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I want to have another kid. Wife wants me to have a vasectomy.
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Date: July 14th, 2026 8:42 AM Author: Motley Office Been married a few years, wife and I are both conservative whites. One son, another on the way. Wife is 38. Plenty of money, although it comes with a lot of work stress. I would love to have 3 or even 4 kids. Wife is adamant that she wants to stop after this.
Wife is demanding that I get a vasectomy to ensure there are no further babies. She says that if I don't get one, she'll get her tunes tied.
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Date: July 14th, 2026 8:43 AM Author: Gold trailer park https://elizabethcupich.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/05/TubgirlInstallationView-e1534456043490.jpg (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5882604&forum_id=2Vannesa#49998507) |
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Date: July 14th, 2026 8:45 AM Author: Beady-eyed blood rage sanctuary an IUD works. why do you need to do surgery (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5882604&forum_id=2Vannesa#49998510) |
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Date: July 14th, 2026 8:47 AM Author: Greedy trip selfie cq (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5882604&forum_id=2Vannesa#49998512) |
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Date: July 14th, 2026 8:57 AM Author: Motley Office IUD has failed in the past. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5882604&forum_id=2Vannesa#49998529) |
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Date: July 14th, 2026 8:48 AM Author: alcoholic electric whorehouse private investor the chances of a natural conception are plummeting for her right now anyway and you have a few years left max where its possible at all. just wrap it up i guess. but thats too bad she doesn't want anymore. hire a nanny given you have a lot of money if she thinks the workload with 2 small kids is too much. maybe it will move the needle. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5882604&forum_id=2Vannesa#49998513) |
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Date: July 14th, 2026 8:51 AM Author: Motley Office Nanny is a fraught subject. She is very committed to being a hands on mom who does it all with minimal help outside of a few babysitters here and there. That is a big part of the reason why she wants to stop at 2. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5882604&forum_id=2Vannesa#49998519) |
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Date: July 14th, 2026 8:52 AM Author: Greedy trip selfie having two kids is hard but you have to persist (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5882604&forum_id=2Vannesa#49998522) |
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Date: July 14th, 2026 8:55 AM Author: glittery goal in life Persist till he gets his 4 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5882604&forum_id=2Vannesa#49998525) |
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Date: July 14th, 2026 8:57 AM Author: Greedy trip selfie CR (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5882604&forum_id=2Vannesa#49998530) |
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Date: July 14th, 2026 9:00 AM Author: Motley Office So what should I do? Wife is more dead set on this than she has been about anything in our marriage. Wants to have the tubal ligation done when she's in the hospital for delivery. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5882604&forum_id=2Vannesa#49998535) |
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Date: July 14th, 2026 9:06 AM Author: Greedy trip selfie tell her it's too final. advocate for some temporary measure like an IUD or shot "until you have time to settle in with the new baby and think clearly" or some shit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5882604&forum_id=2Vannesa#49998549) |
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Date: July 14th, 2026 9:41 AM Author: Beady-eyed blood rage sanctuary Consider tubal litigation against her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5882604&forum_id=2Vannesa#49998590) |
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Date: July 14th, 2026 10:02 AM Author: Vibrant Cobalt Potus Fortuitous Meteor alienation of fertile affections (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5882604&forum_id=2Vannesa#49998630) |
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Date: July 14th, 2026 11:49 AM Author: Beady-eyed blood rage sanctuary (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5882604&forum_id=2Vannesa#49998840) |
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Date: July 14th, 2026 12:32 PM Author: Narrow-minded Mischievous School Marketing Idea schedule a vasectomy a few weeks after the baby is due and then "change your mind"
you'll probably have a fight about it later but hopefully she'll come around
do not commit this grave sin and especially dont give your wife an excuse to |
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Date: July 14th, 2026 9:11 AM Author: Bateful Mint Liquid Oxygen Stock Car Good for her. Hands on mom with minimal outside help is crrrr. There is nothing better that 99.9% of people (including me) will even come close to doing in life than being involved with their kids.
FWIW, we have 4 kids, and it's not that much more difficult than 2. They largely entertain each other. And as they get older, they'll want and need much less from her (and you) and will continue to benefit from having each other. So, trying for one more should still be on the table. |
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Date: July 14th, 2026 12:11 PM Author: rough-skinned iridescent piazza everyone's ovarian reserve/reproductive health is different. OP's wife could be one of the ones who's still as fertile in her late 30s as a typical woman in her 20s. there's a ton of individual variation and it's not at all rare for a woman to have a robust ovarian reserve at that age, even though every woman's is obviously decreasing by then. if they had an easy time with her current pregnancy, she could have several years left in her window of easy natural conception.
not saying OP should disrespect her wishes just because he might still be able to knock her up without medical asssistance in her 40s; just giving you a better sense of how it works in general in case you ever find a wife. |
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Date: July 14th, 2026 9:03 AM Author: Motley Office I even brought up the idea of being a sperm donor so that I could at least be the bio dad to another kid. Wife is violently opposed to that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5882604&forum_id=2Vannesa#49998541) |
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Date: July 14th, 2026 9:03 AM Author: Clear field knife Getting her tunes tied sounds like some faggy musical. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5882604&forum_id=2Vannesa#49998543) |
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Date: July 14th, 2026 9:16 AM Author: Diverse Rehab (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5882604&forum_id=2Vannesa#49998558) |
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Date: July 14th, 2026 9:16 AM Author: Bateful Mint Liquid Oxygen Stock Car We have 4 kids. My wife said she's done--though sometimes she talks about how she misses having a baby--and wants me to get a vascectomy. She is adamant that I should get the vascectomy because it's a simpler procedure than whatever she would get.
While I recognize that we probably are done at 4 kids, I don't want to close the door on potentially having another. Never mind the slicing and dicing your body and what changes that might come with. |
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Date: July 14th, 2026 9:17 AM Author: Vibrant Cobalt Potus Fortuitous Meteor Tell her you got your tubes tied, don't, creampie, then if she gets pregnant it's a miracle. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5882604&forum_id=2Vannesa#49998563) |
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Date: July 14th, 2026 9:33 AM Author: Irradiated haunting locus TCR (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5882604&forum_id=2Vannesa#49998576) |
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Date: July 14th, 2026 9:36 AM Author: Vibrant Cobalt Potus Fortuitous Meteor best part is he gets a week off on the couch cradling his balls while watching football. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5882604&forum_id=2Vannesa#49998584) |
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Date: July 14th, 2026 7:46 PM Author: cruel-hearted heady tanning salon A week? You are a huge pussy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5882604&forum_id=2Vannesa#50000407) |
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Date: July 14th, 2026 9:34 AM Author: Clear field knife He'll get charged with rape in this day and age (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5882604&forum_id=2Vannesa#49998579) |
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Date: July 14th, 2026 9:53 AM Author: Pearl church building trump supporter And he deserves to. Believe all women always (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5882604&forum_id=2Vannesa#49998604) |
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Date: July 14th, 2026 9:36 AM Author: Tan painfully honest abode she doesn’t respect your genes and isn’t pleased with your prior results (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5882604&forum_id=2Vannesa#49998585) |
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Date: July 14th, 2026 10:00 AM Author: Diverse Rehab (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5882604&forum_id=2Vannesa#49998622) |
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Date: July 14th, 2026 9:55 AM Author: Pearl church building trump supporter Just start adopting behind her back from Somalia and South Sudan and Laos and shit. It will rekindle the magic. Trust me (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5882604&forum_id=2Vannesa#49998606) |
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Date: July 14th, 2026 10:01 AM Author: carnelian dashing parlor Start a second family (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5882604&forum_id=2Vannesa#49998625) |
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Date: July 14th, 2026 10:09 AM Author: Pearl church building trump supporter (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5882604&forum_id=2Vannesa#49998640) |
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Date: July 14th, 2026 10:09 AM Author: Pearl church building trump supporter A childhood friend of mine had a step father who did this successfully for over a decade. He actually had several families throughout the region (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5882604&forum_id=2Vannesa#49998642) |
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Date: July 14th, 2026 12:01 PM Author: cerebral stage stain 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5882604&forum_id=2Vannesa#49998894) |
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Date: July 14th, 2026 10:21 AM Author: Rose passionate locale Vasectomy has a psychosexual component. Many women want their man sterilized because they are done having kids with him and they feel better sterilizing him. It represents a physical and metaphysical end to his reproductive phase, she has used it and she's making sure no other women can use it. There's a component of female intrasexual competition to the vasectomy. This is also why some men report their wife's libido dropping to absolute 0 after their vasectomy. She thinks she wants him declared sterile and of no use to any other women. However after this happens it turns out a large part of her attraction to him was the idea that other women might desire him for reproduction. Now that he's sterile the danger is gone, the feelings are gone, her libido is also sterilized.
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Date: July 14th, 2026 12:13 PM Author: Infuriating dilemma pisswyrm Just wait until after she has #2 to discuss this … may change her mind.
I got a vasectomy 7 years ago and we both regret stopping at 2 now.
But, sex life post vasectomy is 180 — now 100% convinced hormonal birth control is the devil |
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Date: July 14th, 2026 7:29 PM Author: cruel-hearted heady tanning salon Well you don't need to think about it until your wife has babby. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5882604&forum_id=2Vannesa#50000369) |
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Date: July 14th, 2026 8:07 PM Author: Motley Office Brother, she is wanting to have some combined c-section/tubal ligation operation in the delivery room. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5882604&forum_id=2Vannesa#50000468) |
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Date: July 14th, 2026 8:10 PM Author: Narrow-minded Mischievous School Marketing Idea is the c section a necessary one? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5882604&forum_id=2Vannesa#50000476) |
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Date: July 14th, 2026 8:33 PM Author: cruel-hearted heady tanning salon My wife wanted have her tubes tied after a C section and the doc forgot about it since delivering a baby is a big enough jerb for a day. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5882604&forum_id=2Vannesa#50000515) |