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Date: August 5th, 2025 5:54 PM Author: Rose nudist library https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2025/aug/05/my-wife-had-more-than-50-sexual-partners-why-wont-she-sleep-with-me (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5758823&forum_id=2Vannesa#49159928) |
Date: August 5th, 2025 5:54 PM Author: seedy community account persian Shit. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5758823&forum_id=2Vannesa#49159929) |
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Date: August 5th, 2025 5:57 PM Author: Rose nudist library That conversation about her previous partners may even have been a misguided attempt on her part to excite you tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5758823&forum_id=2Vannesa#49159939) |
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Date: August 5th, 2025 5:54 PM Author: excitant field JM can't keep getting away with it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5758823&forum_id=2Vannesa#49159931) |
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Date: August 5th, 2025 5:56 PM Author: Rose nudist library I’ve been with my wife for 12 years. She recently admitted she has had many more sexual partners than me, more than 50 for sure, but it could be 100. She has only had a couple of long-term relationships. I didn’t think the number bothered me: I didn’t know her then, it was before we got together and we can’t change the past. However, we hardly ever have sex (only once every three to four months) and her sex drive dropped off a cliff after our first child was born almost 10 years ago. She says it’s the stress of children but I can’t help feeling she just doesn’t find me attractive any more. Rightly or wrongly, I now feel upset that she was willing to have sex with so many people before me but doesn’t want to have sex with me.
When a partner’s libido drops, it is very common for the other to assume that the partner no longer feels the same attraction as before, but this is often not the case. It is very likely that your wife is finding it hard to summon sexual feelings generally because she does not feel like a sexual being herself. To experience desire for another person, you must feel sexually confident in yourself.
Sexual confidence includes having a positive body image and perceiving yourself as a person who could attract others. It is true that the presence of children can lead to a disruption of libido through lack of privacy, fatigue, worry and other factors and it can also cause a woman to lose sight of the sexual person she once was. That conversation about her previous partners may even have been a misguided attempt on her part to excite you and reconnect herself with her previous erotic nature.
Instead of focusing on her past, try to think of ways to help her think of herself as a sensual being, perhaps by looking back on erotic moments at the beginning of your relationship. Sometimes returning to situations where you shared such moments can serve as reminders and inspiration to help you return to intimacy.
Pamela Stephenson Connolly is a US-based psychotherapist who specialises in treating sexual disorders. |
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Date: August 6th, 2025 1:14 PM Author: Rose nudist library (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5758823&forum_id=2Vannesa#49162016) |
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Date: August 6th, 2025 1:18 PM Author: Racy Talking Sanctuary Marketing Idea wife finding it hard to summon sexual feelings tp wife doesn’t feel like a sexual being (now that she’s married to you) tp wife’s previous erotic nature tp
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Date: August 6th, 2025 1:18 PM Author: Rose nudist library (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5758823&forum_id=2Vannesa#49162032) |