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My wife hates that I get chores done while I WFH

She comes home and everything is done which means she wasn&r...
Frisky deer antler tattoo
  01/15/25
Find this rly hard to believe tbh.
Jet Brunch
  01/15/25
(unmarried man)
exhilarant sanctuary messiness
  01/15/25
Wrong on both counts
Jet Brunch
  01/15/25
My apologies! Let me correct myself: (lying woman)
exhilarant sanctuary messiness
  01/15/25
women ALWAYS lie about this and ALWAYS claim to be the excep...
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Women don't view their compulsive complaining and general di...
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(married woman)
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you don't have a wife and literally spend 20+ hours a day ra...
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wait...wait.... I thought *I* was the retarded jewish ped...
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  08/07/25
anyone who doesn’t worship god emperor Trump, actually...
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Now imagine how mad she'd be if you didn't do them
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you should teach her to get chores done as she goes, like pu...
dun razzle-dazzle dilemma
  01/15/25
180. Its 18000 seeing them short circuit in real time trying...
bateful foreskin
  01/15/25
This guy gets it
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beady-eyed lavender legend
  01/15/25
I also WFH and get chores done while my wife is at her offic...
maroon rigpig
  01/15/25
lmao its too cynical to believe but i want it to be true
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bateful foreskin
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Self-absorbed parlor
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It truly upsets the natural order of things
jade property
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Women don't want help with chores. They don't even want the...
exhilarant sanctuary messiness
  01/15/25
i encourage you to do a long substack post on this topic. y...
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spot fucking on
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bateful foreskin
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if youre married these days women expect you to be hiring h...
dun razzle-dazzle dilemma
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The food never tastes as good or is as healthy as if you coo...
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jfc, marriage sounds miserable
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It is
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explains women managers too
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“Email me, brotha”
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  08/07/25
how do you guys live like this.
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Wow
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She's mad that you're doing chores at home because it's a si...
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Top thread. Op should monikerize
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180
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op is a retarded jewish pedophile and there is a near 0% cha...
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yeah he's a poster on autoadmit.com we fucking get it
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And her mother would be 100% correct
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Date: January 15th, 2025 3:12 PM
Author: Frisky deer antler tattoo

She comes home and everything is done which means she wasn’t home when they weren’t done thus negating her ability to complain about them not being done. This makes her MAF.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555516)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 3:25 PM
Author: Jet Brunch

Find this rly hard to believe tbh.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555533)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 3:26 PM
Author: exhilarant sanctuary messiness

(unmarried man)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555538)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 3:32 PM
Author: Jet Brunch

Wrong on both counts

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555549)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 3:59 PM
Author: exhilarant sanctuary messiness

My apologies! Let me correct myself:

(lying woman)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555641)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:01 PM
Author: Self-absorbed parlor

women ALWAYS lie about this and ALWAYS claim to be the exception

it's very strange and annoying

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555646)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:08 PM
Author: exhilarant sanctuary messiness

Women don't view their compulsive complaining and general dissatisfaction with everything as pathological, and with the social trend towards "woman always right", why should they. They're told every day that they should be miserable and the cause of their misery lies entirely outside of themselves

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555654)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:08 PM
Author: Self-absorbed parlor



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555658)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 11:51 AM
Author: Judgmental Misunderstood Lodge Volcanic Crater



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560445)



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Date: August 2nd, 2025 5:50 PM
Author: Thriller trailer park



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#49151380)



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Date: August 7th, 2025 12:05 PM
Author: Mildly autistic hominid



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#49164514)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 6:37 PM
Author: Wonderful flickering trust fund boistinker

correction: liberal women. Liberalism is a mental disease and women have it times ten.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48556060)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 3:36 PM
Author: Self-absorbed parlor



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555558)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 3:39 PM
Author: Jet-lagged Elite Public Bath



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555574)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 5:23 PM
Author: Frisky deer antler tattoo



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555876)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 10:59 AM
Author: Titillating theater stage legal warrant



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560301)



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Date: August 2nd, 2025 5:50 PM
Author: Thriller trailer park



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#49151379)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 3:36 PM
Author: Fuchsia Shaky Mental Disorder

(married woman)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555556)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 3:37 PM
Author: thirsty nursing home feces



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555564)



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Date: January 16th, 2025 10:51 AM
Author: Frisky deer antler tattoo



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48557527)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:14 PM
Author: Saffron Boiling Water

you don't have a wife and literally spend 20+ hours a day raging about donald trump on the internet you mentally retarded jewish pedophile. you are jewishly lying yet again.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555664)



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Date: August 7th, 2025 12:06 PM
Author: Mildly autistic hominid

wait...wait....

I thought *I* was the retarded jewish pedophile?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#49164516)



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Date: August 7th, 2025 12:10 PM
Author: Frisky deer antler tattoo

anyone who doesn’t worship god emperor Trump, actually

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#49164524)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 3:36 PM
Author: Self-absorbed parlor



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555559)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 3:41 PM
Author: Stirring Underhanded Corn Cake

Now imagine how mad she'd be if you didn't do them

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555582)



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Date: January 23rd, 2025 11:03 AM
Author: Brass box office kitty



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48581104)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:01 PM
Author: dun razzle-dazzle dilemma

you should teach her to get chores done as she goes, like putting garbage in the trash can or rinsing dishes off before putting them in the dishwasher. shed probably go ballistic.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555645)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:14 PM
Author: bateful foreskin

180. Its 18000 seeing them short circuit in real time trying to chase the high of complaining > realizing they're fresh out of smack. I hate women so much.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555665)



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Date: August 2nd, 2025 5:49 PM
Author: Frisky deer antler tattoo

This guy gets it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#49151378)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:14 PM
Author: beady-eyed lavender legend



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555667)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:16 PM
Author: maroon rigpig

I also WFH and get chores done while my wife is at her office job. She absolutely hates coming home to see the snow cleared, grocery shopping done and dinner prepared with dishes already put away. She gets even more furious when the laundry is done. I understand that level of productivity is hard for her to process because she needs to watch me do chores and berate me while I do them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555671)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:17 PM
Author: dun razzle-dazzle dilemma

lmao its too cynical to believe but i want it to be true

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555678)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:17 PM
Author: bateful foreskin



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555679)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:18 PM
Author: Self-absorbed parlor



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555683)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:22 PM
Author: jade property

It truly upsets the natural order of things

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555694)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:47 PM
Author: exhilarant sanctuary messiness

Women don't want help with chores. They don't even want the chores to be done exactly the way they want them done. What they want is to micromanage their husbands and spread misery.

Doing the chores perfectly while she's away is so aggravating to women because if exposes the lie that it was ever about the chores at all.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555778)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:49 PM
Author: Self-absorbed parlor

i encourage you to do a long substack post on this topic. you are an expert

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555785)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 5:07 PM
Author: Self-absorbed parlor



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555832)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 5:24 PM
Author: Frisky deer antler tattoo

spot fucking on

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555879)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 5:44 PM
Author: bateful foreskin



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555933)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 5:45 PM
Author: dun razzle-dazzle dilemma

if youre married these days women expect you to be hiring housecleaners and landscapers and ubereats drivers 24/7 for this reason.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555935)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 5:49 PM
Author: maroon rigpig

The food never tastes as good or is as healthy as if you cook for yourself at home. Cleaning and other work around the house is the same. I only hire out work too complex or time consuming to do it myself like a large plumbing project. I’d also never get up on my roof for any reason so I have contractors handle that. I’m happy to do most things and my wife still resents me and berates me for how it’s done.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555945)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 6:40 PM
Author: Wonderful flickering trust fund boistinker

jfc, marriage sounds miserable

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48556065)



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Date: January 16th, 2025 9:59 PM
Author: Jet-lagged Elite Public Bath

It is

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48559257)



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Date: January 16th, 2025 9:56 PM
Author: Jet-lagged Elite Public Bath

This

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48559252)



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Date: January 16th, 2025 9:57 PM
Author: Learning Disabled Area

hooooooooooooly shiiiiiiiiiiittttt

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48559255)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 10:30 AM
Author: Beta piazza laser beams



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560179)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 11:40 AM
Author: charismatic theatre keepsake machete

Whoa

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560426)



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Date: January 23rd, 2025 10:08 AM
Author: Concupiscible transparent site



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48580966)



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Date: January 23rd, 2025 10:11 AM
Author: pontificating up-to-no-good useless brakes azn

explains women managers too

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48580979)



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Date: August 2nd, 2025 5:51 PM
Author: Thriller trailer park



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#49151381)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 11:39 AM
Author: charismatic theatre keepsake machete



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560423)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 8:44 PM
Author: Vibrant stage

My wife gets MAF because whenever she wants to "clean together" and I'm like - nope. Email me what you want cleaned and I will just clean it all myself.

They really just want to direct you around like you're there intern.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48556325)



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Date: August 7th, 2025 12:08 PM
Author: Marvelous station

“Email me, brotha”

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#49164520)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 8:51 PM
Author: bat shit crazy generalized bond depressive

how do you guys live like this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48556340)



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Date: January 16th, 2025 11:36 AM
Author: Adventurous affirmative action

Wait until the new update installs and she finds new things to be mad about anyway

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48557618)



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Date: January 16th, 2025 11:28 PM
Author: laughsome space

Wow

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48559474)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 4:36 AM
Author: Fighting Point Sneaky Criminal

She's mad that you're doing chores at home because it's a sign that you're not making as much money as you theoretically could be making if you have time to do that shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48559725)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 6:56 AM
Author: Demanding hairraiser nibblets

Top thread. Op should monikerize

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48559808)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 7:53 AM
Author: Frisky deer antler tattoo



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48559832)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 9:38 AM
Author: Demanding hairraiser nibblets

180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560032)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 9:43 AM
Author: Saffron Boiling Water

op is a retarded jewish pedophile and there is a near 0% chance he actually has a wife. he just makes these threads out of some sense of obligation to promote jewish agitprop and degeneracy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560039)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 9:50 AM
Author: thirsty nursing home feces

yeah he's a poster on autoadmit.com we fucking get it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560051)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 9:51 AM
Author: Frisky deer antler tattoo



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560054)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 10:15 AM
Author: bateful foreskin



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560121)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 9:50 AM
Author: thirsty nursing home feces



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560050)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 10:43 AM
Author: Alcoholic pearly giraffe

When the wife was not working, her story was that it is hard to get all the daily chores done.

When I switched to WFH and she started going in to do an essentially email job, I started doing most of the daily chores. As soon as she leaves for work, I write up a list of chores, put on a podcast, set my phone timer for 45 minutes, and rip through as many chores as fast as possible. If needed I do that again for 30 minutes late in the afternoon.

Her mother came to visit and complimented my wife by saying that our house is now so much cleaner and organized. Her mother didn't realize that I was the one doing nearly all the chores. The wife spent a month fuming, pouting, and saying "I'm not angry" before letting the whole thing explode.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560241)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 11:00 AM
Author: Multi-colored newt

DESCRIBE said explosion

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560304)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 11:30 AM
Author: Alcoholic pearly giraffe

"My mother basically said I was a bad housekeeper and I know you are thinking the same thing even if you don't say it! Which also means that I am a bad mother, in my mother's eyes!"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560402)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 11:38 AM
Author: charismatic theatre keepsake machete

And her mother would be 100% correct

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560418)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 11:41 AM
Author: Alcoholic pearly giraffe

She's a great mother to our three boys and in particular is a great boys mother. She knows when to let them be rowdy and she can get them to focus when they need to. But her organizational and housekeeping skills are abysmal.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560427)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 11:42 AM
Author: charismatic theatre keepsake machete

So she can do part of the job but not the other parts. What do you think her mother would think of that

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560430)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 11:45 AM
Author: Alcoholic pearly giraffe

Her mother is basically the opposite which is a large part of the problem. Her mother was a pro level housekeeper and all around organized thing-doer but could not nurture let alone tolerate the true personalities of her children. So her mother and my wife are still running a low-grade resentment contest between them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560436)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 1:24 PM
Author: charismatic theatre keepsake machete

nice. great set up

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560717)



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Date: January 20th, 2025 6:08 AM
Author: Multi-colored newt

There is no win here. Ultimately it's her issues with her mother. Just remember that your wife has the emotional maturity of a 12 year old and you will profit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48567872)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: Self-absorbed parlor

i asked chatgpt for book recommendations on this specific topic. everything it offered was total garbage

any of you bozos have more longer form Scholarship to suggest?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560252)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 10:58 AM
Author: Beta piazza laser beams

My wife is a disgusting slob and any caring whatsoever about “chores” getting done at all (let alone “correctly”) falls to me. I’ve mostly stopped caring at this point.

Not sure whether this is better or worse than a wife/situation like the one described in the OP

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560294)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 11:36 AM
Author: Insanely creepy tank

Women are 180

The house is spotless when I WFH. When my wife does there are plates left in the sink, empty soda cans on her desk, unmade bed, etc.

It sucks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560411)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 11:58 AM
Author: Self-absorbed parlor

Nagging: Domestic Abuse: Exploring the Psychology of Nagging and Relational Aggression (Redpilled Progressive)

Inside, you'll find:

An in-depth look at Chris Rock's observation on women's dislike of men resting.

A detailed analysis of nagging as a form of relational aggression.

A dissection of the 'mean girls' phenomenon in the context of nagging women.

An exploration of how women use state police, social services, and other institutions against men.

A discussion on animus possession and how women project their negativity onto men.

A critique of female supremacy and how it fits into nagging behavior.

An examination of how children are used as tools to extort money.

A thorough look at the influence of feminism and gender ideology on nagging behavior.

https://www.amazon.com/Nagging-Psychology-Relational-Aggression-Progressive-ebook/dp/B0DGW4F2X2

looks interesting

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560455)



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Date: January 20th, 2025 6:09 AM
Author: Multi-colored newt

"A detailed analysis of nagging as a form of relational aggression."

/thread

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48567873)



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Date: January 23rd, 2025 9:38 AM
Author: Demanding hairraiser nibblets

I don't think women, especially SAHMs, are ever going to recover from this.

Each individual task takes somewhere between 30 seconds and 4 minutes.

unloading the dishwasher: 3 min tops

folding laundry: 4 min

cleaning a toilet bowl: 30 seconds

there are some more major time consuming tasks like vacuuming the house but no one expects this done daily.

lol at all of those houses with heaping piles of clean laundry that you are supposed to rummage through and some magnet indicators on the dishwasher that its clean or dirty jfc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48580898)



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Date: January 23rd, 2025 9:41 AM
Author: dun razzle-dazzle dilemma

unloading a dishwasher is a pain imo. but otherwise cr. also i havent folded laundry in years. i either hang it up or if its a tshirt or jeans or whatever i just put the clean clothes in a small pile. if its sheets and bedding stuff you just do the bed, which admittedly is also a pita. towels i guess you fold if theres a ton of them but otherwise put on the rack.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48580913)



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Date: January 23rd, 2025 11:05 AM
Author: Brass box office kitty

Even breaking out a pumice stone to get some hard water stains out of the toilet barely takes much time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48581108)



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Date: August 2nd, 2025 5:49 PM
Author: Frisky deer antler tattoo

Today she came home from shopping and got MAF to find me laying on the couch watching 2024 college football highlights. She was like “Aren’t you going to mow the lawn?” “Already done,” I told her. “What about installing [our son]’s ceiling fan?” “I did that too,” I replied. “Great. Can you fix the dishwasher?” “I already did.” Her face turned bright red with rage. Now she’s not speaking to me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#49151377)



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Date: August 2nd, 2025 5:54 PM
Author: soul-stirring hell athletic conference



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#49151382)



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Date: August 7th, 2025 11:56 AM
Author: Frisky deer antler tattoo

she’s still not talking to me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#49164492)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 1:38 PM
Author: Jet-lagged Elite Public Bath



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#49511370)



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Date: August 28th, 2025 2:53 PM
Author: Demanding hairraiser nibblets



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#49219581)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 12:51 PM
Author: bateful foreskin

think about this thread now & again, hate women

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#49511242)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 12:58 PM
Author: poppy razzle office milk

She's currently rage texting her sisters/friends who are all telling her what an abusive narcissistic asshole you are for doing this, and also telling her that the way you did everything wrong, and how they can't believe that you would so smugly do it while she was out and act like that's OK.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#49511268)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 1:03 PM
Author: Frisky deer antler tattoo

The thing is she can’t come out and say it because she knows she’ll sound like a bitch. but I know. and she knows I know. and that’s enough for me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#49511281)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 1:11 PM
Author: bateful foreskin



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#49511302)