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Normal to prefer masturbation over sex with wife?

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Heady masturbator
  05/20/22
in my older age I can’t stand the feeling of an orgasm...
balding internet-worthy foreskin
  05/20/22
Jfc
Erotic giraffe community account
  05/21/22
I've gone thru periods like this but only v there is some we...
Clear bateful turdskin
  05/20/22
That’s pretty mainstream now
balding internet-worthy foreskin
  05/20/22
other than those periods, youre cool with just fuckin the sa...
Heady masturbator
  05/20/22
Link?
Erotic giraffe community account
  05/21/22
Describe your wife’s appearance and the tightness of h...
Idiotic smoky site
  05/20/22
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twinkling deer antler coffee pot
  05/20/22
no
bonkers cerebral space telephone
  05/20/22
i'm like this, my wife too. it's just so much easier.
curious son of senegal
  05/20/22
Its just understood and theres no resentment? What your wife...
Heady masturbator
  05/20/22
i think she wishes we had sex more often but she accepts tha...
curious son of senegal
  05/20/22
so its more on your end and she does it as a response to you...
Heady masturbator
  05/20/22
yeah that's fair. i have no interest in fucking her.
curious son of senegal
  05/20/22
is she overweight? age?
bonkers cerebral space telephone
  05/20/22
nah she's still pretty thin, not super fit like when we met ...
curious son of senegal
  05/20/22
i've been with my wife for 12 years, married to her for 7 ye...
bonkers cerebral space telephone
  05/20/22
good for you two.
curious son of senegal
  05/20/22
Bad for me, bc I get turned down for sex a couple days a wee...
bonkers cerebral space telephone
  05/20/22
2-4x is really not bad though IMO. Look around on XO - tons...
House-broken Indian Lodge Roommate
  05/20/22
Yeah i dont think its about objective physical attractivenes...
Heady masturbator
  05/20/22
yeah i mean if some hot new slut came into my life i'd be fu...
curious son of senegal
  05/20/22
Life is miserable isn’t it
Cheese-eating casino faggot firefighter
  05/20/22
for the most part.
curious son of senegal
  05/20/22
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deep shrine sound barrier
  08/26/26
COVID killed it for sure. You can't be around someone nearly...
spectacular cruise ship indirect expression
  05/20/22
my wife and i both worked from home for about 15 months duri...
bonkers cerebral space telephone
  05/20/22
*2 years of marriage
Aphrodisiac vengeful jew base
  05/21/22
rare honesty
plum dingle berry
  05/20/22
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bisexual filthy blood rage
  05/20/22
you are a slave, a perfect subject for Zuck's "metavers...
carnelian lay
  05/20/22
oh ok *gets dick hard to fuck aging woman who just griped...
Heady masturbator
  05/20/22
(*gets dick hard for digital image of woman he will never to...
carnelian lay
  05/20/22
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plum dingle berry
  05/20/22
Women view sex as a “give” and they want to take...
Hilarious hall goal in life
  05/20/22
not all relationships degrade into transactionalism
carnelian lay
  05/20/22
Go get married and report back after a couple years, sucker
Hilarious hall goal in life
  05/20/22
I've been married well over a decade
carnelian lay
  05/20/22
And how often do you have sex? You’re trying to argue...
Hilarious hall goal in life
  05/20/22
frequently & yes. presumably you were in a relationsh...
carnelian lay
  05/20/22
xo posters are betabucks losers that women only fuck for res...
outnumbered lake lodge
  05/20/22
Relationships are not the same as marriage & you’r...
Hilarious hall goal in life
  05/20/22
why would I lie to you? what have I ever done on XO that wou...
carnelian lay
  05/20/22
lol cmon man
Heady masturbator
  05/20/22
You’re pumo scum you tell me
Hilarious hall goal in life
  05/20/22
pumanimals are not pumos, come on
carnelian lay
  05/20/22
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geriatric background story institution
  05/20/22
So, you need to understand where xo Melvins are comimg from....
geriatric background story institution
  05/20/22
well this response for one
plum dingle berry
  05/20/22
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Heady masturbator
  05/20/22
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Hilarious hall goal in life
  05/20/22
I'm genuinely confused, it's not like I have some history on...
carnelian lay
  05/20/22
who cares about your "history," its about the shit...
Heady masturbator
  05/20/22
what did he say, that frequent sex with a wife is possible? ...
bonkers cerebral space telephone
  05/20/22
OP isnt about whether you can "possibly" fuck your...
Heady masturbator
  05/20/22
idgi. i am in the same boat as pumanimal. i know from exper...
bonkers cerebral space telephone
  05/20/22
would you say its normal to prefer that over masturbation? ...
Heady masturbator
  05/20/22
yes, i think it's normal. by 'possible' i mean that i pr...
bonkers cerebral space telephone
  05/20/22
fair
Heady masturbator
  05/20/22
if you think what I'm saying is so obviously untrue, I feel ...
carnelian lay
  05/20/22
When i need it to be fast, absolutely. But if i have 30 minu...
geriatric background story institution
  05/20/22
I look forward to masturbating later while I'm having sex wi...
Ivory Shitlib Sanctuary
  05/21/22
you sound like a bitch boi
Fiercely-loyal Senate
  05/21/22
100% true for me. My wife is old and overweight and insists ...
comical onyx menage
  05/21/22
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Heady masturbator
  05/21/22
and cheat when I can tp
Vigorous sex offender
  08/26/26
I dont even feel like fumming but my body forces me to like ...
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  08/26/26


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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:44 AM
Author: Heady masturbator



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44543233)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:45 AM
Author: balding internet-worthy foreskin

in my older age I can’t stand the feeling of an orgasm. too intense. It just irritates me and puts me in a shitty mood

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44543235)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:33 PM
Author: Erotic giraffe community account

Jfc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44551901)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:45 AM
Author: Clear bateful turdskin

I've gone thru periods like this but only v there is some weird fetish that appealed to me. For a few weeks, I was really into chicks high on meth having sex. I know, sick fuck.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44543237)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:46 AM
Author: balding internet-worthy foreskin

That’s pretty mainstream now

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44543242)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 10:53 AM
Author: Heady masturbator

other than those periods, youre cool with just fuckin the same woman over the visual stimulation of a wider range of chicks?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44543679)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:34 PM
Author: Erotic giraffe community account

Link?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44551907)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:48 AM
Author: Idiotic smoky site

Describe your wife’s appearance and the tightness of her puss

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44543244)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 10:55 AM
Author: twinkling deer antler coffee pot



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44543693)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 10:55 AM
Author: bonkers cerebral space telephone

no

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44543698)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:02 AM
Author: curious son of senegal

i'm like this, my wife too. it's just so much easier.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44543739)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:04 AM
Author: Heady masturbator

Its just understood and theres no resentment? What your wife fantasize about?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44543750)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:06 AM
Author: curious son of senegal

i think she wishes we had sex more often but she accepts that it's a normal part of marriage. none of her friends fuck their spouses anymore either. and even when we do it's kind of comical, like, what the fuck are we doing we feel like siblings?

i don't know what she fantasizes about but she watches porn.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44543759)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:10 AM
Author: Heady masturbator

so its more on your end and she does it as a response to your lack of drive?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44543778)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:24 AM
Author: curious son of senegal

yeah that's fair. i have no interest in fucking her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44543844)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:32 AM
Author: bonkers cerebral space telephone

is she overweight? age?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44543883)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:35 AM
Author: curious son of senegal

nah she's still pretty thin, not super fit like when we met but not fat at all. we've just fought so much over the years that i don't have any desire for her anymore. she feels more like a roommate that i have to constantly negotiate with. also maybe some of it is due to COVID and spending literally 24/7 together for 2 years. we're 40.

but again, it's totally normal not to fuck anymore after 10 years of marriage. hell most people stop after 3 or 4 years. it just gets old man and familiarity breeds contempt.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44543899)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:43 AM
Author: bonkers cerebral space telephone

i've been with my wife for 12 years, married to her for 7 years and i still want to fuck her daily. in practice we only manage 2-4 times per week, largely bc her sex drive is less than mine and life isn't easy with two kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44543956)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:48 AM
Author: curious son of senegal

good for you two.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44544022)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:04 PM
Author: bonkers cerebral space telephone

Bad for me, bc I get turned down for sex a couple days a week

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44544124)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 3:09 PM
Author: House-broken Indian Lodge Roommate

2-4x is really not bad though IMO. Look around on XO - tons of these guys' wives won't fuck them at all.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44545213)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:43 AM
Author: Heady masturbator

Yeah i dont think its about objective physical attractiveness. Just arguing and hashing out all the real life shit doesn't do anything to increase sexual desire compared to some hot chick whose psychological hangups you know nothing about lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44543961)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:48 AM
Author: curious son of senegal

yeah i mean if some hot new slut came into my life i'd be fucking her several times a day, but eventually we'd get to the same point. it's all so tiresome.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44544016)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:54 AM
Author: Cheese-eating casino faggot firefighter

Life is miserable isn’t it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44544062)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:55 AM
Author: curious son of senegal

for the most part.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44544063)



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Date: August 26th, 2026 9:52 AM
Author: deep shrine sound barrier



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#50093926)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:17 PM
Author: spectacular cruise ship indirect expression

COVID killed it for sure. You can't be around someone nearly 24/7 and keep a spark going. You just become roommates or siblings. She's been sick this week, so we've started sleeping in different rooms and it's been 180. I feel great when I wake up in the morning.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44544182)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 3:05 PM
Author: bonkers cerebral space telephone

my wife and i both worked from home for about 15 months during COVID. but yeah, we sleep in separate rooms at least 3 or 4 times a month and it helped.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44545191)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:28 PM
Author: Aphrodisiac vengeful jew base

*2 years of marriage

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44551859)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:34 AM
Author: plum dingle berry

rare honesty

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44543890)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 1:52 PM
Author: bisexual filthy blood rage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44544744)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:14 AM
Author: carnelian lay

you are a slave, a perfect subject for Zuck's "metaverse," a terminal faggot who prefers the simulacrum to the real

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44543794)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:22 AM
Author: Heady masturbator

oh ok

*gets dick hard to fuck aging woman who just griped about the work entailed in raising 2 kids, bitched about her coworkers, and detailed the intricacies of properly loading the dishwasher*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44543836)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:24 AM
Author: carnelian lay

(*gets dick hard for digital image of woman he will never touch tenderly penetrated by two dicks he begins to secretly wish were inside him*)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44543848)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:34 AM
Author: plum dingle berry



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44543894)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:24 AM
Author: Hilarious hall goal in life

Women view sex as a “give” and they want to take from you after it

That’s why it’s not worth it half the time

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44543845)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:28 AM
Author: carnelian lay

not all relationships degrade into transactionalism

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44543864)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:30 AM
Author: Hilarious hall goal in life

Go get married and report back after a couple years, sucker

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44543875)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:39 AM
Author: carnelian lay

I've been married well over a decade

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44543932)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:40 AM
Author: Hilarious hall goal in life

And how often do you have sex? You’re trying to argue with a straight face she doesn’t use sex to extract resources?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44543938)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:49 AM
Author: carnelian lay

frequently & yes.

presumably you were in a relationship where this *didn't* happen at some point, right?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44544027)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:50 AM
Author: outnumbered lake lodge

xo posters are betabucks losers that women only fuck for resources.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44544035)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:51 AM
Author: Hilarious hall goal in life

Relationships are not the same as marriage & you’re a liar, hth

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44544042)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:53 AM
Author: carnelian lay

why would I lie to you? what have I ever done on XO that would make me come off as a liar. please tell me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44544055)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:57 AM
Author: Heady masturbator

lol cmon man

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44544083)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:58 AM
Author: Hilarious hall goal in life

You’re pumo scum you tell me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44544088)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:01 PM
Author: carnelian lay

pumanimals are not pumos, come on

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44544107)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:05 PM
Author: geriatric background story institution



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44544128)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 2:18 PM
Author: geriatric background story institution

So, you need to understand where xo Melvins are comimg from. They don't choose women based on being a good fit. In fact, they think the women who are like them (intelligent and disinterested in getting dolled up) are the bane of this world. So, instead they date whores. Since they never even attempt to have a real relationship, it's transactional. And since they are so repulsive, the women constantly feel like they've been screwed in this deal, and get more bitter and angry and exploitative of their pathetic excuse of a husband.

Don't feel bad that these people can't understand our lives.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44544916)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:00 PM
Author: plum dingle berry

well this response for one

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44544097)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:01 PM
Author: Heady masturbator



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44544103)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:01 PM
Author: Hilarious hall goal in life



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44544105)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:03 PM
Author: carnelian lay

I'm genuinely confused, it's not like I have some history on the boart of being a braggart, then I could understand.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44544120)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:06 PM
Author: Heady masturbator

who cares about your "history," its about the shit youre saying

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44544134)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:09 PM
Author: bonkers cerebral space telephone

what did he say, that frequent sex with a wife is possible? depends how you define frequent, but multiple times per week is certainly possible even after years of marriage

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44544146)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:15 PM
Author: Heady masturbator

OP isnt about whether you can "possibly" fuck your wife a couple times a week

question is about preference

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44544174)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:18 PM
Author: bonkers cerebral space telephone

idgi. i am in the same boat as pumanimal. i know from experience it's possible to prefer and engage in frequent sex with your wife after years of marriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44544188)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:20 PM
Author: Heady masturbator

would you say its normal to prefer that over masturbation?

dont know where "possible" became the standard

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44544205)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:23 PM
Author: bonkers cerebral space telephone

yes, i think it's normal.

by 'possible' i mean that i prefer sex with my wife over masturbation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44544220)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:27 PM
Author: Heady masturbator

fair

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44544237)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:16 PM
Author: carnelian lay

if you think what I'm saying is so obviously untrue, I feel sorry for you, and will say a prayer for you, pumo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44544175)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 2:19 PM
Author: geriatric background story institution

When i need it to be fast, absolutely. But if i have 30 minutes to spare, i like going to pound town

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44544919)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 4:28 AM
Author: Ivory Shitlib Sanctuary

I look forward to masturbating later while I'm having sex with my wife

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44548580)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 10:00 PM
Author: Fiercely-loyal Senate

you sound like a bitch boi

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44552039)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:41 PM
Author: comical onyx menage

100% true for me. My wife is old and overweight and insists that I finger her for like an hour before I can go inside. It's just not worth that much work for low-quality sex. I'd rather just quickly jack off before bed and cheat when I can.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44551937)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:55 PM
Author: Heady masturbator



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#44552011)



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Date: August 26th, 2026 9:52 AM
Author: Vigorous sex offender

and cheat when I can tp

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#50093928)



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Date: August 26th, 2026 9:54 AM
Author: Lemon Karate Mad-dog Skullcap

I dont even feel like fumming but my body forces me to like eating or breathing

Def don't want sex anymore

Barely can even get hard for wife

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2Vannesa#50093931)