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Wife left: tell me about seeking arrangements

Don’t want to risk hookers and i eventually want to tr...
Multi-colored set quadroon
  09/22/25
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painfully honest poppy stage wrinkle
  09/23/25
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painfully honest poppy stage wrinkle
  09/23/25
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painfully honest poppy stage wrinkle
  09/23/25
I'm not sure you're gonna be able to command top dollar cons...
light talented stain hall
  09/22/25
If they can’t handle me at my worst they don’t d...
Multi-colored set quadroon
  09/22/25
Your refusal to state your height speaks volumes.
light talented stain hall
  09/22/25
6’2” 220 (terrible build) Slight receding...
Multi-colored set quadroon
  09/23/25
why did your wife leave you?
pearly yarmulke
  09/22/25
Wife had a mid life crisis. We married young but waited to h...
Multi-colored set quadroon
  09/23/25
if you have a chance to bludgeon yourself retarded with rust...
180 menage
  09/22/25
Grinder.com
Ocher Center
  09/22/25
I don't believe OP is gay, though
light talented stain hall
  09/23/25
There are some gems on SA if you’re willing to wade th...
Bronze sticky depressive shrine
  09/23/25
Search for the seeking arrangement poaster’s threads. ...
slate thriller mood
  09/23/25
wow
Primrose indecent university
  09/23/25
What's ur $$$$$ situation and geography? DESCRIBE ur terr...
olive rigpig point
  09/23/25
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painfully honest poppy stage wrinkle
  09/23/25
"Don’t want to risk hookers" I've got som...
federal flesh school
  09/23/25
There’s some pros on there for sure but there’s ...
Bronze sticky depressive shrine
  09/23/25
It is all literally sex for money.
federal flesh school
  09/23/25
They're not hookers. They're just seeking Mutually Benefi...
light talented stain hall
  09/23/25
Actual professional hookers seem less risky than this.
Brilliant Aggressive Messiness Temple
  09/23/25
How so?
Bronze sticky depressive shrine
  09/23/25
They're not going to do something dumb like call or text you...
Brilliant Aggressive Messiness Temple
  09/23/25
I’d rather deal with an amateur hooker than a professi...
Bronze sticky depressive shrine
  09/23/25
professional hookers are in business bcs they are profession...
cordovan contagious parlour
  09/23/25
…?
Bronze sticky depressive shrine
  09/23/25
Do not take advice from this poaster. He is dumb.
Chestnut Idiotic Volcanic Crater Piazza
  09/23/25
I’m speaking from experience, are you?
Bronze sticky depressive shrine
  09/24/25
that's why you give them a burner number and not your real n...
light talented stain hall
  09/23/25
Also this
Bronze sticky depressive shrine
  09/23/25
serious reply: dont even waste ur time on that shit buy a...
Hyperventilating Charcoal Stage Really Tough Guy
  09/23/25
What does this sentence mean: “ start autistically get...
slate thriller mood
  09/23/25
I think he means dedicate your life to hobbies or scholarshi...
Bronze sticky depressive shrine
  09/23/25
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Hyperventilating Charcoal Stage Really Tough Guy
  09/23/25
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Primrose indecent university
  09/23/25
The time required to match/vet and potential for headaches t...
Chestnut Idiotic Volcanic Crater Piazza
  09/23/25
Or he can go to church and find a decent woman to date/marry
Buff coffee pot pozpig
  09/23/25
1) he says he doesn’t want to marry, 2) dating is very...
Chestnut Idiotic Volcanic Crater Piazza
  09/24/25
You will be amazed at how often their cars break down, famil...
fear-inspiring heady corn cake main people
  09/23/25
...
light talented stain hall
  09/24/25
lol, sounds ghastly
federal flesh school
  09/24/25
SA is a huge waste of time. Just hire hookers every now and ...
citrine generalized bond people who are hurt
  09/23/25
Imo Amp is a better use of ur time
Hyperventilating Charcoal Stage Really Tough Guy
  09/23/25
It is until you get caught in a sting.
light talented stain hall
  09/24/25
There is no value in this. It died the same way dating apps...
Lime Laughsome Theater
  09/24/25
SA Poaster Here... I got into a more serious relationship...
Lake private investor
  10/21/25
What kind of PPM should I be looking at for high col city?
Multi-colored set quadroon
  10/21/25
WHITE MEN DONT PAY FOR SEX DURR DURR
azure dilemma associate
  11/02/25
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azure dilemma associate
  01/13/26
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azure dilemma associate
  01/13/26
This is like the worst parts of dating plus still having to ...
Mud
  01/21/26


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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:05 PM
Author: Multi-colored set quadroon

Don’t want to risk hookers and i eventually want to try dating again but it’s been too long with the wife.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49291749)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: painfully honest poppy stage wrinkle

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49293910)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:50 AM
Author: painfully honest poppy stage wrinkle

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49293939)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:40 PM
Author: painfully honest poppy stage wrinkle

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49296549)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:08 PM
Author: light talented stain hall

I'm not sure you're gonna be able to command top dollar considering your:

- age;

- height;

- remaining hair

But give it a go!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49291759)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:17 PM
Author: Multi-colored set quadroon

If they can’t handle me at my worst they don’t deserve me at my best

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49291776)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 4:15 PM
Author: light talented stain hall

Your refusal to state your height speaks volumes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49291944)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:00 AM
Author: Multi-colored set quadroon

6’2”

220 (terrible build)

Slight receding with a widows peak. I don’t look balding yet but I’ve got some worries.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49293643)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 4:15 PM
Author: pearly yarmulke

why did your wife leave you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49291946)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:04 AM
Author: Multi-colored set quadroon

Wife had a mid life crisis. We married young but waited to have kids so I’m not sure what her problem is.

I work too much is part of it.

She didn’t cuck me before separation but I assume she has by now.

So I’m done.

Don’t really want another wife while my kids are young.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49293651)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 5:11 PM
Author: 180 menage

if you have a chance to bludgeon yourself retarded with rust caked pipes, do that over and over instead

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49292139)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 5:40 PM
Author: Ocher Center

Grinder.com

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49292243)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:22 PM
Author: light talented stain hall

I don't believe OP is gay, though

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49295397)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:18 AM
Author: Bronze sticky depressive shrine

There are some gems on SA if you’re willing to wade through the trash. Ideal would be to find a cute-ish 20-25 yo girl who will have sex for $500 a pop that you can see twice a month or so. There’s a lot of flakes, I suggest quickly moving conversation to “hey let’s meet up for a drink, are you free tonight?” to see if they are serious / interested or not.

Don’t talk about money / sex on the app, wait to meet up and feel things out in person. Hopefully you have a least a little game.

Also, get in shape.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49293677)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:20 AM
Author: slate thriller mood

Search for the seeking arrangement poaster’s threads. All the scholarship you need.

The short version is if you are moderately good looking you’ll do great. Tell them up front you are looking for pay per meet. You will undoubtedly have some kooky situations. Ultimately, you will grow tired of it and your soul will be diminished.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49293681)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:21 PM
Author: Primrose indecent university

wow

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49296963)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: olive rigpig point

What's ur $$$$$ situation and geography?

DESCRIBE ur terrible physique and honestly rate ur facial aesthetics and genetic makeup

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49293908)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: painfully honest poppy stage wrinkle

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49293911)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:16 PM
Author: federal flesh school

"Don’t want to risk hookers"

I've got some bad news about SA

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49294299)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:54 PM
Author: Bronze sticky depressive shrine

There’s some pros on there for sure but there’s also some college girls looking for an allowance

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49294402)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 2:57 PM
Author: federal flesh school

It is all literally sex for money.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49295292)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:23 PM
Author: light talented stain hall

They're not hookers.

They're just seeking Mutually Beneficial arrangements, tee-hee

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49295402)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:57 PM
Author: Brilliant Aggressive Messiness Temple

Actual professional hookers seem less risky than this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49294413)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:59 PM
Author: Bronze sticky depressive shrine

How so?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49294425)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 1:18 PM
Author: Brilliant Aggressive Messiness Temple

They're not going to do something dumb like call or text you at the wrong time or go nuts on you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49294503)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:15 PM
Author: Bronze sticky depressive shrine

I’d rather deal with an amateur hooker than a professional one, the pros are more likely to be sketchy, have a criminal record, drug use, poverty, STDs, etc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49295355)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 4:23 PM
Author: cordovan contagious parlour

professional hookers are in business bcs they are professional, not on drugs, germ-free, take credit cards where as amateurs are all dirty druggies with std's they dont even know about, "oh that itch/rash/sore/fever, i thought it was cuz I havent showered in 5 days".

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49295517)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:25 PM
Author: Bronze sticky depressive shrine

…?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49296355)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:43 PM
Author: Chestnut Idiotic Volcanic Crater Piazza

Do not take advice from this poaster. He is dumb.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49296572)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:09 AM
Author: Bronze sticky depressive shrine

I’m speaking from experience, are you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49297045)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:23 PM
Author: light talented stain hall

that's why you give them a burner number and not your real name.

Rookie

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49295406)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 4:13 PM
Author: Bronze sticky depressive shrine

Also this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49295494)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 1:00 PM
Author: Hyperventilating Charcoal Stage Really Tough Guy

serious reply: dont even waste ur time on that shit

buy a tenga flip and start autistically getting into a surrogate activity

if u really need it go to some 3rd world asian shithole and pound it out there

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49294429)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:14 PM
Author: slate thriller mood

What does this sentence mean: “ start autistically getting to a surrogate activity”

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49296185)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:26 PM
Author: Bronze sticky depressive shrine

I think he means dedicate your life to hobbies or scholarship instead of wasting time on women

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49296383)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:55 PM
Author: Hyperventilating Charcoal Stage Really Tough Guy



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49296940)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:22 PM
Author: Primrose indecent university



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49296966)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:39 PM
Author: Chestnut Idiotic Volcanic Crater Piazza

The time required to match/vet and potential for headaches that can come from the fake dating with SA always seemed like a big negative to me. That single non-parent dude in CO who was lining them up 3 per night and poasted all those pics and sex diaries seemed like the right way to SA. Ie it’s a tool suited to single middle aged dudes with a lot of time to search for a daddy issues Cinderella. But for a single dad with young kids it seems awful. Requires time you don’t have and energy/stress you should spare yourself. If you want to fuck a hot chick, pay over $500/hr (usually $800 in a big city), get a burner, use a fake name, set up a fake LinkedIn and treat yourself to a high end escort every once in a while. No reason that would prevent you from dating later on or concurrently, in fact I’d argue it would improve your performance because you won’t depend on dating for sex, you’ll have more time and you will be more rational in your assessments of potential long term candidates.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49296544)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:16 PM
Author: Buff coffee pot pozpig

Or he can go to church and find a decent woman to date/marry

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49296958)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 3:24 AM
Author: Chestnut Idiotic Volcanic Crater Piazza

1) he says he doesn’t want to marry, 2) dating is very hard as a single parent with little kids, 3) the only women at church who see a single dad wrangling two kids and think to themselves “ohh I wonder if he’s single or his wife just has a stomach bug” are 300+ lbs. You’re right that mongering is a soul-rotting practice, but he’s the rare dude where the soul rot is worth the trade for the convenient access to sex with a woman who is otherwise far too attractive for him to ever have a chance with.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49297191)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:47 PM
Author: fear-inspiring heady corn cake main people

You will be amazed at how often their cars break down, family members/pets have costly medical emergencies, etc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49296638)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:51 AM
Author: light talented stain hall



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49297113)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 2:08 PM
Author: federal flesh school

lol, sounds ghastly

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49298625)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:07 PM
Author: citrine generalized bond people who are hurt

SA is a huge waste of time. Just hire hookers every now and then.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49296951)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:10 PM
Author: Hyperventilating Charcoal Stage Really Tough Guy

Imo Amp is a better use of ur time

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49296954)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:50 AM
Author: light talented stain hall

It is until you get caught in a sting.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49297112)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:03 AM
Author: Lime Laughsome Theater

There is no value in this. It died the same way dating apps died. The hot chicks are on instagram and if they need extra cash post on onlyfans. The dude who posted here about SA posted a lot of 30s women. Why bother with that?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49297025)



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Date: October 21st, 2025 5:03 PM
Author: Lake private investor

SA Poaster Here...

I got into a more serious relationship with a chick I met off a dating app... We ended up having a bunch of mutual friends in common and went from there so I haven't been on SA in ages... I also started doing great on the apps (this takes a bit of time as the algo ranks you and can be frustrating/discouraging at first so be patient), so I got off SA completely.

However, for your situation I think it's fine, just use a google voice burner number and ideally don't take them to where you live until you've hooked up with them at least once and aren't getting any sketchy or crazy vibes. I only say that because you have kids. I met up with plenty of chicks straight at my house straight away, including late at night and it was fine but if I had kids I wouldn't do that.

If you search SA on here you'll get all my poasts which have quite a bit of scholarship on the matter. Ideally you find 1 or 2 you actually have some fun hanging out with who are great in bed and you just keep them on rotation whenever you're free.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49364680)



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Date: October 21st, 2025 5:44 PM
Author: Multi-colored set quadroon

What kind of PPM should I be looking at for high col city?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49364751)



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Date: November 2nd, 2025 7:21 PM
Author: azure dilemma associate

WHITE MEN DONT PAY FOR SEX DURR DURR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49396314)



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Date: January 13th, 2026 6:54 PM
Author: azure dilemma associate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49587124)



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Date: January 13th, 2026 7:08 PM
Author: azure dilemma associate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49587194)



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Date: January 21st, 2026 5:33 PM
Author: Mud

This is like the worst parts of dating plus still having to pay.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Vannesa#49607174)