids would be really good looking (if white). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874808) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:16 AM Author: Curious bright rigpig space You need to lock this down. The guy has a model face and really strong features. As long as his personality is tolerable, hard to do better (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874844) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:20 AM Author: Bipolar piazza Didn’t even ask about height. Flame (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874869) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:22 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier He's 6'2!
Its amazing right! |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:13 AM Author: Burgundy point preventive strike gorgeous dude, u should move to VA and pop out kids (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874826) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:17 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier :-D (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874856) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:45 AM Author: Bipolar piazza I thought you were getting married to that psychiatrist.
Anyway let us know when he actually puts on a ring on it. That or pull the goalie and try to get oops pregnant. |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:47 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier The psychiatrist thing was flame.
I said as much itt.
anyway he's certainly not going to marry me unless I move to be with him. do you think I should? or should I try to force him to come to dc? |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:01 AM Author: Bipolar piazza Well I assume if he proposes you’ll move down there. Why not wait for the ring? Make him show some commitment. He looks like a player (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874746) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:04 AM Author: Jet wild office filthpig it sounds like he's rly close to DC; you can just uber or drive there! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874762) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:11 AM Author: Bipolar piazza Nlog (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874806) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:12 AM Author: deranged jap cuck I've never liked you but I'll give some real advice itt. You're either all the way in or all the way out here. Making him move to DC so you can party means starting the next phase of the relationship in a shitty compromise for both of you, it's going to amp up the conflict every weekend when it comes to social activities, and it's still just kicking the can down the road for the eventual fight over a move back out of the city.
Also DC proper sucks now but that's neither here nor there.
Your boy is a housecat. That's fine but either accept it or don't. Don't try and turn a housewife into a ho. |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:14 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier why don't you like me :(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(: (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874834) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:15 AM Author: Scarlet Haunting Candlestick Maker International Law Enforcement Agency (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874835) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:15 AM Author: Scarlet Haunting Candlestick Maker International Law Enforcement Agency (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874836) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:37 PM Author: Multi-colored Low-t Brunch Electric Furnace Oh he also has a big dick. 😍 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42877778) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:16 AM Author: Passionate Main People Theater Stage Lmao at this don lemmon lookalike cornball brotha (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874846) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:17 AM Author: Bipolar piazza You think he’s down low? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874855) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:17 AM Author: Curious bright rigpig space BS what are you doing these days? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874854) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:18 AM Author: Gold corn cake state I don't understand your desire to want to live in a 'big city' environment if you're already in a serious relationship and are on the older side to go club hopping or whatever (although some people never lose that thirst even as they age, I guess), but are you aware that Falls Church is a 30 minute Metro ride away from downtown DC? You can park in the lot on Friday at 5pm, wait 15 minutes at most for the next train, and be in downtown DC 30 minutes later. Even if you have to Uber back at night, between you and your F500 man it shouldn't be too much of a financial hit. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874860) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:25 AM Author: beady-eyed chest-beating famous landscape painting You should put a houseswap request on Craigslist. Your falls church SFH for DC condo. You’ll be inundated with offers (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874887) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:26 AM Author: Vibrant Station Why don't you both move to Atlanta, the black people capital of the US? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874895) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:27 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier He has a really good job in DC and has no desire to change. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874898) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:31 AM Author: Bespoke brilliant address It sounds like you have a lot in common so I really see a bright future ahead for you two. Best of luck. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874918) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 8:56 PM Author: Peach High-end Lay (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42877179) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:33 PM Author: Multi-colored Low-t Brunch Electric Furnace (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42877762) |
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Date: August 1st, 2021 1:11 AM Author: Thirsty dopamine (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42878109) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:38 AM Author: salmon vivacious public bath I guess I don't get what "the city" gives you over Falls Church. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874939) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:43 AM Author: Diverse mood corner The CULTURE (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42874966) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 9:21 PM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier I don't know man
I'm just a city girl
I was born and raised in one of the largest cities in the world. I've never lived outside of a city except for grad school and that was different because the school had its own vibe going on.
I like noise and lots of people and shit going on all times of night. I'm just used to it. Is this wrong? |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 10:44 PM Author: salmon vivacious public bath Put on a noise machine in your room. Or just plan on an Uber to the city for a fix on regular occasion. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42877558) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 9:13 PM Author: Hot rebellious coffee pot Sometimes I get second thoughts creeping into my head about spamming misogynistic and racist posts on this board but then I see something like this that re-assures me that I need to re-double my efforts (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42877237) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 9:18 PM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier I'm glad I can be a scapegoat for both your racism and misogyny -killing two birds with one stone 😉 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42877255) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 9:30 PM Author: Territorial resort You are in the wrong here. This guy should ditch you for someone better. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42877285) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:20 PM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier LOL why?
He is really into me for aome reason. No idea why. We have a ton of mutual friends on Facebook so it suggested us to each other. He messaged me and said he thought I was beautiful. 😍 |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:23 PM Author: Territorial resort because he's right. you're what, like 40? if you have no friends or family down there who are you going to club with? what's the point at that age? you're not 34 anymore, and isn't clubbing just about getting drunk and coppin strange?
making him move is ridiculous. he probably wants a family, so moving into dc (which is a complete shithole) is insane and stupid. |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:25 PM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier I will take this under advisement. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42877715) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:27 PM Author: Territorial resort this is probably your best last chance at family life. but judging by your op you won't realize it's too late until it's already 2-3 years too late (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42877723) |
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Date: August 7th, 2021 9:57 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier I am as close to 34 as I am a to 40 you as whole. Closer actually. I have only been 37 for 3 months. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42911213) |
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Date: August 7th, 2021 9:58 AM Author: Bipolar piazza Yeah but post 35 fertility drops off a cliff (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42911215) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:26 PM Author: Jet wild office filthpig bc you're hot and funny and smart and well-educated and interesting!! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42877722) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:27 PM Author: Territorial resort this has all been thoroughly debunked (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42877725) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:31 PM Author: Jet wild office filthpig false (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42877753) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:32 PM Author: Territorial resort link? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42877756) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:33 PM Author: Jet wild office filthpig i've seen plenty of pix and poasts 😊 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42877761) |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:37 PM Author: Territorial resort non-responsive. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42877783) |
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Date: August 1st, 2021 1:15 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier Thanks boxy
I think I am objectively smart (supported by my perrformance on the Specialized HS Admissions Test, the SAT, the LSAT and acceptances to various schools which I need not list), well educated (as I said Stuy, Yale and grad degree from a decent if not stellar school is well educated to 99% of people) and interesting (I don't want to go into it here but I really have found myself in some crazy life situations)
sorta funny for a girl
somewhat attractive - maybe considered hot to guys who are really into my body type but just ok to most
If we're being honest. |
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Date: August 1st, 2021 12:36 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier Oh come on
You can't deny I'm well educated and interesting. 😉 |
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Date: August 1st, 2021 12:38 AM Author: Territorial resort I can and will. You seem boring irl (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42878003) |
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Date: August 1st, 2021 12:40 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier So going to Stuyvesant and Yale and having a grad degree isn't well educated? What must one do to be well educated then?
My IRL is even more interesting. All my friends are always telling me I should write a book about my life. I have been in a lot of...unusual situations. |
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Date: August 1st, 2021 12:46 AM Author: Territorial resort Yeah I'm not sure how going to yale makes you well-educated. well, maybe you are "well-educated", but I wouldn't say you're learned in anything. Also, you're a former junkie who hasn't really utilized the degree you have.
Are all these friends also telling you to continue partying it up, offering empty Yasss KWEEEN! compliments that only push you to continue making the same bad decisions you always make? |
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Date: August 1st, 2021 12:48 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier lol wow why the hostility?
I don't even remember your name so I cant have done anything to you
Did I call you an aspire at some point? If so I apologize; that wasn't very nice of me. 😞 |
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Date: August 1st, 2021 12:49 AM Author: Territorial resort no, just being honest. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42878040) |
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Date: August 1st, 2021 12:53 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier But you're not... You're just tryinf to get my goat. I just dont see a world in which I'm not well educated
You realize only 25% of Americans even have a college degree right? Someone who went to one of the most selective high schools in the country and one of the most selective colleges and has a grad degree is way ahead of most
I never said I was successful, just educated and I'm not sure what drug use has to do with being educated. |
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Date: August 1st, 2021 12:59 AM Author: Territorial resort i am. no one is impressed by a druggie with a yale degree that's not being used. I know plenty of ivy league trustafarians who are just like you. no one considers them "well-educated", and there's a difference between being "educated" and being "learned". it's actually more of a negative mark. like, wow, ivy league degree and couldn't do anything with it? what is wrong with them?
sure. you were ahead of people who didn't get the opportunities that you did, but you also squandered them, so you're back on their level. which imo makes you dumber than they are. they didn't have the unfair privilege you did, and yet you're still on their level, unable to get ahead of them.
you also didn't respond to the empty yass kween section, so I assume that's correct. |
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Date: August 1st, 2021 1:01 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier Oh god what did I do to get this rambling tirade that doesn't respond to any of my points? I wonder what "unfair privilege" got me into Stuyvesant, a school to which admissions is solely based on pwning an exam and no affirmative action is utilized. Oh well.
Good night man. |
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Date: August 1st, 2021 1:03 AM Author: Territorial resort non-responsive. I will accept your concession on all points, even after you edited. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42878083) |
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Date: August 7th, 2021 10:16 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier lol I didn't concede to shit
You're bringing up all sorts of weird shit that has nothing to do with being uneducated or educated. Doing drugs cancels out your education or something? Not being successful financially means you're not well educated? So all the HYP grads who go on to be teachers or social workers or work for non profit have their educations stripped of them? lol
And who said anything about being "learned" or "impressive"? I never even said I was smart because, although I am, I wanted to stick to something that was obvious and objective, like my level of education.
You are not very good at arguing.
P.S. What unfair advantages did I get and how do they explain why I owned the SSHAT, SAT and LSAT? I sincerely thank you in advance for what I am sure will be an illuminating answer. 😉
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Date: August 1st, 2021 12:37 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier Thank you box
Its nice getting support from another female |
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Date: July 31st, 2021 11:38 PM Author: Multi-colored Low-t Brunch Electric Furnace This will end well. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42877786) |
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Date: August 1st, 2021 12:47 AM Author: puce gas station milk he's 100% a "down low" brother (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42878033) |
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Date: August 1st, 2021 12:48 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier lol I knew xo would say that bc he's so hot and single (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42878038) |
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Date: August 1st, 2021 12:49 AM Author: puce gas station milk i hope you're wrapping it up (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42878042) |
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Date: August 1st, 2021 12:59 AM Author: brindle beta stead I have poasted since 2005 but never interacted with you much. There is an xo racist/misogyny contingent here that gives you way too much shit but this thread is really not a great look for you. You’re you’re considering marrying a guy that you’re not really in love with and you’re over 35 and the thing you’re hung up on is the damn city? Fuck man you’re not going to be. enjoying “night life” for much longer anyway. He’s 100% in the right here. What you should be hung up on is that you don’t really love him and also that this is probably your last shot at kids. Are kids even important to you? It sounds like no. If they were you would not be thinking this way about being close to “night life” are your age. All that said don’t marry somebody you’re not crazy about especially if you don’t really care about kids. It will be a disaster. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42878073) |
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Date: August 1st, 2021 1:08 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier Kids aren't especially important to me. Nor is marriage.
I am not a fan of permanent things that cannot be undone and kids are aorta the definition of that.
I know xoxo thinks I should be running atound like a chicken with my head cut off because I'm 37 and unmarried but I just don't really care... Perhaps that makes me weird.
I love my bf I just don't feel intense passion for him. I have been told that marriage isn't about that anyway, that its about finding someone you are compatible with whom you can count on to be a hood life partner and have your back through thick and thin and I think this is him. I care about him a great deal, don't think otherwise. |
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Date: August 1st, 2021 1:14 AM Author: brindle beta stead I don’t think you should be running around freaking out if you don’t want kids. In fact I don’t think you should have them at all if you’re lukewarm about them. Kids are irreversible and a big ass deal and not for people who don’t really want kids IMO.
I don’t think you should marry anyone you’re not passionately into. My advice is don’t move and dump him. Marriage is a compromise and a partnership but you need more than deeply caring about someone. Ive been in those relationships and married someone I’m passionate about and firmly believe you can’t do it any other way. |
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Date: August 1st, 2021 1:20 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier But everyone says the passion ultimately dies anyway right?
Why pass up soneone who I love/care about who loves me and will be a good partner/father (should we decide to go that route)? |
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Date: August 1st, 2021 1:23 AM Author: brindle beta stead I don’t think it’s true that the passion dies at all. The initial lust waxes and wanes but that’s distinct from passion. Especially if you don’t really care about kids you shouldn’t be compromising on that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42878144) |
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Date: August 1st, 2021 2:07 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier I will take this under advisement. .I am retiring again though.
Bye! |
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Date: August 1st, 2021 3:00 AM Author: lemon free-loading giraffe Flame (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42878363) |
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Date: August 1st, 2021 8:48 AM Author: shivering business firm pisswyrm "I want him to sell his house and move to DC. Is this too much to ask? I'm sacrificing to be with him and all that I ask is that we live in the city."
Flame. |
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Date: August 1st, 2021 8:53 AM Author: shivering business firm pisswyrm Nightlife!
https://pbs.twimg.com/media/BxWJeEXCIAE_LLg.jpg |
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Date: August 1st, 2021 10:32 AM Author: slippery bonkers community account lol weren’t you engaged to someone else like 6 mos ago (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42879068) |
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Date: August 1st, 2021 2:58 PM Author: Thirsty dopamine That's the most hilarious thing about this. She was doing long distance with some white guy, assured XO they were getting married soon. We were all like "uh, what?" but she was like "none of you understand our beautiful passionate love and I'm so great he'll walk across the Sahara desert for me!" Fast forward to today and here we are. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42880003) |
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Date: August 7th, 2021 9:55 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier Dude that was flame. I admitted that at the bottom of the thread. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42911207) |
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Date: August 7th, 2021 9:59 AM Author: vigorous orchestra pit hairy legs You will be back here to say the same thing about this guy (give it a year) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42911217) |
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Date: August 7th, 2021 10:06 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier I admitted that thread was flame the day I made it.
WTF? |
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Date: August 3rd, 2021 6:36 AM Author: Diverse mood corner he dump your ass yet? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42888253) |
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Date: August 7th, 2021 9:56 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier lol no you silly goose
He is madly in love with me.
Last weekend we had a 2 hour phone conversation about the Civil War. We are both huge nerds. But yea we talk about nothing for hours and the time just flies. 😄 |
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Date: August 7th, 2021 9:59 AM Author: Multi-colored Low-t Brunch Electric Furnace Subject: Bump in 1 month! Date: August 7th, 2021 9:56 AM Author: .,.,...,..,.,.,:,,:,..,,::,..,:,.,.:...:..,:.::,.
lol no you silly goose He is madly in love with me.
Last weekend we had a 2 hour phone conversation about the Civil War. We are both huge nerds. But yea we talk about nothing for hours and the time just flies. 😄
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2#42911211)
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Date: August 7th, 2021 10:08 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier WANNA bet? If we are still dayinf in ine month you must leave? I have already retired and don't really care if I have to leave this place so you'll have to think of another forfeit for me in case I lose. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42911259) |
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Date: August 7th, 2021 10:22 AM Author: Multi-colored Low-t Brunch Electric Furnace This is not To Be Fair (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42911295) |
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Date: August 7th, 2021 10:28 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier I know. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42911318) |
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Date: August 7th, 2021 10:31 AM Author: Cobalt Tattoo I believe we are still waiting on the butt pic. Given your new relationship you should have lots of fresh ones. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42911326) |
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Date: August 7th, 2021 11:12 AM Author: titillating fantasy-prone coldplay fan sound barrier Butt pic? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42911518) |
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Date: August 7th, 2021 11:24 AM Author: Cobalt Tattoo Yes. Promised to XO a year or two ago. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#42911550) |
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Date: February 17th, 2026 10:30 PM Author: \'\"\"\'\'\'\"\"\' Update? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4890075&forum_id=2Vannesa#49677009) |