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Life Advice for Youngs: go to the funerals you don't want to attend

Everyone goes to the funerals of close friends and family. A...
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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:05 AM
Author: Territorial base masturbator

Everyone goes to the funerals of close friends and family. As you get older, there will be so many occasions where someone who you aren't close to passes away: a former co-worker who you have lost touch with, the younger brother of a friend from high school who you barely remember, or the dad of a college roommate you haven't seen since graduation. Go to all of these visitations if you can. It's good for the family and it's good for you. I have seen decades-old grudges dissolved in 30 seconds by this gesture. People are at their weakest when a loved one dies and the gratitude they feel when people take the time to pay their respects will last for the rest of their lives. My mom and dad are both gone and I can recall every single person who took the time to show up and pay their respects. It's powerful.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Vannesa#43672622)



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:22 PM
Author: Mustard bateful hunting ground native



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:11 AM
Author: Henna kitty athletic conference

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:13 AM
Author: Elite sickened famous landscape painting

180 advice. It really is good for your mind too, instant perspective.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Vannesa#43672650)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:59 AM
Author: Territorial base masturbator



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:57 AM
Author: charismatic red national chad

I remember all of the random people that showed up to my dad’s funeral and the one-off stories they shared with me about how they knew him. One old lady had a flat tire in the bank parking lot and he changed it for her. Small town America. She would see him at the store or pharmacy for years and thank him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Vannesa#43673327)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:29 AM
Author: disturbing parlour half-breed

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:36 AM
Author: Cracking philosopher-king

Make sure to bring business cards, brother.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:33 AM
Author: crusty location main people



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:36 AM
Author: Cowardly Crackhouse Crotch



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:38 AM
Author: Gold School Cafeteria Yarmulke



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:52 PM
Author: talented public bath mediation



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:41 AM
Author: Maize bat-shit-crazy space



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:42 AM
Author: Shimmering market



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:49 AM
Author: sticky arousing home



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:32 AM
Author: crusty location main people

I'll definitely be at the funeral I most want to attend.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Vannesa#43673175)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:35 AM
Author: Ruby Spot

same

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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:40 PM
Author: marvelous startled coffee pot hospital



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:23 PM
Author: mahogany glittery fanboi



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:54 PM
Author: Juan Eighty



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:38 AM
Author: pearly odious quadroon pervert

Important OP

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Vannesa#43673216)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:55 AM
Author: charismatic red national chad

Easily the best advice on xoxohth in over a year.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Vannesa#43673312)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:58 AM
Author: Laughsome Sepia Fortuitous Meteor Theater Stage

(Will Ferrell in wedding crashers)

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:58 AM
Author: vivacious out-of-control corner



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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:33 PM
Author: slap-happy hairraiser trailer park toilet seat

Excellent advice from one of my favorite monikers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Vannesa#43673709)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:36 PM
Author: Soul-stirring Dopamine

Make sure you ask for a copy of the death certificate to get a discount/tax write off on your travel

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Vannesa#43673721)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:10 PM
Author: supple goal in life regret

OP is correct.

ty OP, and Merry Christmas

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Vannesa#43673924)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:32 PM
Author: Soggy Blood Rage

My grandfather died at 74. Church was packed. My great grandfather died at 94. Church was barren.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Vannesa#43674038)



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:24 PM
Author: mahogany glittery fanboi



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Vannesa#43680647)



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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:52 AM
Author: milky gaped range

live fast

die young

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Vannesa#45965902)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:34 PM
Author: rose aromatic church ladyboy

theres an extreme immaturity to people who avoid funerals. its basically boomer level selfishness.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Vannesa#43674045)



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:19 PM
Author: wonderful slimy milk sweet tailpipe



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:21 PM
Author: Mustard bateful hunting ground native

very good advice here. i have been making an effort to attend more funerals of acquaintances after a personal experience made me realize how much it can mean to those close to the deceased.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Vannesa#43680638)



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Date: July 15th, 2022 6:32 PM
Author: spruce really tough guy library



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Date: January 15th, 2022 4:44 PM
Author: Territorial base masturbator



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:51 PM
Author: wonderful slimy milk sweet tailpipe

this thread has inspired me to do this multiple times. Best experience was nervously attending the funeral of dude's dad who I had beef with after high school and hadn't spoken to in forever (the kid not the dad). Anyways, the gratitude you could see on that guy's face when I showed up was something I'll remember for the rest of my life.

Thanks to the immortal Yanagita for making this thread. This is something a younger person simply cannot understand on their own.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Vannesa#44856920)



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:52 PM
Author: spruce really tough guy library



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:54 PM
Author: fantasy-prone thriller sex offender stag film

(junior soprano)

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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:44 AM
Author: Territorial base masturbator



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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:47 AM
Author: Boyish useless striped hyena

I only went to 1/4 of my grandparents funerals. 1 was because he predeceased my birth so it wasn’t possible, but the other 2 I was in law school states away.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Vannesa#45965887)



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Date: March 14th, 2023 6:57 PM
Author: Racy office mexican



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Date: March 14th, 2023 6:59 PM
Author: irradiated aggressive twinkling uncleanness property



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Date: March 14th, 2023 7:24 PM
Author: Erotic Pisswyrm

Absolutely credited.

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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:36 PM
Author: Mike Yanagita



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Vannesa#49460858)



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:53 PM
Author: whimsy the cat

should you go to your ex-wife's mother's funeral?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Vannesa#49460900)



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:57 PM
Author: ruinous phenotype



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