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My wife hates that I get chores done while I WFH

She comes home and everything is done which means she wasn&r...
Cobalt doctorate
  01/15/25
Find this rly hard to believe tbh.
massive sanctuary becky
  01/15/25
(unmarried man)
brass toaster organic girlfriend
  01/15/25
Wrong on both counts
massive sanctuary becky
  01/15/25
My apologies! Let me correct myself: (lying woman)
brass toaster organic girlfriend
  01/15/25
women ALWAYS lie about this and ALWAYS claim to be the excep...
Useless mint kitty abode
  01/15/25
Women don't view their compulsive complaining and general di...
brass toaster organic girlfriend
  01/15/25
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Useless mint kitty abode
  01/15/25
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Tantric Snowy Parlor Sound Barrier
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adventurous disgusting mental disorder
  08/02/25
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narrow-minded cracking azn stain
  08/07/25
correction: liberal women. Liberalism is a mental disease an...
Very tactful mind-boggling church building
  01/15/25
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Useless mint kitty abode
  01/15/25
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cerebral jet-lagged french chef
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Cobalt doctorate
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puce lascivious hall
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adventurous disgusting mental disorder
  08/02/25
(married woman)
mentally impaired nofapping whorehouse tank
  01/15/25
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Unhinged center legal warrant
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Cobalt doctorate
  01/16/25
you don't have a wife and literally spend 20+ hours a day ra...
Cordovan Unholy Lodge
  01/15/25
wait...wait.... I thought *I* was the retarded jewish ped...
narrow-minded cracking azn stain
  08/07/25
anyone who doesn’t worship god emperor Trump, actually...
Cobalt doctorate
  08/07/25
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Useless mint kitty abode
  01/15/25
Now imagine how mad she'd be if you didn't do them
Red University
  01/15/25
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Free-loading Gas Station
  01/23/25
you should teach her to get chores done as she goes, like pu...
Lilac Crotch
  01/15/25
180. Its 18000 seeing them short circuit in real time trying...
Odious Juggernaut
  01/15/25
This guy gets it
Cobalt doctorate
  08/02/25
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sapphire splenetic hell death wish
  01/15/25
I also WFH and get chores done while my wife is at her offic...
territorial state
  01/15/25
lmao its too cynical to believe but i want it to be true
Lilac Crotch
  01/15/25
...
Odious Juggernaut
  01/15/25
...
Useless mint kitty abode
  01/15/25
It truly upsets the natural order of things
swashbuckling magenta range police squad
  01/15/25
Women don't want help with chores. They don't even want the...
brass toaster organic girlfriend
  01/15/25
i encourage you to do a long substack post on this topic. y...
Useless mint kitty abode
  01/15/25
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Useless mint kitty abode
  01/15/25
spot fucking on
Cobalt doctorate
  01/15/25
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Odious Juggernaut
  01/15/25
if youre married these days women expect you to be hiring h...
Lilac Crotch
  01/15/25
The food never tastes as good or is as healthy as if you coo...
territorial state
  01/15/25
jfc, marriage sounds miserable
Very tactful mind-boggling church building
  01/15/25
It is
cerebral jet-lagged french chef
  01/16/25
This
cerebral jet-lagged french chef
  01/16/25
hooooooooooooly shiiiiiiiiiiittttt
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180 jade theatre wrinkle
  01/17/25
Whoa
Concupiscible pontificating location sweet tailpipe
  01/17/25
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maroon know-it-all den
  01/23/25
explains women managers too
emerald turdskin
  01/23/25
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adventurous disgusting mental disorder
  08/02/25
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Concupiscible pontificating location sweet tailpipe
  01/17/25
My wife gets MAF because whenever she wants to "clean t...
coral big tanning salon
  01/15/25
“Email me, brotha”
Racy Filthpig Double Fault
  08/07/25
how do you guys live like this.
judgmental mad cow disease
  01/15/25
Wait until the new update installs and she finds new things ...
insecure stag film
  01/16/25
Wow
Galvanic startled deer antler site
  01/16/25
She's mad that you're doing chores at home because it's a si...
Flatulent Set Water Buffalo
  01/17/25
Top thread. Op should monikerize
Laughsome Locus
  01/17/25
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Cobalt doctorate
  01/17/25
180
Laughsome Locus
  01/17/25
op is a retarded jewish pedophile and there is a near 0% cha...
Cordovan Unholy Lodge
  01/17/25
yeah he's a poster on autoadmit.com we fucking get it
Unhinged center legal warrant
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Cobalt doctorate
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Odious Juggernaut
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Unhinged center legal warrant
  01/17/25
When the wife was not working, her story was that it is hard...
Spruce learning disabled address
  01/17/25
DESCRIBE said explosion
nubile queen of the night
  01/17/25
"My mother basically said I was a bad housekeeper and I...
Spruce learning disabled address
  01/17/25
And her mother would be 100% correct
Concupiscible pontificating location sweet tailpipe
  01/17/25
She's a great mother to our three boys and in particular is ...
Spruce learning disabled address
  01/17/25
So she can do part of the job but not the other parts. What...
Concupiscible pontificating location sweet tailpipe
  01/17/25
Her mother is basically the opposite which is a large part o...
Spruce learning disabled address
  01/17/25
nice. great set up
Concupiscible pontificating location sweet tailpipe
  01/17/25
There is no win here. Ultimately it's her issues with her mo...
nubile queen of the night
  01/20/25
i asked chatgpt for book recommendations on this specific to...
Useless mint kitty abode
  01/17/25
My wife is a disgusting slob and any caring whatsoever about...
180 jade theatre wrinkle
  01/17/25
Women are 180 The house is spotless when I WFH. When my w...
Appetizing alpha pervert
  01/17/25
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  01/17/25
"A detailed analysis of nagging as a form of relational...
nubile queen of the night
  01/20/25
I don't think women, especially SAHMs, are ever going to rec...
Laughsome Locus
  01/23/25
unloading a dishwasher is a pain imo. but otherwise cr. als...
Lilac Crotch
  01/23/25
Even breaking out a pumice stone to get some hard water stai...
Free-loading Gas Station
  01/23/25
Today she came home from shopping and got MAF to find me lay...
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  08/02/25
she’s still not talking to me
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Laughsome Locus
  08/28/25
think about this thread now & again, hate women
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  12/15/25
She's currently rage texting her sisters/friends who are all...
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  12/15/25
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Date: January 15th, 2025 3:12 PM
Author: Cobalt doctorate

She comes home and everything is done which means she wasn’t home when they weren’t done thus negating her ability to complain about them not being done. This makes her MAF.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555516)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 3:25 PM
Author: massive sanctuary becky

Find this rly hard to believe tbh.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555533)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 3:26 PM
Author: brass toaster organic girlfriend

(unmarried man)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555538)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 3:32 PM
Author: massive sanctuary becky

Wrong on both counts

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555549)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 3:59 PM
Author: brass toaster organic girlfriend

My apologies! Let me correct myself:

(lying woman)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555641)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:01 PM
Author: Useless mint kitty abode

women ALWAYS lie about this and ALWAYS claim to be the exception

it's very strange and annoying

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555646)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:08 PM
Author: brass toaster organic girlfriend

Women don't view their compulsive complaining and general dissatisfaction with everything as pathological, and with the social trend towards "woman always right", why should they. They're told every day that they should be miserable and the cause of their misery lies entirely outside of themselves

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555654)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:08 PM
Author: Useless mint kitty abode



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555658)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 11:51 AM
Author: Tantric Snowy Parlor Sound Barrier



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560445)



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Date: August 2nd, 2025 5:50 PM
Author: adventurous disgusting mental disorder



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#49151380)



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Date: August 7th, 2025 12:05 PM
Author: narrow-minded cracking azn stain



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#49164514)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 6:37 PM
Author: Very tactful mind-boggling church building

correction: liberal women. Liberalism is a mental disease and women have it times ten.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48556060)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 3:36 PM
Author: Useless mint kitty abode



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555558)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 3:39 PM
Author: cerebral jet-lagged french chef



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555574)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 5:23 PM
Author: Cobalt doctorate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555876)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 10:59 AM
Author: puce lascivious hall



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560301)



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Date: August 2nd, 2025 5:50 PM
Author: adventurous disgusting mental disorder



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#49151379)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 3:36 PM
Author: mentally impaired nofapping whorehouse tank

(married woman)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555556)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 3:37 PM
Author: Unhinged center legal warrant



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555564)



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Date: January 16th, 2025 10:51 AM
Author: Cobalt doctorate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48557527)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:14 PM
Author: Cordovan Unholy Lodge

you don't have a wife and literally spend 20+ hours a day raging about donald trump on the internet you mentally retarded jewish pedophile. you are jewishly lying yet again.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555664)



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Date: August 7th, 2025 12:06 PM
Author: narrow-minded cracking azn stain

wait...wait....

I thought *I* was the retarded jewish pedophile?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#49164516)



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Date: August 7th, 2025 12:10 PM
Author: Cobalt doctorate

anyone who doesn’t worship god emperor Trump, actually

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#49164524)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 3:36 PM
Author: Useless mint kitty abode



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555559)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 3:41 PM
Author: Red University

Now imagine how mad she'd be if you didn't do them

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555582)



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Date: January 23rd, 2025 11:03 AM
Author: Free-loading Gas Station



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48581104)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:01 PM
Author: Lilac Crotch

you should teach her to get chores done as she goes, like putting garbage in the trash can or rinsing dishes off before putting them in the dishwasher. shed probably go ballistic.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555645)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:14 PM
Author: Odious Juggernaut

180. Its 18000 seeing them short circuit in real time trying to chase the high of complaining > realizing they're fresh out of smack. I hate women so much.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555665)



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Date: August 2nd, 2025 5:49 PM
Author: Cobalt doctorate

This guy gets it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#49151378)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:14 PM
Author: sapphire splenetic hell death wish



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555667)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:16 PM
Author: territorial state

I also WFH and get chores done while my wife is at her office job. She absolutely hates coming home to see the snow cleared, grocery shopping done and dinner prepared with dishes already put away. She gets even more furious when the laundry is done. I understand that level of productivity is hard for her to process because she needs to watch me do chores and berate me while I do them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555671)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:17 PM
Author: Lilac Crotch

lmao its too cynical to believe but i want it to be true

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555678)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:17 PM
Author: Odious Juggernaut



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555679)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:18 PM
Author: Useless mint kitty abode



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555683)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:22 PM
Author: swashbuckling magenta range police squad

It truly upsets the natural order of things

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555694)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:47 PM
Author: brass toaster organic girlfriend

Women don't want help with chores. They don't even want the chores to be done exactly the way they want them done. What they want is to micromanage their husbands and spread misery.

Doing the chores perfectly while she's away is so aggravating to women because if exposes the lie that it was ever about the chores at all.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555778)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 4:49 PM
Author: Useless mint kitty abode

i encourage you to do a long substack post on this topic. you are an expert

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555785)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 5:07 PM
Author: Useless mint kitty abode



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555832)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 5:24 PM
Author: Cobalt doctorate

spot fucking on

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555879)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 5:44 PM
Author: Odious Juggernaut



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555933)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 5:45 PM
Author: Lilac Crotch

if youre married these days women expect you to be hiring housecleaners and landscapers and ubereats drivers 24/7 for this reason.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555935)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 5:49 PM
Author: territorial state

The food never tastes as good or is as healthy as if you cook for yourself at home. Cleaning and other work around the house is the same. I only hire out work too complex or time consuming to do it myself like a large plumbing project. I’d also never get up on my roof for any reason so I have contractors handle that. I’m happy to do most things and my wife still resents me and berates me for how it’s done.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48555945)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 6:40 PM
Author: Very tactful mind-boggling church building

jfc, marriage sounds miserable

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48556065)



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Date: January 16th, 2025 9:59 PM
Author: cerebral jet-lagged french chef

It is

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48559257)



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Date: January 16th, 2025 9:56 PM
Author: cerebral jet-lagged french chef

This

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48559252)



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Date: January 16th, 2025 9:57 PM
Author: House-broken Keepsake Machete Sex Offender

hooooooooooooly shiiiiiiiiiiittttt

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48559255)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 10:30 AM
Author: 180 jade theatre wrinkle



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560179)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 11:40 AM
Author: Concupiscible pontificating location sweet tailpipe

Whoa

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560426)



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Date: January 23rd, 2025 10:08 AM
Author: maroon know-it-all den



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48580966)



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Date: January 23rd, 2025 10:11 AM
Author: emerald turdskin

explains women managers too

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48580979)



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Date: August 2nd, 2025 5:51 PM
Author: adventurous disgusting mental disorder



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#49151381)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 11:39 AM
Author: Concupiscible pontificating location sweet tailpipe



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560423)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 8:44 PM
Author: coral big tanning salon

My wife gets MAF because whenever she wants to "clean together" and I'm like - nope. Email me what you want cleaned and I will just clean it all myself.

They really just want to direct you around like you're there intern.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48556325)



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Date: August 7th, 2025 12:08 PM
Author: Racy Filthpig Double Fault

“Email me, brotha”

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#49164520)



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Date: January 15th, 2025 8:51 PM
Author: judgmental mad cow disease

how do you guys live like this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48556340)



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Date: January 16th, 2025 11:36 AM
Author: insecure stag film

Wait until the new update installs and she finds new things to be mad about anyway

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48557618)



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Date: January 16th, 2025 11:28 PM
Author: Galvanic startled deer antler site

Wow

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48559474)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 4:36 AM
Author: Flatulent Set Water Buffalo

She's mad that you're doing chores at home because it's a sign that you're not making as much money as you theoretically could be making if you have time to do that shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48559725)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 6:56 AM
Author: Laughsome Locus

Top thread. Op should monikerize

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48559808)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 7:53 AM
Author: Cobalt doctorate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48559832)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 9:38 AM
Author: Laughsome Locus

180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560032)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 9:43 AM
Author: Cordovan Unholy Lodge

op is a retarded jewish pedophile and there is a near 0% chance he actually has a wife. he just makes these threads out of some sense of obligation to promote jewish agitprop and degeneracy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560039)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 9:50 AM
Author: Unhinged center legal warrant

yeah he's a poster on autoadmit.com we fucking get it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560051)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 9:51 AM
Author: Cobalt doctorate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560054)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 10:15 AM
Author: Odious Juggernaut



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560121)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 9:50 AM
Author: Unhinged center legal warrant



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560050)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 10:43 AM
Author: Spruce learning disabled address

When the wife was not working, her story was that it is hard to get all the daily chores done.

When I switched to WFH and she started going in to do an essentially email job, I started doing most of the daily chores. As soon as she leaves for work, I write up a list of chores, put on a podcast, set my phone timer for 45 minutes, and rip through as many chores as fast as possible. If needed I do that again for 30 minutes late in the afternoon.

Her mother came to visit and complimented my wife by saying that our house is now so much cleaner and organized. Her mother didn't realize that I was the one doing nearly all the chores. The wife spent a month fuming, pouting, and saying "I'm not angry" before letting the whole thing explode.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560241)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 11:00 AM
Author: nubile queen of the night

DESCRIBE said explosion

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560304)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 11:30 AM
Author: Spruce learning disabled address

"My mother basically said I was a bad housekeeper and I know you are thinking the same thing even if you don't say it! Which also means that I am a bad mother, in my mother's eyes!"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560402)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 11:38 AM
Author: Concupiscible pontificating location sweet tailpipe

And her mother would be 100% correct

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560418)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 11:41 AM
Author: Spruce learning disabled address

She's a great mother to our three boys and in particular is a great boys mother. She knows when to let them be rowdy and she can get them to focus when they need to. But her organizational and housekeeping skills are abysmal.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560427)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 11:42 AM
Author: Concupiscible pontificating location sweet tailpipe

So she can do part of the job but not the other parts. What do you think her mother would think of that

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560430)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 11:45 AM
Author: Spruce learning disabled address

Her mother is basically the opposite which is a large part of the problem. Her mother was a pro level housekeeper and all around organized thing-doer but could not nurture let alone tolerate the true personalities of her children. So her mother and my wife are still running a low-grade resentment contest between them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560436)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 1:24 PM
Author: Concupiscible pontificating location sweet tailpipe

nice. great set up

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560717)



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Date: January 20th, 2025 6:08 AM
Author: nubile queen of the night

There is no win here. Ultimately it's her issues with her mother. Just remember that your wife has the emotional maturity of a 12 year old and you will profit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48567872)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: Useless mint kitty abode

i asked chatgpt for book recommendations on this specific topic. everything it offered was total garbage

any of you bozos have more longer form Scholarship to suggest?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560252)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 10:58 AM
Author: 180 jade theatre wrinkle

My wife is a disgusting slob and any caring whatsoever about “chores” getting done at all (let alone “correctly”) falls to me. I’ve mostly stopped caring at this point.

Not sure whether this is better or worse than a wife/situation like the one described in the OP

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560294)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 11:36 AM
Author: Appetizing alpha pervert

Women are 180

The house is spotless when I WFH. When my wife does there are plates left in the sink, empty soda cans on her desk, unmade bed, etc.

It sucks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560411)



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Date: January 17th, 2025 11:58 AM
Author: Useless mint kitty abode

Nagging: Domestic Abuse: Exploring the Psychology of Nagging and Relational Aggression (Redpilled Progressive)

Inside, you'll find:

An in-depth look at Chris Rock's observation on women's dislike of men resting.

A detailed analysis of nagging as a form of relational aggression.

A dissection of the 'mean girls' phenomenon in the context of nagging women.

An exploration of how women use state police, social services, and other institutions against men.

A discussion on animus possession and how women project their negativity onto men.

A critique of female supremacy and how it fits into nagging behavior.

An examination of how children are used as tools to extort money.

A thorough look at the influence of feminism and gender ideology on nagging behavior.

https://www.amazon.com/Nagging-Psychology-Relational-Aggression-Progressive-ebook/dp/B0DGW4F2X2

looks interesting

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48560455)



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Date: January 20th, 2025 6:09 AM
Author: nubile queen of the night

"A detailed analysis of nagging as a form of relational aggression."

/thread

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48567873)



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Date: January 23rd, 2025 9:38 AM
Author: Laughsome Locus

I don't think women, especially SAHMs, are ever going to recover from this.

Each individual task takes somewhere between 30 seconds and 4 minutes.

unloading the dishwasher: 3 min tops

folding laundry: 4 min

cleaning a toilet bowl: 30 seconds

there are some more major time consuming tasks like vacuuming the house but no one expects this done daily.

lol at all of those houses with heaping piles of clean laundry that you are supposed to rummage through and some magnet indicators on the dishwasher that its clean or dirty jfc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48580898)



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Date: January 23rd, 2025 9:41 AM
Author: Lilac Crotch

unloading a dishwasher is a pain imo. but otherwise cr. also i havent folded laundry in years. i either hang it up or if its a tshirt or jeans or whatever i just put the clean clothes in a small pile. if its sheets and bedding stuff you just do the bed, which admittedly is also a pita. towels i guess you fold if theres a ton of them but otherwise put on the rack.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48580913)



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Date: January 23rd, 2025 11:05 AM
Author: Free-loading Gas Station

Even breaking out a pumice stone to get some hard water stains out of the toilet barely takes much time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#48581108)



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Date: August 2nd, 2025 5:49 PM
Author: Cobalt doctorate

Today she came home from shopping and got MAF to find me laying on the couch watching 2024 college football highlights. She was like “Aren’t you going to mow the lawn?” “Already done,” I told her. “What about installing [our son]’s ceiling fan?” “I did that too,” I replied. “Great. Can you fix the dishwasher?” “I already did.” Her face turned bright red with rage. Now she’s not speaking to me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#49151377)



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Date: August 2nd, 2025 5:54 PM
Author: Blue talented menage persian



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#49151382)



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Date: August 7th, 2025 11:56 AM
Author: Cobalt doctorate

she’s still not talking to me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#49164492)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 1:38 PM
Author: cerebral jet-lagged french chef



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#49511370)



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Date: August 28th, 2025 2:53 PM
Author: Laughsome Locus



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#49219581)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 12:51 PM
Author: Odious Juggernaut

think about this thread now & again, hate women

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#49511242)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 12:58 PM
Author: Poppy Doobsian Forum

She's currently rage texting her sisters/friends who are all telling her what an abusive narcissistic asshole you are for doing this, and also telling her that the way you did everything wrong, and how they can't believe that you would so smugly do it while she was out and act like that's OK.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#49511268)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 1:03 PM
Author: Cobalt doctorate

The thing is she can’t come out and say it because she knows she’ll sound like a bitch. but I know. and she knows I know. and that’s enough for me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#49511281)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 1:11 PM
Author: Odious Juggernaut



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5664246&forum_id=2Vannesa#49511302)