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Life Advice for Youngs: go to the funerals you don't want to attend

Everyone goes to the funerals of close friends and family. A...
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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:05 AM
Author: Amethyst concupiscible station affirmative action

Everyone goes to the funerals of close friends and family. As you get older, there will be so many occasions where someone who you aren't close to passes away: a former co-worker who you have lost touch with, the younger brother of a friend from high school who you barely remember, or the dad of a college roommate you haven't seen since graduation. Go to all of these visitations if you can. It's good for the family and it's good for you. I have seen decades-old grudges dissolved in 30 seconds by this gesture. People are at their weakest when a loved one dies and the gratitude they feel when people take the time to pay their respects will last for the rest of their lives. My mom and dad are both gone and I can recall every single person who took the time to show up and pay their respects. It's powerful.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Vannesa#43672622)



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:22 PM
Author: razzle-dazzle lay



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:11 AM
Author: Cerise stirring range toaster

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:13 AM
Author: confused razzmatazz location

180 advice. It really is good for your mind too, instant perspective.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Vannesa#43672650)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:59 AM
Author: Amethyst concupiscible station affirmative action



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:57 AM
Author: stimulating immigrant striped hyena

I remember all of the random people that showed up to my dad’s funeral and the one-off stories they shared with me about how they knew him. One old lady had a flat tire in the bank parking lot and he changed it for her. Small town America. She would see him at the store or pharmacy for years and thank him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Vannesa#43673327)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:29 AM
Author: aphrodisiac chapel

Is it a good way to score pussy?

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:36 AM
Author: Umber Floppy Church Building Puppy

Make sure to bring business cards, brother.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Vannesa#43672728)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:33 AM
Author: diverse plaza



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:36 AM
Author: bateful hospital goyim



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:38 AM
Author: abusive dog poop turdskin



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:52 PM
Author: Sick heaven cuck



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:41 AM
Author: Overrated house



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:42 AM
Author: Shimmering genital piercing



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:49 AM
Author: Jade idiotic dopamine



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:32 AM
Author: diverse plaza

I'll definitely be at the funeral I most want to attend.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Vannesa#43673175)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:35 AM
Author: big angry stag film antidepressant drug

same

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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:40 PM
Author: Honey-headed odious twinkling uncleanness jap



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:23 PM
Author: Bespoke field idiot



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:54 PM
Author: Juan Eighty



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:38 AM
Author: Marvelous Legend

Important OP

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Vannesa#43673216)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:55 AM
Author: stimulating immigrant striped hyena

Easily the best advice on xoxohth in over a year.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Vannesa#43673312)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:58 AM
Author: startled stubborn corner

(Will Ferrell in wedding crashers)

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:58 AM
Author: curious green crackhouse feces



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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:33 PM
Author: At-the-ready ticket booth main people

Excellent advice from one of my favorite monikers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Vannesa#43673709)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:36 PM
Author: magenta locale cumskin

Make sure you ask for a copy of the death certificate to get a discount/tax write off on your travel

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Vannesa#43673721)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:10 PM
Author: deranged sadistic theatre

OP is correct.

ty OP, and Merry Christmas

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Vannesa#43673924)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:32 PM
Author: pungent library

My grandfather died at 74. Church was packed. My great grandfather died at 94. Church was barren.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Vannesa#43674038)



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:24 PM
Author: Bespoke field idiot



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Vannesa#43680647)



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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:52 AM
Author: copper fiercely-loyal headpube cruise ship

live fast

die young

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Vannesa#45965902)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:34 PM
Author: provocative silver sanctuary

theres an extreme immaturity to people who avoid funerals. its basically boomer level selfishness.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Vannesa#43674045)



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:19 PM
Author: sticky excitant boistinker



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:21 PM
Author: razzle-dazzle lay

very good advice here. i have been making an effort to attend more funerals of acquaintances after a personal experience made me realize how much it can mean to those close to the deceased.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Vannesa#43680638)



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Date: July 15th, 2022 6:32 PM
Author: domesticated site



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Date: January 15th, 2022 4:44 PM
Author: Amethyst concupiscible station affirmative action



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:51 PM
Author: sticky excitant boistinker

this thread has inspired me to do this multiple times. Best experience was nervously attending the funeral of dude's dad who I had beef with after high school and hadn't spoken to in forever (the kid not the dad). Anyways, the gratitude you could see on that guy's face when I showed up was something I'll remember for the rest of my life.

Thanks to the immortal Yanagita for making this thread. This is something a younger person simply cannot understand on their own.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Vannesa#44856920)



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:52 PM
Author: domesticated site



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:54 PM
Author: Blathering center old irish cottage

(junior soprano)

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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:44 AM
Author: Amethyst concupiscible station affirmative action



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Vannesa#45965877)



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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:47 AM
Author: cyan set psychic

I only went to 1/4 of my grandparents funerals. 1 was because he predeceased my birth so it wasn’t possible, but the other 2 I was in law school states away.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Vannesa#45965887)



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Date: March 14th, 2023 6:57 PM
Author: khaki theater stage



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Date: March 14th, 2023 6:59 PM
Author: startling lettuce



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Date: March 14th, 2023 7:24 PM
Author: Cruel-hearted forum masturbator

Absolutely credited.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Vannesa#46052486)



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:36 PM
Author: Mike Yanagita



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Vannesa#49460858)



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:53 PM
Author: whimsy the cat

should you go to your ex-wife's mother's funeral?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Vannesa#49460900)



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:57 PM
Author: ruinous phenotype



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