i'm going to eat dinner. I will likely cry during dinner scared of your response.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774634&forum_id=2Vannesa#34529628)

my first serious boyfriend and the guy i lost my virginity to was a bit like you rach. he was skinny and on the shorter side- a tad over 5 8 (he was actually 1/4 inch shorter than me but i didnt care) and had a roughly 6.5 inch dick. so was surprisingly big for his height, though at the time obviously i didnt realize it bc i was not yet a COCK SCHOLAR.

anyway, one night early on in our relationship, we were discussing his dick and i asked him how big it was because i honestly couldnt tell. (typical female; bad with estimating sizes and spatial stuff) he told me the size but i grabbed a ruler and measured it hard anyway. i noticed with my hands next to the ruler that if i put my hands on top of each other like i was gripping a baseball bat (or his cock) with both of them, that the length across both of my hands was just under 6 inches.

now if i ever want to guesttimate a dudes dick size when im fucking or sucking him, i can just grab his dick with both hands and guesttimate from there

not an exact science by any means but when people ask me roughly how big a guy is on this boart, thats how i am guesttimating

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774634&forum_id=2Vannesa#34533096)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774634&forum_id=2Vannesa#34532656)

ive never fucked an asian dude but ive heard the stats. *shrug* that being said, one of my old roommates was a female with a wgwag fetish and she never complained about dudes dick sizes (and she talked about sex and dick sizes A LOT). so idk. i tend to think shitting on asian dudes for dick sizes is just overblown BS. im sure 90%+ of their dicks are just fine for getting the job done.

so tell me... how big are you? ;)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774634&forum_id=2Vannesa#34528809)

ANYWAY 5.5 is average but thats totally fine. in fact, in a lot of ways its a good size. its definitely big enough to get a chick off. she's not going to be complaining afterward that you were too small. but its also not huge and unwieldy to the point where it makes blowjobs/deep throating difficult. also, 5.5 is a good size for anal. its not going to hurt really badly unless youve got a tuna can dick. so once you think about it, 5.5 is actually not a bad size at all. its actually pretty good. big enough to get the job done but not so big that its not versatile.

:)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774634&forum_id=2Vannesa#34529090)

i've never had any complaints, and most girls seem to react like it's normal size. probably they are hoping bigger, but they don't react like it's small, and i'm perceptive to a dangerous fault.

so i tend to think it's normal. only problem is i find it can limit positions sometimes. but i've made plenty of women cum with it, so i'm just glad it isn't worse.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774634&forum_id=2Vannesa#34529164)

:)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774634&forum_id=2Vannesa#34533245)

Cock ring gets me 6.5 and girthy

Wait why am I ITT

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774634&forum_id=2Vannesa#34536259)

*penis gets gangrene and falls off*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774634&forum_id=2Vannesa#34536295)

youre seem to me like youre a really good dood who wants a sincere woman. ive been reading your poasts for over a year now and its clear to me that you just want a nice chick that you care about and to settle down with. and youre obviously very sweet when it comes to women you care about. i think you need to get the fuck out of LA ASAP like we've discussed many times before and find happiness in another part of the country. LA and the type of people that live in LA tend to just feed your neurotic tendencies. youre never going to have a soulful, loving connection with any of the vapid women there.

with all that being said, your dick is completely and totally fine. based on what youve said before in other threads, you strike me as the type that goes the extra mile to make sure their woman is happy in bed. thats more important than being above average in size. your dick may be average, but your enthusiasm and heart are above average and THAT is more important to any ~good~ woman than an extra inch to measure.

leave LA, find a woman that you really connect with, and the amazing sex will follow.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774634&forum_id=2Vannesa#34536344)

I'm hoping I'll leave by end of 2018, but I'm worried(?) I'm going to get offered a great research opportunity that will compel me to stay :/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774634&forum_id=2Vannesa#34536663)

believe it or not, i have the same tendencies toward pessimism and am sometimes neurotic in my personal life. its very easy for me to look on the bright side of things for other people and cheer them up but sometimes its hard to see the light in my own life because i get caught up in over-thinking things and i have tendencies toward depression. ive fucked up a few relationships or potential relationships with quality men this way, unfortunately. i think you and i are similar in that we both want real, deep connections but at times our brains and our circumstances get in the way of that.

i think you need to make a realistic assessment of your life and goals and decide what will make you happy. will that great job in LA make you happy if you otherwise hate the area? think long and hard before making any decision.

in the end, though, i think you have a good heart, youre smart, and you will end up just fine. <3 you just need to figure out the right path for yourself and you'll be ok <3

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3774634&forum_id=2Vannesa#34536820)