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Wife Is F500 Ppl Manager. Staff Always Tells Her About Personal Problems
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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:21 AM Author: lemon abusive hospital scourge upon the earth in her monthly 1:1's with them, they love talking her ear off about their personal problems - sick/dying parents and spouses, divorces, etc. im surprised people get so personal with their managers. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49866442) |
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Date: May 6th, 2026 12:38 AM Author: Alcoholic church mediation monthly?! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49868755) |
Date: May 5th, 2026 9:22 AM Author: Orange rehab newt Wow yeah I sure do hate hearing about the minutiae of people’s stupid NPC lives, wish they’d stop trying to tell me 🙄 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49866448) |
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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:44 AM Author: maize supple cuckold xo is differetn (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49866500) |
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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:03 AM Author: misunderstood 180 personal credit line stage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49866573) |
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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:52 AM Author: orchid arousing milk this but unironically (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49866752) |
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Date: May 5th, 2026 12:13 PM Author: Stirring voyeur preventive strike (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49866833) |
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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:24 AM Author: Multi-colored self-absorbed alpha haunted graveyard this is not flame a great use for AI (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49866450) |
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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:34 AM Author: lemon abusive hospital scourge upon the earth not flame, she's been using AI for manager stuff like scripts for telling them why they got a standard shitty corporate 2.5% raise, and using AI to anticipate potential Q&A / complaints they have about their raise. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49866478) |
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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:35 AM Author: Multi-colored self-absorbed alpha haunted graveyard based (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49866480) |
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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:27 AM Author: Ruddy Psychic Location Is your wife also autistic? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49866457) |
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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:30 AM Author: lemon abusive hospital scourge upon the earth she's an INTJ female, but very likeable and people love her -- even though she hates people. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49866468) |
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Date: May 6th, 2026 8:17 AM Author: internet-worthy deer antler pit intj females are absolutely terrifying, gl (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49869120) |
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Date: May 6th, 2026 3:07 PM Author: lemon abusive hospital scourge upon the earth why? she's exempt from 99% of birdbrained women are 180 shit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49870042) |
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Date: May 6th, 2026 9:16 PM Author: internet-worthy deer antler pit that's fair. i guess i've just been on the wrong end of one before (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49871025) |
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Date: May 6th, 2026 9:20 PM Author: lemon abusive hospital scourge upon the earth go on... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49871034) |
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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:28 AM Author: internet-worthy deer antler pit this is a tough balance in the workplace. don't want to be vulnerable but spend a lot of time with people and if you can develop a productive friendship idk might as well (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49866460) |
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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:32 AM Author: lemon abusive hospital scourge upon the earth she's remote and her team is all remote. that's why it's weird to spill your personal problems onto your manager.
i guess she comes off as compassionate and likeable and a good listener so people feel comfortable with her. |
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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:36 AM Author: glittery house-broken puppy i was going to say women always make the mistake of trying to team build into a family and they are complete nuisances but having an all remote team makes this weird as fuck (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49866486) |
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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:41 AM Author: lemon abusive hospital scourge upon the earth she traditionally didnt do any team building shit and hates it. she thinks people like it, and recently started this ice breaker during their every other week team meeting where once person presents a 3-5 min slide about themselves. the people love this shit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49866493) |
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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:45 AM Author: Multi-colored self-absorbed alpha haunted graveyard Normies are freakin' wild, man (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49866503) |
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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:08 AM Author: glittery house-broken puppy i guess if they are shut in remoters that could make sense. the last thing i want to do is go out to lunch with my coworkers and share my life. jfc. or play some game two truths and a lie. jfc women |
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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:00 AM Author: internet-worthy deer antler pit oh yeah that's weirder than i was imagining. i'm talking about sharing relevant personal details with peers, as it naturally comes up in conversation. not that (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49866562) |
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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:31 AM Author: cracking karate in bigfed you have a ton of leave that you can take for virtually any personal problem, so it's really a cya (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49866469) |
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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:45 AM Author: bronze rambunctious laser beams nursing home That's pretty much all I cover in 1 on 1s. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49866502) |
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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:49 AM Author: Saffron Area Tattoo wasn't she in "STEM" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49866519) |
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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:59 AM Author: lemon abusive hospital scourge upon the earth yes, now she's a people manager for stem dorks. that's how u rise up in f500's. u dont go anywhere being an individual contributor (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49866560) |
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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:02 AM Author: flirting shrine idea he suggested Why is her team all Women, like how much does this country hate “men” if Nerds are getting screwed and not just Losers. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49866571) |
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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:11 AM Author: lemon abusive hospital scourge upon the earth poor rc? when did i say her team is all women, retard? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49866616) |
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Date: May 5th, 2026 11:55 AM Author: Saffron Area Tattoo it was strongly implied all of the people she manages are either women, homosexuals, or indian (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49866808) |
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Date: May 6th, 2026 7:03 AM Author: lemon abusive hospital scourge upon the earth poor rc? it's not strongly implied at all. none are homo or indian (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49869009) |
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Date: May 6th, 2026 7:13 AM Author: flirting shrine idea he suggested You’ve made this thread before. The whole team sounds female in both threads. Also just saying F500 individual contributor causes one to picture a Woman. The example you gave was also a Woman. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49869030) |
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Date: May 6th, 2026 7:30 AM Author: lemon abusive hospital scourge upon the earth low iq schtick? women are far more likely to gush their personal problems to their manager. that the one example i chose to give is a woman doesnt prove that the whole team is women. u seem really stupid. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49869057) |
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Date: May 6th, 2026 7:39 AM Author: flirting shrine idea he suggested Don’t waste my motherfucking time. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49869064) |
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Date: May 6th, 2026 8:27 AM Author: lemon abusive hospital scourge upon the earth You seem angry and oriental. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49869144) |
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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:53 AM Author: tan razzmatazz set good examples? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49866534) |
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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:01 AM Author: lemon abusive hospital scourge upon the earth a girl in her mid-40s has a husband (similar age) w some genetic kidney disease and needs a transplant and it's a 7 yr waiting list. he's basically bedridden in his home and cant do anything in life. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49866568) |
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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:06 AM Author: tan razzmatazz set big life insurance? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49866583) |
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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:11 AM Author: lemon abusive hospital scourge upon the earth she should have asked (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49866607) |
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Date: May 5th, 2026 12:10 PM Author: glittery house-broken puppy a normal boss in usa 2026 would work the shit out of that woman with that information knowing that she needs the health insurance continuity and cant leave (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49866827) |
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Date: May 5th, 2026 12:17 PM Author: lemon abusive hospital scourge upon the earth rofl but why would my wife be draconianly mean? she's not gonna get any more than her own 2.5% raise if she's a cunt to this poor girl (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49866841) |
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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:50 AM Author: At-the-ready appetizing party of the first part regret you guys are weirdos and once a month isn't enough for 1:1's unless it's like an actual call center where you manage 100 losers, in which case I would probably just never meet with them.
I do weekly 1:1 with all my directs, weekly direct team call, weekly extended dotted line team call, weekly team leadership call, weekly dotted line leadership call, weekly all hands or management only calls every other week. this is probably too many calls and cuts into my poasting and golf time. |
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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:55 AM Author: lemon abusive hospital scourge upon the earth she has 15 direct reports. she talks to most of them much more frequently -- individually, in small groups, or both -- about substantive projects.
it seems the scheduled monthly 1:1's are more big picture what they're doing and overal org stuff and career development, rather than about the substantive project of the day. |
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Date: May 5th, 2026 12:03 PM Author: Saffron Area Tattoo 1:1s are largely useless and ime an excess of them is a big signal of organizational cruft (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49866822) |
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Date: May 5th, 2026 12:13 PM Author: At-the-ready appetizing party of the first part regret i agree and do mine on friday mornings when everyone is either hungover or on pto (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49866832) |
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Date: May 5th, 2026 12:42 PM Author: Bisexual space sandwich LMAO at weekly 1:1's. Do you manage retarded children?
I need to believe this is flame, but I've worked in enough orgs to know some places actually operate like this and then wonder why nobody gets anything done on an individual or team level...because they spend half the work week in meetings that are completely irrelevant and could have been accomplished with an email.
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Date: May 5th, 2026 12:58 PM Author: At-the-ready appetizing party of the first part regret we're remote and i need to make sure everyone is alive and isn't spending their friday mornings playing Golf. that's what Friday afternoons are for. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49866902) |
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Date: May 5th, 2026 2:55 PM Author: lemon abusive hospital scourge upon the earth this is some boomer shit. why dont u judge them by their performance, not their ability to jerk off at home on friday rather than play golf (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49867297) |
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Date: May 5th, 2026 2:57 PM Author: At-the-ready appetizing party of the first part regret i'm too lazy to build kpi models and shit. i do actual work sometimes too when I'm not napping or playing Golf. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49867308) |
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Date: May 6th, 2026 12:40 AM Author: Alcoholic church mediation i do weekly 1:1s and it's sort of the norm at the company, but i also cancel if there's nothing to discuss or i don't feel like it. might cancel tomorrow's connect with my boss if he has nothing to discuss, too. he's usually eager to skip (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49868757) |
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Date: May 6th, 2026 8:19 AM Author: internet-worthy deer antler pit i'm amazed that so many people itt do weekly 1:1s, that's insane! i don't even do monthly with my boss, we just catch up whenever we need to (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49869125) |
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Date: May 6th, 2026 6:30 PM Author: Alcoholic church mediation depends on culture of the company. also as middle management we sort of need to look busy and coach our team members, not just discuss tactical stuff (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49870604) |
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Date: May 5th, 2026 11:51 AM Author: fuchsia angry spot legend gonna be 180 when you and your faggot wife get laid off in the exact same time in 18 months
youre a fucking useless piece of shit and should do everyone the world a favor and taste lead |
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Date: May 5th, 2026 12:00 PM Author: lemon abusive hospital scourge upon the earth if we get shitcanned, the whole white collar world is done (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49866816) |
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Date: May 5th, 2026 12:11 PM Author: Saffron Area Tattoo cr it's well documented that companies collapse without Middle Management and many are looking to actively increase this layer (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49866829) |
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Date: May 6th, 2026 9:23 PM Author: flirting shrine idea he suggested lmao. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Vannesa#49871049) |