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We Walked In on My Husband With a Man. Now Our Son Is Acting Homophobic. (slate)
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Date: December 13th, 2020 7:28 PM Author: buff soggy heaven Dear Care and Feeding,
A few weeks ago, I was supposed to take my sons to an outdoor activity that ended up getting canceled due to weather. We found out about the cancellation when we were halfway there. Before I turned around, I texted my husband that we would be heading home and never got a text back. This wasn’t unusual, as he usually puts his phone on “do not disturb” while he’s working. When we got home, I opened the door to find my husband and his best friend, “Ryan,” completely naked, and having fairly rough sex on our dining room table. They had music blaring, so they didn’t hear us come in, and my sons and I were all in shock and just stood there for a good 30 to 60 seconds before I was able to shut the music off, and they realized what was going on and could cover up. Obviously, this is a bit of a chaotic situation.
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Ryan is like an uncle to my kids, has dinner at our house several times a week, has occasionally lived with us, and he and my husband actually work together. My husband and I are planning on staying together and are still trying to figure a lot of things out. Here’s the problem: My younger son (6) is pretty oblivious and thought Uncle Ryan was wrestling with his dad. My middle son (9) is very confused about the mechanics of what we saw (we’ve had the sex talk with him, but in hindsight, we made the mistake of only talking about heterosexual sex). My older son (12) is having a very difficult time. My middle son has a lot of questions that I’m not really sure how to answer, and I’m not sure how much detail I should be going into, and who should be leading this conversation (me? my husband? a doctor?). I’ve been getting phone calls home from my older son’s school. Ever since the incident, he has apparently been making derogatory remarks about gay people, using slurs, and is also refusing to speak to his father (they were previously pretty close). The school is threatening to expel him. We’re on the waitlist for individual and family therapy, but I was wondering if you guys had any advice about what to do with my two older sons?
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Date: December 13th, 2020 7:30 PM Author: orange deranged resort nowag we’ve had the sex talk with him, but in hindsight, we made the mistake of only talking about heterosexual sex we’ve had the sex talk with him, but in hindsight, we made the mistake of only talking about heterosexual sex we’ve had the sex talk with him, but in hindsight, we made the mistake of only talking about heterosexual sex we’ve had the sex talk with him, but in hindsight, we made the mistake of only talking about heterosexual sex we’ve had the sex talk with him, but in hindsight, we made the mistake of only talking about heterosexual sex we’ve had the sex talk with him, but in hindsight, we made the mistake of only talking about heterosexual sex we’ve had the sex talk with him, but in hindsight, we made the mistake of only talking about heterosexual sex |
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Date: October 27th, 2025 11:35 AM Author: Misunderstood fragrant useless brakes hindsight is 20/20, shitcons (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4711691&forum_id=2Vannesa#49378643) |
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Date: October 27th, 2025 11:37 AM Author: Electric Ebony Space Kitty Cat this is why its so important to include mandatory homosexuality in the kindergarten curriculum. 9 years old is just far far too late. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4711691&forum_id=2Vannesa#49378651) |
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Date: October 27th, 2025 11:49 AM Author: Misunderstood fragrant useless brakes it's downright cruel not to take them on excursions to bathhouses during K or 1st grade (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4711691&forum_id=2Vannesa#49378678) |
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Date: October 27th, 2025 11:51 AM Author: multi-colored effete personal credit line (Mike McQueary) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4711691&forum_id=2Vannesa#49378680) |
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Date: October 27th, 2025 11:54 AM Author: thriller bawdyhouse literally laughed out loud when i read this. set your phone timer for 60 seconds and just imagine watching your dad getting rawdogged in person for the duration of that span. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4711691&forum_id=2Vannesa#49378689) |
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Date: October 27th, 2025 11:56 AM Author: Misunderstood fragrant useless brakes *unzips* go on .... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4711691&forum_id=2Vannesa#49378705) |
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Date: December 13th, 2020 7:30 PM Author: demanding multi-billionaire lmao
What’s with all these “straight husband taking cock on the side” stories lately? |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:52 PM Author: buff soggy heaven (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4711691&forum_id=2Vannesa#41546306) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:54 PM Author: cracking yellow mexican Just do spend an entire minute watching your dad have sex with another man (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4711691&forum_id=2Vannesa#41546315) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:54 PM Author: Silver stirring haunted graveyard casino having fairly rough sex on our dining room table (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4711691&forum_id=2Vannesa#41546319) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:54 PM Author: supple indirect expression "having fairly rough sex" lol this is fantasy |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 1:58 PM Author: Silver stirring haunted graveyard casino for you maybe (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4711691&forum_id=2Vannesa#41546346) |
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Date: December 14th, 2020 2:01 PM Author: vivacious wild den Reality for us. Fantasy for doobs while he recuperates (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4711691&forum_id=2Vannesa#41546363) |
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Date: October 27th, 2025 11:32 AM Author: Electric Ebony Space Kitty Cat "in hindsight, we made the mistake of only talking about heterosexual sex" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4711691&forum_id=2Vannesa#49378631) |
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Date: October 27th, 2025 11:56 AM Author: Impressive trust fund school cafeteria (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4711691&forum_id=2Vannesa#49378704) |