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Got a date with a chick and I completely fucked it up need help

So I am clearly Indian and she’s white. We matched on ...
Stirring High-end Spot
  05/08/26
She asked me where I wanna take her. She asked me where I w...
nubile area
  05/09/26
she probably wanted to eat inside a building, saar
iridescent big faggotry personal credit line
  05/08/26
Chipotle & let do, saar
mischievous lettuce
  05/08/26
Probably thinks you want hot dogs on a stick or something.
Painfully honest home
  05/08/26
Anything could've come up. What was the pls respond text you...
Frum Quadroon Trump Supporter
  05/08/26
“Hey! I know the “Singapore Street Food” m...
Stirring High-end Spot
  05/09/26
maybe she was in a car crash or something
Red adventurous lodge
  05/09/26
Years ago an app guy didn't write back for like two days and...
Frum Quadroon Trump Supporter
  05/09/26
Wait you’re a chick?
Stirring High-end Spot
  05/09/26
He's a real modern day "chick" in the loosest sens...
titillating box office sandwich
  05/09/26
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Ruby generalized bond mother
  05/09/26
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mischievous lettuce
  05/09/26
180
Frum Quadroon Trump Supporter
  05/09/26
No need to boil the ocean here, this was great flame until y...
titillating box office sandwich
  05/09/26
? What makes you think it’s flame
know-it-all internal respiration
  05/09/26
“Hey! I know the “Singapore Street Food” m...
titillating box office sandwich
  05/09/26
? What
know-it-all internal respiration
  05/09/26
No person with any success with women would ever write a tex...
titillating box office sandwich
  05/09/26
What are you talking about?
know-it-all internal respiration
  05/09/26
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stubborn cracking orchestra pit
  05/09/26
(Virgin)
titillating box office sandwich
  05/09/26
?????????
jet-lagged point pocket flask
  05/09/26
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Aqua domesticated business firm coldplay fan
  05/09/26
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Slippery crystalline nowag crackhouse
  05/09/26
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iridescent big faggotry personal credit line
  05/09/26
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Odious hall messiness
  05/10/26
Just move on Women are replaceable and for every one that...
stubborn cracking orchestra pit
  05/09/26
See above
Stirring High-end Spot
  05/09/26
Coffee dates are the worst. Always "grab drinks" i...
titillating box office sandwich
  05/09/26
...
Ruby generalized bond mother
  05/09/26
Did you not have ur shoe lifts? Some chill subtle 4" li...
marvelous hospital
  05/09/26
...
Mind-boggling brethren
  05/09/26
Next time propose turd food, she’s obviously into it
Indigo sadistic elastic band
  05/09/26
It’s objectively rational to assume that she ghosted y...
Galvanic bonkers stain
  05/09/26


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Date: May 8th, 2026 9:21 PM
Author: Stirring High-end Spot

So I am clearly Indian and she’s white. We matched on tinder and exchanged numbers. We live in the same neighborhood. I met up with her for coffee and she liked me. She looks like a 19 year old Kylie Page.

Then I texted her if she wants to grab dinner with me and that I wanna take her on a date. She’s loving it. Excited. She asked me where I wanna take her. I told her “let’s get some Singapore street food.” It’s a place called like Urban Hawker in nyc good reviews.

She immediately ghosted me. I even hit her with the pls respond. It’s been 3 days. What to do now?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5865209&forum_id=2Vannesa#49876039)



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Date: May 9th, 2026 12:46 PM
Author: nubile area

She asked me where I wanna take her.

She asked me where I wanna take her.

She asked me where I wanna take her.

She asked me where I wanna take her.

She asked me where I wanna take her.

She asked me where I wanna take her.

She asked me where I wanna take her.

cut and run my man

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5865209&forum_id=2Vannesa#49876733)



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Date: May 8th, 2026 9:32 PM
Author: iridescent big faggotry personal credit line

she probably wanted to eat inside a building, saar

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5865209&forum_id=2Vannesa#49876049)



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Date: May 8th, 2026 9:33 PM
Author: mischievous lettuce

Chipotle & let do, saar

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5865209&forum_id=2Vannesa#49876052)



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Date: May 8th, 2026 9:34 PM
Author: Painfully honest home

Probably thinks you want hot dogs on a stick or something.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5865209&forum_id=2Vannesa#49876053)



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Date: May 8th, 2026 10:19 PM
Author: Frum Quadroon Trump Supporter

Anything could've come up. What was the pls respond text you sent?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5865209&forum_id=2Vannesa#49876114)



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Date: May 9th, 2026 1:32 AM
Author: Stirring High-end Spot

“Hey! I know the “Singapore Street Food” might not have sounded appetizing but it’s actually a decently priced restaurant/food court in midtown Manhattan. It would mean a lot to me if you go on this date. I have always been insecure about my height (5’9) and you’re the first girl to ever pay attention to me and not care about my height. I had poasted on many message boards about my height and they all told me I would never find a woman. I couldn’t believe it when a girl who looked exactly like my favorite pornstar Kylie Page went on a coffee date with me and seemed to enjoy it. I went home and wore VR goggles and watched Kylie Page VR videos pretending it was you and I would move around in bed simulating the positions I want to do to you. I used the pass through feature on the oculus so I can actually see my own bedroom pretending it was you. I would do anything to go on this date with you. Please respond.”

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5865209&forum_id=2Vannesa#49876380)



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Date: May 9th, 2026 1:35 AM
Author: Red adventurous lodge

maybe she was in a car crash or something

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5865209&forum_id=2Vannesa#49876384)



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Date: May 9th, 2026 1:36 AM
Author: Frum Quadroon Trump Supporter

Years ago an app guy didn't write back for like two days and then was like omg I'm sorry I was in the hospital for appendicitis. It was sweet, although I hadn't been worried.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5865209&forum_id=2Vannesa#49876390)



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Date: May 9th, 2026 1:40 AM
Author: Stirring High-end Spot

Wait you’re a chick?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5865209&forum_id=2Vannesa#49876397)



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Date: May 9th, 2026 6:00 AM
Author: titillating box office sandwich

He's a real modern day "chick" in the loosest sense of the term.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5865209&forum_id=2Vannesa#49876487)



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Date: May 9th, 2026 4:25 AM
Author: Ruby generalized bond mother



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5865209&forum_id=2Vannesa#49876472)



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Date: May 9th, 2026 3:56 AM
Author: mischievous lettuce



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5865209&forum_id=2Vannesa#49876469)



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Date: May 9th, 2026 1:37 AM
Author: Frum Quadroon Trump Supporter

180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5865209&forum_id=2Vannesa#49876391)



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Date: May 9th, 2026 5:25 AM
Author: titillating box office sandwich

No need to boil the ocean here, this was great flame until you jumped the shark.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5865209&forum_id=2Vannesa#49876478)



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Date: May 9th, 2026 8:02 AM
Author: know-it-all internal respiration

? What makes you think it’s flame

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5865209&forum_id=2Vannesa#49876518)



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Date: May 9th, 2026 8:41 AM
Author: titillating box office sandwich

“Hey! I know the “Singapore Street Food” might not have sounded appetizing but it’s actually a decently priced restaurant/food court in midtown Manhattan. It would mean a lot to me if you go on this date. I have always been insecure about my height (5’9) and you’re the first girl to ever pay attention to me and not care about my height. I had poasted on many message boards about my height and they all told me I would never find a woman. I couldn’t believe it when a girl who looked exactly like my favorite pornstar Kylie Page went on a coffee date with me and seemed to enjoy it. I went home and wore VR goggles and watched Kylie Page VR videos pretending it was you and I would move around in bed simulating the positions I want to do to you. I used the pass through feature on the oculus so I can actually see my own bedroom pretending it was you. I would do anything to go on this date with you. Please respond.”

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5865209&forum_id=2Vannesa#49876545)



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Date: May 9th, 2026 8:50 AM
Author: know-it-all internal respiration

? What

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5865209&forum_id=2Vannesa#49876551)



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Date: May 9th, 2026 9:17 AM
Author: titillating box office sandwich

No person with any success with women would ever write a text like that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5865209&forum_id=2Vannesa#49876584)



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Date: May 9th, 2026 10:03 AM
Author: know-it-all internal respiration

What are you talking about?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5865209&forum_id=2Vannesa#49876611)



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Date: May 9th, 2026 10:43 AM
Author: stubborn cracking orchestra pit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5865209&forum_id=2Vannesa#49876634)



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Date: May 9th, 2026 12:35 PM
Author: titillating box office sandwich

(Virgin)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5865209&forum_id=2Vannesa#49876693)



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Date: May 9th, 2026 11:26 AM
Author: jet-lagged point pocket flask

?????????

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5865209&forum_id=2Vannesa#49876652)



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Date: May 9th, 2026 9:19 AM
Author: Aqua domesticated business firm coldplay fan



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5865209&forum_id=2Vannesa#49876585)



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Date: May 9th, 2026 12:15 PM
Author: Slippery crystalline nowag crackhouse



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5865209&forum_id=2Vannesa#49876665)



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Date: May 9th, 2026 12:38 PM
Author: iridescent big faggotry personal credit line



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5865209&forum_id=2Vannesa#49876707)



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Date: May 10th, 2026 8:54 PM
Author: Odious hall messiness



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5865209&forum_id=2Vannesa#49879191)



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Date: May 9th, 2026 1:36 AM
Author: stubborn cracking orchestra pit

Just move on

Women are replaceable and for every one that ghosts u there are like 5 that would eat ur shit if u ordered them to

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5865209&forum_id=2Vannesa#49876387)



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Date: May 9th, 2026 1:40 AM
Author: Stirring High-end Spot

See above

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5865209&forum_id=2Vannesa#49876398)



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Date: May 9th, 2026 5:24 AM
Author: titillating box office sandwich

Coffee dates are the worst. Always "grab drinks" in the evening with the intention of scoring. The jeetness is a huge handicap though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5865209&forum_id=2Vannesa#49876477)



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Date: May 9th, 2026 5:33 AM
Author: Ruby generalized bond mother



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5865209&forum_id=2Vannesa#49876480)



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Date: May 9th, 2026 7:22 AM
Author: marvelous hospital

Did you not have ur shoe lifts? Some chill subtle 4" lifts and ur chocobar would be DIPPED IN STRAWBERRY

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5865209&forum_id=2Vannesa#49876508)



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Date: May 9th, 2026 8:41 AM
Author: Mind-boggling brethren



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5865209&forum_id=2Vannesa#49876547)



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Date: May 9th, 2026 9:29 AM
Author: Indigo sadistic elastic band

Next time propose turd food, she’s obviously into it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5865209&forum_id=2Vannesa#49876591)



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Date: May 9th, 2026 10:19 AM
Author: Galvanic bonkers stain

It’s objectively rational to assume that she ghosted you regardless of whatever you said or might’ve said because she was just using you for cheap male attention and free food until she received attention from one or more Chads she’s actually interested in fucking, at which point your relevance/utility dropped to zero in her mind. We have tons of data showing that’s exactly how fuck apps work for 95+% of users, so just assume you’re not one of the tiny minority who somehow beat the odds (which would almost certainly be temporary and not result in sex anyway).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5865209&forum_id=2Vannesa#49876614)