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My wife drives me nuts. She wants to have family photos taken.
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Date: November 8th, 2025 3:22 PM Author: lucius quinctius cincinnatus (his own flesh as well as all space was still a cage) She found some "photographer" on Facebook or something and this crazy lady wants us to pack up our kids, drive 40 minutes to some park, stand around in the 90 degree weather squinting into the direct sunlight for the shoot. My wife wants everyone in heavy fall clothes. I just told her. Look, everyone's face is going to be red and we are going to be sweating profusely. Our hair will be wet and the pictures will look like shit if we do this today. Now my wife is crying. She says, "I can't do anything right." Oh brother. Am I the only one that thinks about the optics? |
Date: November 8th, 2025 3:24 PM Author: .,.,.,.,.,...,.,,.,,.....,.,..,.,,...,.,.,,...,. stfu disco fries (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5795013&forum_id=2most#49412828) |
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Date: November 8th, 2025 3:29 PM Author: Junko Enoshima Your wife said she couldn't do anything right. Has she expressed that feeling before? Do you think she feels you criticize her a lot? Does your wife normally take charge of things like family pictures or do you have the final say? Is there any way you can let her plan something for your family and support her whatever she might decide? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5795013&forum_id=2most#49412835) |
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Date: November 8th, 2025 3:38 PM Author: lucius quinctius cincinnatus (his own flesh as well as all space was still a cage) She's just a poor decision maker in some regards. She's always trying to please someone else or live up to some standard. I guess that makes her 180 in a way. For example, she tries really hard to be the best she possibly can at her job. I find that admirable. I certainly don't do that in my job because I find it draining if not painful to even think about work. I handle all of the money and spending decisions. I carry the stress of making sure everything is done and taken care of. She will do thing like sign our kids up for activities and classes, but then the stress of carting them to and from is too much, and I'm there to be like, look we just can't do this. It doesn't fit our family and we can't be everywhere at once and we can't spend all of this time carting kids to and from everywhere. I think maybe I should encourage her more. |
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Date: November 8th, 2025 3:39 PM Author: Junko Enoshima What is your wife good at, besides trying really hard? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5795013&forum_id=2most#49412854) |
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Date: November 8th, 2025 3:40 PM Author: lucius quinctius cincinnatus (his own flesh as well as all space was still a cage) She's good at being an understanding mother to our kids and she's really good at singing. She's horrific at negotiation and capitulates too easily in the face of confrontation. |
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Date: November 8th, 2025 3:44 PM Author: Junko Enoshima A lot of kids in America would like a little more understanding from their parents, so I think your wife has some valuable qualities. Maybe you can think of ways to give her more opportunities to let her talents shine, I don't know what would or wouldn't be practical, but I'm sure you can think of something. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5795013&forum_id=2most#49412864) |
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Date: November 8th, 2025 3:51 PM Author: Kenneth Play (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5795013&forum_id=2most#49412874) |
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Date: November 8th, 2025 4:33 PM Author: Raul Mondesi circa 1998 Take her to Club Mandingo (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5795013&forum_id=2most#49412946) |
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Date: November 8th, 2025 3:30 PM Author: ...,...,...,...,...,...,...,..., Do you enjoy seeing 180 photos of your family as a kid? If you do, you owe it to your kids. Otherwise, be an asshole dad and don't leave them nice memories. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5795013&forum_id=2most#49412837) |
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Date: November 8th, 2025 3:39 PM Author: lucius quinctius cincinnatus (his own flesh as well as all space was still a cage) My family never had our photos taken, lol. Also, lol, there are very limited photos from when I was younger. I have a shoebox of discarded photos in my closet. The oldest I am in them is about 12 years old. I have shared a couple on xo before. |
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Date: November 8th, 2025 3:33 PM Author: Rampart ( ) tell your wife you want to use a photographer from zozo (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5795013&forum_id=2most#49412844) |
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Date: November 8th, 2025 4:35 PM Author: .;:..;:.;.:.;.,,,..,.:,.;....;,;;;..;,..,,.,,...., Just tell her wait 2 weeks (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5795013&forum_id=2most#49412948) |
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Date: November 8th, 2025 4:57 PM Author: samoth Why do you need to spend money on a third-party "photographer" when you already own multiple expensive, high-end cameras?
Do a family thing and plan out your own pictures together and do it yourselves. |