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Updates on my father's tragic passing

Today, I received a lot of information from (of all places) ...
tripping locale boiling water
  04/29/26
YNY GET PAID
Charcoal glittery piazza dopamine
  04/29/26
No amount of money can bring him back.
tripping locale boiling water
  04/30/26
Explain
Orchid ladyboy
  04/29/26
So ur dad choked to death on coffee grounds while in a hospi...
Cowardly Institution
  04/29/26
"coffee ground emesis" refers to vomit that looks ...
tripping locale boiling water
  04/29/26
So he had the bypass surgery, he was recovering at a clinic ...
Cowardly Institution
  04/29/26
He didn't have a bypass surgery. He had a reduction of a col...
tripping locale boiling water
  04/29/26
Holy shit. It sounds like he never should have been cleared ...
Cowardly Institution
  04/29/26
It was the VA bean counters
tripping locale boiling water
  04/29/26
So the VA paid for his helicopter flight to MGH and a series...
Cowardly Institution
  04/29/26
precisely. it's actually worse: they told us he wasn't al...
tripping locale boiling water
  04/29/26
Since when do insurance companies call the shots? Wouldn't M...
Cowardly Institution
  04/29/26
We're still finding out all of that info.
tripping locale boiling water
  04/29/26
Lol insurance always calls the shots. A great doctor can cal...
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tripping locale boiling water
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LOL you should read the stories on the SDN rad onc page. The...
mahogany coiffed university
  05/06/26
No it means he had an upper GI bleed
mahogany coiffed university
  05/06/26
Jesus christ. Shit like this really drives home how much bet...
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  04/29/26
I forgot to mention, the cheapest funeral home wants $19,000
tripping locale boiling water
  04/29/26
you'll have to reserve two plots if your mother wants to res...
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  04/29/26
This is true; it is better to get four plots if you want an ...
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I prefer to think that there are good people in the world wh...
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tripping locale boiling water
  04/29/26
At the end of the day it's a volume business. You can't make...
Cowardly Institution
  04/29/26
he left because he was 100% ready to go. He had a stomach...
tripping locale boiling water
  04/29/26
To be fair it seems like he had a lot of really severe medic...
Cowardly Institution
  04/29/26
that's 100% true but if he got hit by a bus, it'd be no d...
tripping locale boiling water
  04/29/26
What was the surgery for iyo
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A month ago, he got life flighted from NH to MGH because he ...
tripping locale boiling water
  04/29/26
How did he get perioneal dialysis and why did it lead to sep...
Cowardly Institution
  04/29/26
He was in end-stage renal failure but was tolerating dialysi...
tripping locale boiling water
  04/29/26
So his kidneys failed completely 10 years ago and a machine ...
Cowardly Institution
  04/29/26
I am, and we were under the impression we would be getting a...
tripping locale boiling water
  04/29/26
I think you should see if a good medmal guy will take it on ...
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  04/29/26
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### This has been a message from the United States Secretar...
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  04/29/26
nah fuck that, he should do it pro se and keep 100%, maybe k...
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  04/30/26
Yeah I'm sure Mass General really needs to improve their rep...
Cowardly Institution
  04/30/26
MGH didn't fuck up. The place they transported him to did. H...
tripping locale boiling water
  04/30/26
Isn't it oddly suspicious that this dude chokes on his own v...
Cowardly Institution
  04/30/26
It's beyond suspicious to the point the police are intereste...
tripping locale boiling water
  04/30/26
What do you think they might find
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  04/30/26
His cause of death
tripping locale boiling water
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Given hiz buckwild degenerate medical history don't you thin...
Cowardly Institution
  04/30/26
you don't generally die 90 minutes after being discharged fr...
tripping locale boiling water
  04/30/26
Was he on Coumadin? Sounds like there was a possible GI b...
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Thought OP would be Drake Maye's son
Orchid ladyboy
  04/30/26
Very sorry to hear about your dad, and you're not alone in w...
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  04/30/26
He was not connected to anything. They literally forgot abou...
tripping locale boiling water
  05/02/26
Police are now involved
tripping locale boiling water
  04/30/26
What’s the suspected crime? Angel of death, maybe? I c...
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  04/30/26
It's now criminally negligent homicide
tripping locale boiling water
  05/02/26
It’s sad your dad died. And also you’re a derang...
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  05/05/26
I sincerely hope you never experience anything like this in ...
tripping locale boiling water
  05/05/26
Fuck you too, fatty.
Hairraiser infuriating roommate national
  05/05/26
Sounds tragic. I did a little Googling on Spaulding Cambridg...
Dashing ratface
  05/02/26
But OldHLSDude, won’t they just pass on the Cost to Pa...
azure insane casino
  05/02/26
No amount will bring him back. More than anything, I want an...
tripping locale boiling water
  05/02/26
I spoke with a detective this afternoon. They will likely be...
tripping locale boiling water
  05/05/26
I’m sorry that there’s evidence that supports th...
supple demanding wrinkle
  05/05/26
So am I. We found out yesterday that he was down >20 min ...
tripping locale boiling water
  05/05/26
Scalia discussed this
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Why is that a big deal. They have a shitload of patients and...
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He was discharged from Mass General to a rehab clinic after ...
Cowardly Institution
  05/05/26
He never had heart surgery...
tripping locale boiling water
  05/05/26
Never? What else did he have I thought there was way more st...
Cowardly Institution
  05/05/26
Not once. His heart has always been in great shape. They got...
tripping locale boiling water
  05/05/26
Because he was supposed to be connected to telemetry and eve...
tripping locale boiling water
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Isn't it not technically a hospital though? I thought it was...
Cowardly Institution
  05/05/26
It's called "Spaulding HOSPITAL Cambridge" -- that...
tripping locale boiling water
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Imagine you're some lazy dindu nurse (probably from Jamaica)...
Cowardly Institution
  05/05/26
The staff was busy keeping this joyful nigga alive https:...
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Why do you keep calling it murder and not just a nigger comp...
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I only called it murder once--when it happened. I was beyond...
tripping locale boiling water
  05/05/26
This whole situation reminds me of the state of gaming.
azure insane casino
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I'm going to contact the media through counsel as well. I wa...
tripping locale boiling water
  05/05/26
This is HUGE!
Hairraiser infuriating roommate national
  05/05/26
Wait I thought from your post “it’s now criminal...
aromatic organic girlfriend
  05/05/26
That's when I first spoke to the police. A detective supervi...
tripping locale boiling water
  05/05/26
So basically we can’t rely on your reports as entirely...
aromatic organic girlfriend
  05/05/26
Wtf are you talking about? I'm giving info as I receive it.
tripping locale boiling water
  05/05/26
lol 😂 You told us 5/2 charges had been taken out agai...
aromatic organic girlfriend
  05/05/26
What the fuck are you talking about? Get out of my thread an...
tripping locale boiling water
  05/05/26
Doesn’t work like that just don’t turn your fath...
aromatic organic girlfriend
  05/05/26
Oh so now it's about racism. Fuck off, nigger.
tripping locale boiling water
  05/05/26
Sorry I just thought you calling the nurse a nigger haitian ...
aromatic organic girlfriend
  05/05/26
Erika Kirk style grieving here
Hairraiser infuriating roommate national
  05/06/26
You’re such a weird little schizophrenic. None of thes...
Hairraiser infuriating roommate national
  05/05/26
We'll see.
tripping locale boiling water
  05/05/26
It’s a foregone conclusion you obese pube faced retard...
Hairraiser infuriating roommate national
  05/05/26
Why are you even participating in this thread? I'm clearly h...
tripping locale boiling water
  05/05/26
I didn’t know your dad, it sounds like he as a much be...
Hairraiser infuriating roommate national
  05/05/26
Goddamn! Never underestimate the capability of XO to take a ...
Spruce razzle reading party base
  05/06/26
80 year olds dying isn't tragic retard. sorry though.
metal irradiated gas station
  05/05/26
Kill yourself you fucking loser
tripping locale boiling water
  05/05/26
I'm amused and entertained by you, so will counsel you not t...
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He won’t unless it’s pro se or something similar...
aromatic organic girlfriend
  05/05/26
he will and it will definitely be pro se because it has all ...
metal irradiated gas station
  05/05/26
How's that settlement coming along? How about that options t...
tripping locale boiling water
  05/05/26
did he actually have No Kidneys and poop through his epiderm...
azure insane casino
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No.
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  05/05/26
you're gonna be rich fuck yeah
crawly maroon patrolman
  05/06/26
I know it's hard to accept and I hope he rests in peace but ...
mahogany coiffed university
  05/06/26
Very sorry for your loss brother. It must be maddening to kn...
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  05/06/26
What could have been prevented?
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  05/06/26
"an opportunity for me to get attention. thank god it ...
metal irradiated gas station
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you're originally from Boston?
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Date: April 29th, 2026 10:34 PM
Author: tripping locale boiling water

Today, I received a lot of information from (of all places) the hospital that had previously treated him. This is not where he experienced the events causing his death.

First, I received a phone call from the assistant to his surgeon (after hours). She told me she heard what happened, that she's extremely sorry for my loss, etc. She also told me the entire staff is shocked. She told me his doctor would be calling me within the next 10-15 minutes, but that she wanted to help me get whatever info I wanted. She literally logged into Epic and went to his charts at the other hospitals, provided timestamps of when procedures occurred, gave me doctors' names and numbers, etc.

Minutes later, I received a call from the surgeon. Her assistant had actually taken great notes and passed them over to the surgeon and we basically went through the list one-by-one.

Yesterday at 13:45, his blood pressure at MGH was 108/78, pulse 63 bpm, O2 98% on room air. He was then transported to Spaulding Hospital in Cambridge.

He arrived at Spaulding at 14:11. He was "chatting away" according to the intake notes. His vitals were normal.

At 15:56, I received a call from my mom--she was bawling.

At 16:01, I received a call from the doctor at Spaulding: Apparently my dad was in cardiac arrest. He noticed a large amount of "coffee ground emesis" occluding his airway. He called 9-1-1 and EMS was able to secure the airway. All the while, CPR was being performed. It was an unwitnessed arrest.

He arrived at Cambridge Alliance Hospital roughly 10 minutes later (it's only 1000 feet away). We were waiting for updates for another three hours. All the while, he had been going in and hour of cardiac arrest. By about 19:30, the doctor called me to explain the grim news. I explained my father's wishes, and then told him that after four rounds of ACLS drugs, an unwitnessed arrest, etc. I would agree that it is now appropriate to discontinue resuscitation efforts.

Maybe 20 minutes later, the doctor called me back to let me know that he had a pulse, but it was weak and thready. I told him that if he keeps that pulse or if it improves, we will resume resuscitation efforts.

At 20:39, he called me to let me know that my dad passed away at 20:37.

Talking to the surgeon today was incredible. She told me that there's a formal review process happening at MGH for this specific incident and that the same thing his happening at Cambridge Health Alliance. She also strongly suggested getting an autopsy and told me that I need to immediately contact the medical examiner. She mentioned that the entire ICU staff is gutted and they brought in grief counselors specifically for this event.

The medical examiner referred me to the Cambridge Police Department and an officer wants to meet with me tomorrow.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49852996)



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Date: April 29th, 2026 10:38 PM
Author: Charcoal glittery piazza dopamine

YNY GET PAID

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853001)



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Date: April 30th, 2026 12:29 AM
Author: tripping locale boiling water

No amount of money can bring him back.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853219)



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Date: April 29th, 2026 10:40 PM
Author: Orchid ladyboy

Explain

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853005)



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Date: April 29th, 2026 10:41 PM
Author: Cowardly Institution

So ur dad choked to death on coffee grounds while in a hospital and had to be taken to another hospital?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853009)



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Date: April 29th, 2026 11:01 PM
Author: tripping locale boiling water

"coffee ground emesis" refers to vomit that looks like coffee grounds because it's actually partially digested blood

he was at an "acute rehab center" CALLED Spaulding Hospital Cambridge, but they weren't able to provide hospital services. Apparently, at least. For example, they had to call 9-1-1 to have him intubated by fucking paramedics.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853039)



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Date: April 29th, 2026 11:36 PM
Author: Cowardly Institution

So he had the bypass surgery, he was recovering at a clinic that has no ability to deal with basic EMS? It sounds like he should have stayed at a real hospital for longer.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853134)



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Date: April 29th, 2026 11:38 PM
Author: tripping locale boiling water

He didn't have a bypass surgery. He had a reduction of a colocutaneous fistula and a colocolonic fistula. He recovered, got downgrade a level of care from the ICU about a week and a half ago, and then got downgraded to an "acute rehab facility" THAT LITERALLY CALLS ITSELF A HOSPITAL where he died 90 minutes after arriving.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853136)



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Date: April 29th, 2026 11:40 PM
Author: Cowardly Institution

Holy shit. It sounds like he never should have been cleared to leave MGH then. It's odd they would have rushed him out the door if he wasn't well. They have a superb rating.

How the hell did he get a CF? That shit seems gnarly as hell.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853140)



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Date: April 29th, 2026 11:42 PM
Author: tripping locale boiling water

It was the VA bean counters

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853143)



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Date: April 29th, 2026 11:45 PM
Author: Cowardly Institution

So the VA paid for his helicopter flight to MGH and a series of incredibly difficult and rare surgeries but the second he seemed a little better they were like nah get him out of there?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853149)



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Date: April 29th, 2026 11:45 PM
Author: tripping locale boiling water

precisely.

it's actually worse: they told us he wasn't allowed to stay there anymore and made it seem like the hospital was kicking him out. I talked to his surgeon about that and she said no such recommendation would ever come from them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853151)



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Date: April 29th, 2026 11:48 PM
Author: Cowardly Institution

Since when do insurance companies call the shots? Wouldn't MGH override that? Did the VA call them and say yo get this guy out of there? Usually the docs don't sign off unless someone is good to go. I've never heard of anyone dying 90 minutes after leaving a world class hospital. Who told the docs that he was to be shuffled out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853161)



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Date: April 29th, 2026 11:49 PM
Author: tripping locale boiling water

We're still finding out all of that info.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853164)



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Date: April 30th, 2026 3:43 PM
Author: Gay fanboi area

Lol insurance always calls the shots. A great doctor can call insurance and fight with them but the hospital is not doing anything insurance won't pay for

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49854791)



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Date: May 2nd, 2026 4:58 PM
Author: tripping locale boiling water



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49860035)



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Date: May 6th, 2026 7:44 AM
Author: mahogany coiffed university

LOL you should read the stories on the SDN rad onc page. The insurance companies ROUTINELY deny treatments that are accepted everywhere else in the world.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49869073)



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Date: May 6th, 2026 7:45 AM
Author: mahogany coiffed university

No it means he had an upper GI bleed

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49869077)



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Date: April 29th, 2026 11:03 PM
Author: Spruce razzle reading party base

Jesus christ. Shit like this really drives home how much better it is to die without becoming really old first

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853049)



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Date: April 29th, 2026 11:05 PM
Author: tripping locale boiling water

I forgot to mention, the cheapest funeral home wants $19,000

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853054)



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Date: April 29th, 2026 11:30 PM
Author: Talented gold immigrant state

you'll have to reserve two plots if your mother wants to rest next to your father

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853118)



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Date: April 29th, 2026 11:52 PM
Author: Contagious drab factory reset button

This is true; it is better to get four plots if you want an actual headstone than some flat placed stone.

###

This has been a message from the United States Secretary of Health and Human Services Robert F. Kennedy, Jr.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853173)



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Date: April 29th, 2026 11:07 PM
Author: pearly heaven trust fund

I prefer to think that there are good people in the world who care about doing their jobs to the incredibly high level called for when they have people’s lives in their hands. But the alternative read is that it’s the CYA train gathering steam.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853057)



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Date: April 29th, 2026 11:07 PM
Author: tripping locale boiling water



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853058)



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Date: April 29th, 2026 11:39 PM
Author: Cowardly Institution

At the end of the day it's a volume business. You can't make any money if you give super care to one person at a time. They should have never let this guy leave MGH if he wasn't fully cleared to go. To be fair on paper it's one of the best hospitals in the world so it would be odd for them to kick a guy out who's on the verge of death.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853137)



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Date: April 29th, 2026 11:43 PM
Author: tripping locale boiling water

he left because he was 100% ready to go.

He had a stomach ache that morning according to my mom. He vomited while unattended, aspirated the vomit (the doctor at that facility told me he didn't have an airway until EMS arrived), and drowned.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853145)



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Date: April 29th, 2026 11:45 PM
Author: Cowardly Institution

To be fair it seems like he had a lot of really severe medical problems stacked up on top of each other.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853152)



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Date: April 29th, 2026 11:47 PM
Author: tripping locale boiling water

that's 100% true

but if he got hit by a bus, it'd be no different.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853157)



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Date: April 29th, 2026 11:30 PM
Author: azure insane casino

What was the surgery for iyo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853120)



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Date: April 29th, 2026 11:41 PM
Author: tripping locale boiling water

A month ago, he got life flighted from NH to MGH because he was in sepsis secondary to a really bad infection from where he had peritoneal dialysis. He had emergency, life-saving surgery that I flew in for. He made a miraculous recovery, was talking and eating, and was excited to begin physical therapy and finally be out of the hospital.

The surgery removed a section of his colon and fixed a colocutaneous fistula and a colocolonic fistula. It was extremely complicated and one of the most difficult cases his surgeon had every encountered. She later told me that success cases like his are so few and far between that it really affects the staff when something like this happens.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853142)



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Date: April 29th, 2026 11:43 PM
Author: Cowardly Institution

How did he get perioneal dialysis and why did it lead to sepsis. Seems like he was ridiculously unhealthy and in awful condition. The CFs also seem like something out of a horror movie.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853146)



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Date: April 29th, 2026 11:45 PM
Author: tripping locale boiling water

He was in end-stage renal failure but was tolerating dialysis quite well. He was on peritoneal dialysis for close to 10 years.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853150)



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Date: April 29th, 2026 11:46 PM
Author: Cowardly Institution

So his kidneys failed completely 10 years ago and a machine extended his life by 10 years? Damn modern medicine is 180. You should be glad you got so much bonus time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853155)



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Date: April 29th, 2026 11:48 PM
Author: tripping locale boiling water

I am, and we were under the impression we would be getting a few more years at least.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853158)



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Date: April 29th, 2026 11:51 PM
Author: supple demanding wrinkle

I think you should see if a good medmal guy will take it on contingency and see what happens. Only way to make these facilities better is through lawsuits. Good luck, brother.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853171)



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Date: April 29th, 2026 11:51 PM
Author: tripping locale boiling water



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853172)



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Date: April 29th, 2026 11:53 PM
Author: Contagious drab factory reset button

###

This has been a message from the United States Secretary of Health and Human Services Robert F. Kennedy, Jr.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853175)



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Date: April 30th, 2026 12:00 AM
Author: Henna travel guidebook

nah fuck that, he should do it pro se and keep 100%, maybe kick ZZZ a few grand to do all the legal work

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853181)



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Date: April 30th, 2026 12:04 AM
Author: Cowardly Institution

Yeah I'm sure Mass General really needs to improve their reputation at this point *blank stare*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853189)



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Date: April 30th, 2026 12:14 AM
Author: tripping locale boiling water

MGH didn't fuck up. The place they transported him to did. He literally vomited, choked to death on his vomit, and died during shift change while no one checked in on him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853202)



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Date: April 30th, 2026 12:30 AM
Author: Cowardly Institution

Isn't it oddly suspicious that this dude chokes on his own vomit the moment he arrives at the Spaulding Hospital. What are the odds you show up at this place and die right away?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853220)



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Date: April 30th, 2026 12:32 AM
Author: tripping locale boiling water

It's beyond suspicious to the point the police are interested. They'll be doing an autopsy tomorrow or Friday.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853225)



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Date: April 30th, 2026 12:34 AM
Author: Cowardly Institution

What do you think they might find

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853228)



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Date: April 30th, 2026 12:50 AM
Author: tripping locale boiling water

His cause of death

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853256)



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Date: April 30th, 2026 12:57 AM
Author: Cowardly Institution

Given hiz buckwild degenerate medical history don't you think it could be any of the 9 million things that wuz wrong with him

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853259)



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Date: April 30th, 2026 11:46 AM
Author: tripping locale boiling water

you don't generally die 90 minutes after being discharged from one of the best hospitals in the world

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49854293)



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Date: April 30th, 2026 12:58 AM
Author: Sadistic obsidian fortuitous meteor

Was he on Coumadin?

Sounds like there was a possible GI bleed

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49853261)



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Date: April 30th, 2026 11:47 AM
Author: Orchid ladyboy

Thought OP would be Drake Maye's son

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49854297)



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Date: April 30th, 2026 5:02 PM
Author: scarlet thirsty new version pozpig

Very sorry to hear about your dad, and you're not alone in wanting to find a reason to blame someone for a loved one's passing when you weren't there and it looked like he was doing better.

Can you explain what the care facility should have done better? As much as it sucks to say it given what happened, it doesn't sound unreasonable for the facility to leave a man with good vitals alone for one hour without checking on him. Was he on a heart monitor and no one came when it was picking up signs that he was in distress?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49854978)



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Date: May 2nd, 2026 4:54 PM
Author: tripping locale boiling water

He was not connected to anything. They literally forgot about him and found him dead.

What could they have done better? I don't know, maybe their fucking job. If they did their job at all, my dad would still be alive.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49860026)



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Date: April 30th, 2026 5:28 PM
Author: tripping locale boiling water

Police are now involved

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49855060)



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Date: April 30th, 2026 9:34 PM
Author: exciting mint hairy legs prole

What’s the suspected crime? Angel of death, maybe? I can’t imagine malpractice reaching the criminal level outside extraordinary circumstances à la Christopher Duntsch

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49855773)



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Date: May 2nd, 2026 4:52 PM
Author: tripping locale boiling water

It's now criminally negligent homicide

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49860023)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:18 PM
Author: Hairraiser infuriating roommate national

It’s sad your dad died. And also you’re a deranged dramatic lunatic and nothing will come of this just like all your other bizarre little fantasies.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868467)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:23 PM
Author: tripping locale boiling water

I sincerely hope you never experience anything like this in your life, and in the event you do, I hope you suffer as much or more than I am suffering. Fuck you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868482)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:25 PM
Author: Hairraiser infuriating roommate national

Fuck you too, fatty.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868486)



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Date: May 2nd, 2026 5:09 PM
Author: Dashing ratface

Sounds tragic. I did a little Googling on Spaulding Cambridge (as distinct from Charlestown) and it doesn't look great. You are doing a service by pursuing this. We had a local nursing home that killed a patient. The $5M damage award incentivized their corporate parent to overhaul operations to everyone's benefit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49860058)



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Date: May 2nd, 2026 5:27 PM
Author: azure insane casino

But OldHLSDude, won’t they just pass on the Cost to Patients?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49860088)



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Date: May 2nd, 2026 5:28 PM
Author: tripping locale boiling water

No amount will bring him back. More than anything, I want an arrest out of this. But we are very aggressively pursuing this. This kind of stuff should not happen.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49860092)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:57 PM
Author: tripping locale boiling water

I spoke with a detective this afternoon. They will likely be pursuing criminally negligent homicide charges against the nurse.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868412)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:58 PM
Author: supple demanding wrinkle

I’m sorry that there’s evidence that supports this conclusion, brother.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868415)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:00 PM
Author: tripping locale boiling water

So am I. We found out yesterday that he was down >20 min before anyone checked on him. When they did, he was in asystole. Not vfib, not vtach, not PEA... asystole.

They fucking killed him and I want blood.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868423)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:01 PM
Author: Magenta vigorous keepsake machete pit

Scalia discussed this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868425)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:08 PM
Author: azure insane casino

Why is that a big deal. They have a shitload of patients and thus wasn’t he ER or ICU.. Not trying to be a dick.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868442)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:11 PM
Author: Cowardly Institution

He was discharged from Mass General to a rehab clinic after undergoing major surgery. He had some rare condition where his poop was coming out of his skin instead of his butthole. He had heart surgery as well. He has no kidneys. At an rate they sent him to a rehab clinic in Cambridge after discharging him. According to TSINAH he was chatty and in good spirits. He shows up at the clinic to start his rehab and he dies suddenly 90 minutes after arriving.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868451)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:14 PM
Author: tripping locale boiling water

He never had heart surgery...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868457)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:14 PM
Author: Cowardly Institution

Never? What else did he have I thought there was way more stuff

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868459)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:19 PM
Author: tripping locale boiling water

Not once. His heart has always been in great shape. They got a strong pulse back FROM ASYSTOLE meaning this likely wasn't a cardiac event. The autopsy confirmed that. He died from cardiac arrest because he didn't have an airway for over 20 minutes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868470)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:12 PM
Author: tripping locale boiling water

Because he was supposed to be connected to telemetry and everything else. That never happened. They were supposed to be monitoring him. They didnt. I asked how it's possible that a patient CHOKING TO DEATH wouldnt have been heard gagging, choking, or struggling. They told me the nurse's station is about 100 ft from his room and the hallway "gets noisy."

I understand you're not trying to be a dick; these are legitimate questions. But at the end of the day, he choked to death at a hospital where he should've been monitored. The fact this happened within an hour (not 90 min as I previously thought) of his arrival makes this even more suspicious.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868452)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:14 PM
Author: Cowardly Institution

Isn't it not technically a hospital though? I thought it was just some outpatient physical therapy clinic. They didn't even have on premise EMS right?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868458)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:17 PM
Author: tripping locale boiling water

It's called "Spaulding HOSPITAL Cambridge" -- that sounds like a hospital to me. They don't have an ER, though. They use an "outside provider" for EMS and transport up the street to CHA.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868464)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:20 PM
Author: Cowardly Institution

Imagine you're some lazy dindu nurse (probably from Jamaica) and they wheel in some fat white boomer who's on death's doorstep and you're like OK wow holy shit he looks like he's about to die. We should probably hook him up to something. But then she just goes back to reading the paper doin crossword puzzles in patois (I think) and your old man is just fallin apart in there and no one is giving that morbidly obese boomer the attention he rightly deserves.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868471)



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Date: May 6th, 2026 1:43 AM
Author: Beta unholy filthpig liquid oxygen

The staff was busy keeping this joyful nigga alive

https://spauldingrehab.org/assets/spaulding/images/locations/cambridge-continuing-medical-care/man-walking-with-physical-therapists-1600x676.jpg

Why would they bother with your sad dad's cracker ass?

Setting insults aside, your trademark dishonesty shines though: you know it's not a hospital and are pretending it is

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868796)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:21 PM
Author: azure insane casino

Why do you keep calling it murder and not just a nigger competency crisis and too much immigration. Gross negligence isn’t homicide imho.

Call it what it is, the whole country is retarded, sometimes you get lucky sometimes you don’t. Doctors just care about their GPAs and Porsches. If a nursing home goes under it just makes insurance more expensive. Healthcare gets more expensive and then gets more Greedily Rationed by PE owners.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868475)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:27 PM
Author: tripping locale boiling water

I only called it murder once--when it happened. I was beyond shocked and to me it initially seemed like it had to have been intentional rather than grossly negligent. Either way, it's a homicide.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868491)



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Date: May 6th, 2026 7:40 AM
Author: azure insane casino

This whole situation reminds me of the state of gaming.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49869068)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:04 PM
Author: tripping locale boiling water

I'm going to contact the media through counsel as well. I want this entire hospital to go under.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868433)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:36 PM
Author: Hairraiser infuriating roommate national

This is HUGE!



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868524)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:59 PM
Author: aromatic organic girlfriend

Wait I thought from your post “it’s now criminally negligent homicide” they were doing that 5/2

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868418)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:01 PM
Author: tripping locale boiling water

That's when I first spoke to the police. A detective supervisor called me back today to confirm.

Of course, it's up to the DA's office to pursue, but they have probable cause for an arrest, so I'm hoping that happens.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868426)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:10 PM
Author: aromatic organic girlfriend

So basically we can’t rely on your reports as entirely credible. And you manipulate implications. Got it.

Sorry your dad died if I didn’t say that before.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868446)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:13 PM
Author: tripping locale boiling water

Wtf are you talking about? I'm giving info as I receive it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868455)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:17 PM
Author: aromatic organic girlfriend

lol 😂

You told us 5/2 charges had been taken out against the random black foreigner you blame for dads passing

Just stop. Don’t make dads sad passing the subject of xo fodder on your incapacity to tell the truth ever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868465)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:21 PM
Author: tripping locale boiling water

What the fuck are you talking about? Get out of my thread and NEVER mention my deceased father again you sorry piece of shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868474)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:24 PM
Author: aromatic organic girlfriend

Doesn’t work like that just don’t turn your fathers passing into some weird racist thing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868483)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:29 PM
Author: tripping locale boiling water

Oh so now it's about racism. Fuck off, nigger.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868498)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:42 PM
Author: aromatic organic girlfriend

Sorry I just thought you calling the nurse a nigger haitian dindu was racist my bad

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868542)



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Date: May 6th, 2026 6:20 PM
Author: Hairraiser infuriating roommate national

Erika Kirk style grieving here

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49870588)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:18 PM
Author: Hairraiser infuriating roommate national

You’re such a weird little schizophrenic. None of these delusional fantasies of yours come true.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868469)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:22 PM
Author: tripping locale boiling water

We'll see.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868479)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:25 PM
Author: Hairraiser infuriating roommate national

It’s a foregone conclusion you obese pube faced retard

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868487)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:28 PM
Author: tripping locale boiling water

Why are you even participating in this thread? I'm clearly hurting and instead of offering support or at the very least remaining silent, you opt for this? There is a special place in hell reserved for pieces of shit like you and I hope you get there sooner rather than later. Hth.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868496)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:31 PM
Author: Hairraiser infuriating roommate national

I didn’t know your dad, it sounds like he as a much better human than you. It’s too bad he’s gone and a human shit stain like you remains. Fortunately obesity will get you sooner rather than later!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868507)



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Date: May 6th, 2026 6:10 PM
Author: Spruce razzle reading party base

Goddamn! Never underestimate the capability of XO to take a man who feels like he's at his lowest and drag him even lower

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49870578)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:27 PM
Author: metal irradiated gas station

80 year olds dying isn't tragic retard. sorry though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868492)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:29 PM
Author: tripping locale boiling water

Kill yourself you fucking loser

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868497)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:39 PM
Author: rusted cruise ship gaping

I'm amused and entertained by you, so will counsel you not to post shit in this forum if you might end up suing this hospital or being deposed. YWIA.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868535)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:41 PM
Author: aromatic organic girlfriend

He won’t unless it’s pro se or something similar. It’s not that kind of case

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868540)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:51 PM
Author: metal irradiated gas station

he will and it will definitely be pro se because it has all of the required elements (ie having no legal basis but the potential to get poasters to pay attention to him)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868568)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 11:26 PM
Author: tripping locale boiling water

How's that settlement coming along? How about that options trading?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868668)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 11:18 PM
Author: azure insane casino

did he actually have No Kidneys and poop through his epidermis jw

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868642)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 11:25 PM
Author: tripping locale boiling water

No.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49868666)



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Date: May 6th, 2026 7:37 AM
Author: crawly maroon patrolman

you're gonna be rich fuck yeah

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49869062)



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Date: May 6th, 2026 7:40 AM
Author: mahogany coiffed university

I know it's hard to accept and I hope he rests in peace but the truth is he likely had a ton of co morbidities and acute issues and there was no way to revive him without causing another problem. You should know this as a former EMT.

I've been in hundreds of MET calls and they are never straightforward.

You don't need to go down this route just because you are surrounded by a board full of scum (lawyers).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49869067)



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Date: May 6th, 2026 7:48 AM
Author: lime orchestra pit

Very sorry for your loss brother. It must be maddening to know that it could have been prevented and that he could still be alive right now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49869081)



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Date: May 6th, 2026 7:50 AM
Author: mahogany coiffed university

What could have been prevented?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49869087)



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Date: May 6th, 2026 5:44 PM
Author: metal irradiated gas station

"an opportunity for me to get attention. thank god it wasn't!" (tsina

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49870497)



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Date: May 6th, 2026 5:52 PM
Author: Mind-boggling temple gaming laptop

you're originally from Boston?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5861806&forum_id=2most#49870520)