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Just paid for my first SeekingArrangement girl... how pathetic?
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Date: October 1st, 2016 3:31 AM Author: Razzle hyperventilating trust fund Late-20s guy. Decent looking but nerdy and socially awkward. Go out on date with SeekingArrangement girl, 20 years old. Smart, high achieving college student. She's relatively new to the site, doesn't look like a slut or anything. I make conversation, ask her several times what she's looking for, trying to get a sense of what her deal is, and how much money she wants. She demurs, says she's just looking for someone to feel cozy with, and that she's not a sex worker. We spend quite a while together, go back to my place and bang several times. She's a pro, sucks and fucks like a porn star. During the periods between sex I'm prying her for information about her sex life, the nasty things she's done. She divulges all but says how she's changed from "the past" (she's 20). She's flattering me, saying she's into guys with feminine personalities (lol). After the last bang, I ask if she wants to stay over. Very sweetly she says "I want to go home." Then ask her again if she's sure. She again very sweetly asks for an uber. Then she turns around and asks for a donation. I look crestfallen and give her a hundred.
On one hand, all things considered, this is a good deal for sex (dollar-wise) no matter who you are.
On the other hand, why the fuck was she so evasive about what she was after, and felt like she was massively buttering me up... all for a measly hundred?
Finally, I feel this is the nail in the coffin shattering any residual respect I had for myself. I literally just paid for sex. Not only am I no longer attractive to college girls and will likely never get them for free again (I know this lone event isn't indicative on a rational basis since we met on SA, duh, but emotionally it feels this way). But also I wasted MY youth, MY time in college having never banged girls like this and now I'm a semi-washed up old man paying them for pity sex or something. Apparently it was so easy to fuck her that she was relating the times she fucked guys who simply asked her a lot. But I'm not even on THAT level, and never was. Soon I'll be a full blown perv without a family and addicted to shallow encounters with disease infested whores.
Fuck my life |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 5:14 AM Author: Doobsian Trailer Park Ljl you're both in your 20s fuck this fraud whore crook you can marry much younger than this whore being a male under 30 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533817) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 5:24 AM Author: ivory vibrant resort police squad (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533835) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 1:32 PM Author: Multi-colored Brunch (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31535316) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 3:19 PM Author: Naked disturbing point shitlib (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31535958) |
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Date: June 8th, 2026 12:17 AM Author: Crimson stimulating market philosopher-king OP = asian. white men dont pay for sex (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#49921601) |
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Date: June 8th, 2026 12:30 AM Author: Crimson stimulating market philosopher-king LJL at UVT and NYUUG thinking prostitutes are normal for whites
https://www.xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=2788553&mc=227&forum_id=2#27162328 |
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Date: June 8th, 2026 12:33 AM Author: adventurous submissive background story they arent, sweetie. 4% of americans pay for sex. 2/3 of koreans do. LOFL. COPE, loser. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#49921656) |
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Date: June 8th, 2026 12:33 AM Author: adventurous submissive background story (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#49921657) |
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Date: June 8th, 2026 12:34 AM Author: adventurous submissive background story (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#49921659) |
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Date: June 8th, 2026 12:34 AM Author: adventurous submissive background story (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#49921661) |
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Date: June 8th, 2026 12:34 AM Author: adventurous submissive background story (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#49921662) |
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Date: June 8th, 2026 12:34 AM Author: adventurous submissive background story (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#49921663) |
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Date: June 8th, 2026 12:34 AM Author: adventurous submissive background story (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#49921664) |
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Date: June 8th, 2026 12:34 AM Author: adventurous submissive background story (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#49921665) |
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Date: June 9th, 2026 1:29 AM Author: Crimson stimulating market philosopher-king (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#49924630) |
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Date: June 11th, 2026 4:11 AM Author: Crimson stimulating market philosopher-king (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#49929813) |
Date: October 1st, 2016 3:36 AM Author: crawly peach tank she sounds like the pathetic one. she met you and fucked you without any transactional component, then took advantage of you in a vulnerable moment to make a buck because she doesn't have any other skills. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533594) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 3:39 AM Author: Razzle hyperventilating trust fund i mean i could have kicked her out without giving her a penny... but it actually makes ME more pathetic because she was so self-assured that i wouldn't do that (see my feminine personality) that she didn't even need any insurance beforehand. and also i sort of bought her story that she was spinning and treated her rather affectionately, so all told, just LOL at me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533599) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 3:37 AM Author: bull headed church LJL (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533597) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 3:42 AM Author: Pink gaped school new version one things for sure: jews are to blame (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533608) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 11:06 AM Author: Navy frozen theater stage preventive strike LOL (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31534593) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 10:26 PM Author: Bipolar nibblets on point (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31538536) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 1:01 PM Author: heady silver rigpig God help me i lol'd (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31535100) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 4:25 PM Author: alcoholic legal warrant halford (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31536391) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 1:54 PM Author: Misunderstood library (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31535460) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 4:31 AM Author: disrespectful electric furnace toaster Bargain! But yes that is really sad for all parties.
Have you tried being confident and lifting weights? |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 4:35 AM Author: Razzle hyperventilating trust fund what do you think her real motivations are, besides the money? to jerk guys like me around - does she get a subconscious rush from breaking us down bit by bit?
also what do you think it is that makes people like me fundamentally unattractive in a way that being confident and lifting weights will never solve? any new insights into this? pleas share if you have. |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 4:48 AM Author: crawly peach tank being confident will solve quite a lot of it. dat T cloud (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533772) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 4:51 AM Author: Razzle hyperventilating trust fund at this point i don't even know what confidence means. as i've gotten older, i've definitely become more confident... at being my nerdy dorky self. there's just not much there to work with. nothing for the confidence to... do. get what i'm saying? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533780) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 4:52 AM Author: crawly peach tank you have to assure yourself, and carry yourself with the assurance, that your company is going to be valuable and enjoyable for others. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533782) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 4:54 AM Author: Razzle hyperventilating trust fund i could brute-force my way, but in the end i would still have nothing interesting to say or actions to do that would be valuable or enjoyable for others... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533785) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 1:46 PM Author: slimy cobalt lettuce This is a self-fulfilling prophecy Stop telling yourself this shit |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 4:26 PM Author: alcoholic legal warrant halford (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31536398) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 4:49 AM Author: disrespectful electric furnace toaster People do love confidence and a strong identity in others so it would make a huge difference IF major personality was possible in adulthood.
Low confidence is also closely related to real deficiencies like poor social skills that would need to be fixed first |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 4:53 AM Author: Razzle hyperventilating trust fund poor social skills
yeah it's amazing that the ability to speak fluently to strangers about random shit is the defining line between hot nubile girls consistently wanting to be around you and rub their private parts with you from puberty onward, and having no meaningful human contact whatsoever for decades while you are at your physical horniest.
fuck this |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 4:57 AM Author: crawly peach tank you know that in a two-person conversation you are a large part of deciding what is going to be discussed, right? this is one way in which confidence IS a social skill. you aren't effectively communicating what you want out of a situation; instead, you are just trying to figure out what other people want from you, and struggling to accomplish that (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533791) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 4:59 AM Author: Razzle hyperventilating trust fund i would have no problem, confidence-wise, in directing the conversation to whatever topic. the problem is that i have nothing of interest to say on any topic, and any topic i talk about becomes stale and boring and awkward. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533798) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 5:00 AM Author: disrespectful electric furnace toaster Hi my name is pumo and I would like to talk about the world's busiest air passenger routes today. Alternatively we could discuss disparities in racial intelligence (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533799) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 5:07 AM Author: crawly peach tank (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533808) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 1:45 PM Author: Domesticated Cracking Bawdyhouse (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31535378) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 4:57 AM Author: disrespectful electric furnace toaster Looks do also play a huge part. If you didn't get any interest from girls growing up... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533792) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 5:01 AM Author: Razzle hyperventilating trust fund i got some, but i dressed like total shit and carried myself with zero confidence. i have since gotten better at those two, but my inherently poor personality was probably why i did the other two, and this is still holding me back tremendously (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533800) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 5:03 AM Author: gold ladyboy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533803) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 9:33 AM Author: Charismatic drab field (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31534254) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 4:49 AM Author: Copper dingle berry what was her reaction to being given $100? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533775) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 4:55 AM Author: Razzle hyperventilating trust fund she was pretty satisfied, i made clear that i wasn't wealthy in my profile (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533787) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 4:51 AM Author: disrespectful electric furnace toaster She was after more than a hundred lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533779) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 4:56 AM Author: Razzle hyperventilating trust fund nah she mentioned the industry average was 500, and that she got 150 another time from a 24 y/o.. seemed satisfied with my 100. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533790) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 9:14 AM Author: Flickering blood rage hissy fit The industry average? She said she wasn't a sex worker. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31534223) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 6:24 PM Author: Razzle-dazzle hunting ground She's clearly lying you fucking idiot (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31537148) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 8:10 PM Author: vivacious ruby native (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31537749) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 4:57 AM Author: Fighting iridescent dysfunction why did you give her any money (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533793) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 5:01 AM Author: Razzle hyperventilating trust fund because i'm a weakling and she could sense that. do you think she would have respected me more if i had REFUSED to give her anything? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533801) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 5:04 AM Author: Fighting iridescent dysfunction no she would have been MAF and hate you. wouldn't it have felt good to not give her any money? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533805) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 5:04 AM Author: gold ladyboy Cr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533806) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 5:07 AM Author: crawly peach tank lol. caring about her respect IS WHAT MAKES YOU A WEAKLING (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533809) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 5:10 AM Author: disrespectful electric furnace toaster (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533810) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 5:14 AM Author: Razzle hyperventilating trust fund yeah, but what is the alternative? not care about her respect and be my beta self? i'm in a.. catch 22? situation? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533816) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 5:15 AM Author: crawly peach tank yes. don't care about her respect. don't think about it.
you have to imagine it as though they can smell it on you. (they sort of can.) every time a woman senses that her view of you matters to you, that in order for you to respect yourself you have to get respect from her, every time that happens she LOSES respect for you. |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 5:22 AM Author: Razzle hyperventilating trust fund how else am i going to operate though? there is nothing else there to take the steering wheel if care for respect is off. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533828) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 5:24 AM Author: crawly peach tank find something. it's absolutely crucial. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533833) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 5:26 AM Author: Razzle hyperventilating trust fund i'm an empty shell of a human being without a personality and whose only function is to analyze things. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533836) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 5:27 AM Author: crawly peach tank 180. i really like it here. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533838) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 5:28 AM Author: Razzle hyperventilating trust fund honestly though, the only "identity" i would be able to conjure up and fashion is literally geek, intellectual, etc.
undesirable things
having confidence to be something wholly undesirable to nubile sex kittens is really nothing to be proud about at all |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 5:30 AM Author: crawly peach tank women are aimless retards. menses and the caprices of popular culture dictate all their emotions. there is no pattern to what they "desire", it is entirely based upon what point of their cycles they're in, what they just watched, etc. if they're ovulating and just saw a movie where a "geek" was presented as attractive they will beg you to fuck them. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533841) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 11:59 AM Author: spectacular cumskin box office 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31534820) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 1:11 PM Author: carnelian meetinghouse idea he suggested 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31535174) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 11:46 AM Author: Shivering Provocative Rigor (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31534774) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 5:11 AM Author: Razzle hyperventilating trust fund one thing i have to say after having been on Tinder and now SA: all the nasty stories you hear about young people in their teens fucking like rabbits, just hooking up all the time, giving out easy blowjobs to whomever, having 3somes, having violently rough sex, exploring various kinks before they've even gotten their driver's license... it's ALL TRUE!
they are out there doing these things, even though when i was their age i was a mega-nerd in the library studying. didn't know these things existed outside the confines of porn.
and no, it's not all with this mythical chad. it's within certain communities under varied contexts, but these were highly identifiable and perhaps exploitable if i had opened my eyes, actually looked around without fear of seeing something that would make me uncomfortable, went out there and TRIED
but i didn't, and this latter realization sucks the most |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 5:12 AM Author: crawly peach tank just imagine how much you'll regret in ten years what you're doing right now. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533814) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 5:14 AM Author: Razzle hyperventilating trust fund why? what am i going to regret? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533818) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 6:25 PM Author: Razzle-dazzle hunting ground the HERPES (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31537152) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 7:16 PM Author: vivacious ruby native lol, he'll regret he didn't do it more. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31537465) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 5:27 AM Author: Erotic Vermilion Stage That's pretty pathetic. You should be able to organically date mid-20s girls. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533839) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 5:31 AM Author: Razzle hyperventilating trust fund i probably SHOULD only do serious dating with boring morose unattractive mid-20s girls on my level, but the sheer fact that this 20 year old sex kitten was both more cunning and vastly more sexually experienced than me... really pissed me off and shook me to my core (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533842) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 5:32 AM Author: crawly peach tank post a picture of this alleged "sex kitten"
i had a girlfriend this spring who had done SA. definitely way more manipulative and way more experienced than me. also an absolute travesty of a human being and not smart to boot |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 5:35 AM Author: Razzle hyperventilating trust fund http://imgur.com/a/FSqFB
how did you meet her, what do you think attracted her to you, and what were her motivations to do SA and then to switch to something else? |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 5:37 AM Author: crawly peach tank cute met on Tinder. i think her main issue was that she wasn't hot enough to get a lot of money on SA. |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 6:04 AM Author: Razzle hyperventilating trust fund lol how old was she? and describe "not hot enough" to get a lot of money on there. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533894) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 6:19 AM Author: crawly peach tank average face, slightly chubby, huge tits though. 21 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533907) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 12:32 PM Author: dead ultramarine dopamine den Hey, why did you delete it? Repoast immediately. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31534940) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 6:26 PM Author: Razzle-dazzle hunting ground (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31537164) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 6:43 PM Author: vivacious ruby native (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31537282) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 6:50 PM Author: Razzle hyperventilating trust fund here it is again
http://imgur.com/a/vcO8h |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 6:52 PM Author: vivacious ruby native Seems cute. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31537343) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 5:33 AM Author: Erotic Vermilion Stage TBF its very very easy for a good looking 20yo girl to get as much and as varied sex as she wants. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533845) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 5:38 AM Author: Razzle hyperventilating trust fund this is, of course, very true and very obivous. but if one has been a sexual pauper all one's life, one does one's best not to think of the cold hard fact that cute little 18 year olds are wildly experimenting with their sexuality almost every weekend of the syllabus semester. and when one is confronted with said truth face to face, it can often come as a surprise and shock. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533857) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 5:55 AM Author: Chrome Swollen Orchestra Pit Quit being such a fucking faggot. You got to have sex with an attractive 20 year old girl for the cost of a decent lunch in New York. On top of that, she was happy with you even though you only gave her $100. Did you think you two were going to get married? Or that she was going to be a darling virgin? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533877) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 11:41 AM Author: Razzle hyperventilating trust fund Fully cop to being a fucking faggot.
The thing is, I wouldn't care if I were older and had already fucked a lot of girls like her in my prime. But I never did, and now I'm losing my virginity so to speak to a hooker. That's what makes it bad, if that makes sense. |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 6:27 PM Author: Razzle-dazzle hunting ground HAHAHAHAHA YOU LOST YOUR VIRGINITY (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31537166) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 8:23 PM Author: vivacious ruby native Wait - this was you losing your virginity? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31537860) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 1:43 PM Author: vivacious ruby native Thank you, finally someone who gets it. She is broke and needs cash and is basically willing to give this dork a pity fuck for a small sum of cash. He should be grateful for that, not acting like he was somehow owed more.
Also, everything about OP's interaction with this girl implies that her tolerance level is phenomenal. |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 6:18 AM Author: light wrinkle You're not late 20s, jjc (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31533904) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 8:14 AM Author: Wonderful Elite Black Woman Friendly Grandma Very nice - I've met with like 7 of these girls and haven't yet gotten pussy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31534085) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 8:16 AM Author: crawly peach tank your flame is so hilarious lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31534088) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 9:09 AM Author: Wonderful Elite Black Woman Friendly Grandma Not flame (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31534213) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 1:29 PM Author: Razzle hyperventilating trust fund 180, elaborate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31535304) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 8:20 AM Author: 180 apoplectic set Where's the BEEP BEEP BEEP? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31534091) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 8:46 AM Author: Vigorous Onyx Dragon Best part of this story was her implication that you had a feminine personality. LJL. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31534162) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 9:14 AM Author: Wonderful Elite Black Woman Friendly Grandma That was mean of her though - I would have spanked her (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31534219) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 12:45 PM Author: Indecent violent gaming laptop Ran here. If he mentioned it himself, then fine-- she's just playing into what the client wants. If, on her own volition, she's out with a guy she met on SA and thinks, "The client would love it if I complimented him on his feminine personality," then he is completely done here. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31535013) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 9:07 AM Author: scarlet bateful chapel Bro, I can relate to your concerns. Want to make them go away? The next time this happens, just say, I don't feel comfortable paying, and send her on her way. Bam, you just fucked a college girl for free as a late 20's guy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31534211) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 9:11 AM Author: Charismatic drab field Should be thankful you can afford SA (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31534216) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 10:23 AM Author: Supple sienna hospital you're complaining about a LIFEHACK that didn't exist until very recently. an organic as fuck experience and an endless gravy train of 20-year-old chicks for us successful yet busted guys.
i'd shamelessly pay the industry standard $500 for what you got. (and she's correct, that's what most SA chicks have quoted me). |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 10:27 AM Author: Wonderful Elite Black Woman Friendly Grandma Yea I'm already trying to get an SA date for tonite (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31534449) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 11:36 AM Author: galvanic massive address No she didn't respect you. You went into it thinking you could redeem yourself from being a John and you simply didn't have the power to do so.
You shouldn't be so hard on yourself. You put yourself in a pit that is hard to come out of, even if you are a Chad. Better option would be just to stay in there when you're dealing with these types of situations. |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 11:40 AM Author: Razzle hyperventilating trust fund Stay in where? The status of being a john?
I initially asked, several times, and she made it seem like she didn't want anything until the very end. |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 11:42 AM Author: galvanic massive address Yeah, if you're a John you're a John. Don't look at these girls as potential gfs.
She was playing the GFE game, bro. |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 11:45 AM Author: Razzle hyperventilating trust fund Why would she deceive me to force the gfe on me when I made no mention I wanted that? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31534764) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 11:47 AM Author: galvanic massive address sounds like that's what you wanted. She could read between the lines. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31534776) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 11:49 AM Author: Razzle hyperventilating trust fund Sounds like a lot of work for little gain. She spent about 5 hours in total, for 100 bucks.
I'm still going with the theory that she gets off on making dweeb guys catch feelings for her and then soliciting a donation |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 7:36 PM Author: galvanic massive address She's not a real pro. She didn't know how to maximize her gains and lacked the experience to know how much she could play you.
She went on a date with you and fucked you with the expectation you would pay her for it. End of story. |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 11:43 AM Author: Supple sienna hospital dude, they banged multiple times. that's a victory. at the end of the day she still gave herself up to this dude, doesn't matter how. we still call the shots. even if it takes money. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31534755) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 11:46 AM Author: Razzle hyperventilating trust fund She was a freak, really pushed my boundaries sexually. Clearly likes sex a lot and probably fucked 50+ guys. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31534775) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 8:06 PM Author: vivacious ruby native (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31537726) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 11:45 AM Author: Chocolate Station Kitty Cat How isn't this website illegal (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31534765) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 3:28 PM Author: vivacious ruby native You realize there are a bunch of real escort sites operating, right? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31536024) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 12:10 PM Author: spectacular cumskin box office A 5 hour multiple fuck session GFE date goes for at least $500. This wasn't a purely transactional thing for the girl . . . . wouldn't be worth her time. It's a lot simpler and less sinister than you're making it out to be. She probably liked you some and had a good time but is broke and needs a bit of extra money. You probably could have fucked her for free no problem (and without her being upset about it) if you had gone in with a different attitude.
It's insane that you think you got taken advantage here when you got a lengthy fuckfest with a young (and attractive sounding chick) for less than a lot of beta professional bros blow on dates with match.com shrews who "didn't feel a spark." If anyone got taken advantage of it's the girl, but she wouldn't have done it without money upfront unless she enjoyed it so it sounds like she got a good deal too. |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 12:16 PM Author: fragrant mentally impaired hominid (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31534876) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 12:18 PM Author: Razzle hyperventilating trust fund Lol I know man. Nice to see you in my thread offering the positive perspective again.
I think it's just the versimillitude of the GFE triggering the fact that I had no concept of having sex when I was her age, thus feeling waves of regrets and insecurities. None of my depressive rants have anything to do with the girl ultimately, just my broken sad life |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 2:01 PM Author: vivacious ruby native (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31535501) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 3:29 PM Author: disrespectful electric furnace toaster She's new to the he and won't make the same mistake again, namely asking for full price (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31536037) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 6:53 PM Author: vivacious ruby native So in other words, this guy ruined it for a bunch of other bros with his aspieness... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31537348) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 10:40 PM Author: Lemon Dashing Regret Potus this.
the op is an idiot |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 12:31 PM Author: Brindle stirring laser beams hall one more dumb ass pensive pumo for those who keep track of such things (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31534931) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 6:55 PM Author: vivacious ruby native Seriously? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31537358) |
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Date: October 2nd, 2016 3:37 PM Author: Naked disturbing point shitlib Hurts when sealclubber pwns so hard. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31541968) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 12:44 PM Author: Indecent violent gaming laptop It's even more toxic once you remember the job market facing people her age. To you, $100 plus an uber is a trivial expense. To a college student, that's 8 or more hours at a part time job. On an hourly basis, she needs two to three times as much compensation to tolerate your company as she does to fold shirts at Old Navy.
What's more, she likes sex-- just not with you. Some of that money, inevitably, is going to cosmetics and clothes so she can look good to attract the man she actually wants to have sex with. You are funding her pursuit of chad, who will fuck her for free as much as he likes (until he gets bored and moves on to the next girl).
The economics of the sexual market are absolutely brutal. |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 12:51 PM Author: Razzle hyperventilating trust fund Ty, you should be in my threads more often as a counterweight to Diamond Dallas Page
Proceeding to kill myself now |
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Date: October 2nd, 2016 1:17 PM Author: spectacular cumskin box office Let's assume all of this is 100% true.
If we turn back the clock 70 years to when dating was much more assortive and everyone had fewer partners (5s dating 5s, 6s with 6s), OP wasn't going to bang this girl at all.
Now, for a minor expense, he gets to punch above his weight. Those economics are great for him, not brutal.
The real cost of this cartoon world is that when a 5-bro actually wants to settle down with a 5-chick, she's going to have been blown out by 7-bros and will never be satisfied with the 5-bro. |
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Date: October 2nd, 2016 1:21 PM Author: Razzle hyperventilating trust fund nah, life is about order and equanimity. getting to bang freaky sluts once or twice, for cash, only opens a door i can peer through and feel anguish over never getting to step inside. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31541136) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 2:56 PM Author: Razzle hyperventilating trust fund (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31535800) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 3:14 PM Author: carnelian meetinghouse idea he suggested Dark thread (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31535927) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 3:25 PM Author: vivacious ruby native Only insofar as OP is a joyless aspie. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31536002) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 4:20 PM Author: Razzle hyperventilating trust fund well suppose you were a virgin until mid-20s, then you start to bang a few psycho early 20s girls who either use you and ghost you or demand money. wouldn't you start to wonder what could have been, not with these girls but with other girls, if you had had your shit together when you were their age? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31536357) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 6:20 PM Author: vivacious ruby native 1) Being a virgin that late is a huge red flag, and
2) No, just be happy you had an awesome experience. If I were you I'd call her back and try to get more of that. |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 6:25 PM Author: Razzle hyperventilating trust fund um dude, 1) is why i am unable to enjoy 2), and that is the whole point of this thread (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31537153) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 6:48 PM Author: vivacious ruby native 1. This is a chicken and egg problem. If you were chill you wouldn't be a virgin until your mid 20s.
2. Right, because your perspective is fucked. |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 6:54 PM Author: Razzle hyperventilating trust fund isn't that what i implied in my OP and all subsequent posts?
you're not saying anything new :/ |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 6:59 PM Author: vivacious ruby native Ok so then realize that almost all men pay for sex one way or another (realize that time has value too) and yes, while you're not in the 5% of super attractive men that are Chad, neither are most people. Accept that life is a game and that you play the hand you're dealt. Be happy you have a decent job and can afford to pay hot young girls for sex. A lot of guys can't. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31537372) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 7:01 PM Author: Razzle hyperventilating trust fund dude i just want to be 20 y/o and have organic college experiences (back in the day, that would be LTR girlfriend, nowadays it's casual hook-ups with the sorority girl next door). i just want to be normal like this, and revel in the hubbub of social drama and experiences that i never got a taste of because i was 100% aspie. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31537382) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 7:27 PM Author: vivacious ruby native I'm guessing you are making way above median and are above average in a bunch of ways. Count your blessings. Yes, you're aspie and missed out on drunken college sex. But you're not 80 on your deathbed and still have plenty of fun that others don't. So enjoy SA whores and whatever else you want and stop being a depressive aspie. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31537535) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 7:35 PM Author: galvanic massive address You're never going to have a 20 year old gf. You are too old. You will have a mediocre shrew one if you try. What's wrong with that? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31537570) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 6:30 PM Author: Red crackhouse Strong lack of self awareness in this post (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31537189) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 6:51 PM Author: vivacious ruby native ?
I'm actually a pretty happy person, lost my virginity in HS like a normal person, and if I was in OP's situation would be happy and would have been nice to the girl. |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 6:49 PM Author: Razzle hyperventilating trust fund here's the pic again
http://imgur.com/a/vcO8h |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 8:11 PM Author: hairraiser slate principal's office incel put it up again rill quick plz ty (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31537753) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 11:43 PM Author: Electric frisky kitchen roast beef Why do you keep taking it down?! I've missed it every time. Again damnit! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31538902) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 10:39 PM Author: Rambunctious Magical Public Bath Patrolman repost pic pls (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31538610) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 10:40 PM Author: Razzle hyperventilating trust fund http://imgur.com/a/olotL (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31538619) |
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Date: October 1st, 2016 10:42 PM Author: Razzle-dazzle hunting ground Cant see her face
120 |
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Date: October 2nd, 2016 12:12 AM Author: Racy foreskin sites called SA, and now your complaining?
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Date: October 2nd, 2016 6:54 AM Author: Vengeful boyish haunted graveyard your problems are as following:
1. thinking you are above paying for it. no one is above paying for it in the right circumstances.
2. posting this shitty as flame.
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Date: October 2nd, 2016 1:24 PM Author: Razzle hyperventilating trust fund literally spent hours listening about the guys she fucked for free, dude
knew girls like her existed, even interacted with them occasionally, but really shattered my perception of the world to have one naked in my bed telling me about all the organic college guys she fucked who were assertive enough to ask twice. |
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Date: October 3rd, 2016 10:51 PM Author: Razzle hyperventilating trust fund relevant bump (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#31551692) |
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Date: October 22nd, 2019 10:43 PM Author: Mind-boggling Nubile International Law Enforcement Agency (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#39014674) |
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Date: June 8th, 2026 12:19 AM Author: stubborn maize half-breed cruise ship wow this thread is so sad my depression came out of remission after a decade (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#49921611) |
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Date: June 8th, 2026 12:19 AM Author: Crimson stimulating market philosopher-king if OP was born a white male, he wouldnt have to resort to paying for sex (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#49921612) |
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Date: June 8th, 2026 12:28 AM Author: Brass Metal Corn Cake (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3370013&forum_id=2Vannesa#49921641) |