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proposed last night. It went horribly. I should break up, I gues

fml. And because I was stupid and told people I was going...
Red harsh gaming laptop temple
  12/25/14
tell us what happened
mustard office juggernaut
  12/25/14
So I waited until after I made him dinner, and we were havin...
Red harsh gaming laptop temple
  12/25/14
stfu doobs
razzmatazz bawdyhouse
  12/25/14
I wish I were flame. This actually happened. And today's ...
Red harsh gaming laptop temple
  12/25/14
...
motley whorehouse toaster
  12/25/14
it isn't
effete primrose tank meetinghouse
  12/25/14
...
Sick talented sandwich
  12/25/14
100% certain
Razzle-dazzle Sooty Stead
  12/26/14
Abso-doobsly
Vibrant Milk
  12/26/14
Indoobitably
Comical Plaza Dysfunction
  12/26/14
wow. i'm sorry. yeah, it sounds like this is over.
effete primrose tank meetinghouse
  12/25/14
Yeah. The weird part is, I have no idea if we're fucking eng...
Red harsh gaming laptop temple
  12/25/14
wtf? wanted to keep it? you need to find out ASAP what he...
effete primrose tank meetinghouse
  12/25/14
yeah, so he kept the ring, and wore it but it turned out to ...
Red harsh gaming laptop temple
  12/25/14
yea that sounds hard. but what the fuck is he thinking? why ...
effete primrose tank meetinghouse
  12/25/14
Right? I have no idea what's really going on in his head. I'...
Red harsh gaming laptop temple
  12/25/14
fuckup how? you shouldn't feel ashamed it's just unfortunate
effete primrose tank meetinghouse
  12/25/14
If I hadn't of told anyone I wouldn't have to hear the disap...
Red harsh gaming laptop temple
  12/25/14
maybe. anyway i would worry more about yourself and your sit...
effete primrose tank meetinghouse
  12/25/14
Yeah. You're right. It's not that I'm worried about how peop...
Red harsh gaming laptop temple
  12/25/14
why wouldn't i be? i remember how excited you were about thi...
effete primrose tank meetinghouse
  12/25/14
:-) Thanks. Honestly, I would have preferred he just say &qu...
Red harsh gaming laptop temple
  12/25/14
He wants to keep fucking her of course.
Floppy aggressive shitlib
  12/25/14
Bold guess here: He's Jewish.
contagious charcoal lodge
  12/25/14
athiest
Red harsh gaming laptop temple
  12/25/14
You must ATD immediately. Were you not SURE she would s...
High-end Fuchsia Friendly Grandma Locale
  12/25/14
EVERYBODY miscarries the first time. If you don't know about...
tan famous landscape painting
  12/25/14
link?
titillating irate lettuce
  12/25/14
i have four kids by four different women. I know firsthand.
tan famous landscape painting
  12/25/14
Flame Assuming not flame, why the fuck are you, as a fema...
Comical Plaza Dysfunction
  12/25/14
...
motley whorehouse toaster
  12/25/14
i disagree. women always wonder whether the men they're with...
effete primrose tank meetinghouse
  12/25/14
LOL, no! Guys will be irritated by a woman proposing, unless...
Comical Plaza Dysfunction
  12/25/14
guess i'm bitchmade but i don't see the issue. it's not like...
effete primrose tank meetinghouse
  12/25/14
Regardless, if a man wants to marry a woman, he'll propose. ...
Comical Plaza Dysfunction
  12/25/14
CR If a woman proposed to me... I would say "No"...
High-end Fuchsia Friendly Grandma Locale
  12/25/14
no offense here, but you aren't the kind of guy a girl would...
Red harsh gaming laptop temple
  12/25/14
Harsh, but fair
High-end Fuchsia Friendly Grandma Locale
  12/25/14
Fuck no. Forcing the issue by proposing is the best way to ...
Floppy aggressive shitlib
  12/25/14
OK fine. If a woman just wants confirmation that he has no i...
Comical Plaza Dysfunction
  12/25/14
That wasn't my situation, but I don't see anything wrong wit...
Red harsh gaming laptop temple
  12/25/14
Didn't you think that if he wanted and was ready to marry yo...
Comical Plaza Dysfunction
  12/25/14
I don't regret asking. I'm proud of myself for having the co...
Red harsh gaming laptop temple
  12/25/14
Can't assume female, can we?
High-end Fuchsia Friendly Grandma Locale
  12/25/14
Strongly disagree - why can't women propose? Women already, ...
contagious charcoal lodge
  12/25/14
lol
Shimmering stage
  12/25/14
lol
High-end Fuchsia Friendly Grandma Locale
  12/25/14
stfu Julia
Comical Plaza Dysfunction
  12/25/14
lol, OP clearly isnt a female. check your cis heteronormativ...
titillating irate lettuce
  12/25/14
...
motley whorehouse toaster
  12/25/14
I bought a ring for him.
Red harsh gaming laptop temple
  12/25/14
...
motley whorehouse toaster
  12/25/14
he isn't close to his mother but I asked his identical twin
Red harsh gaming laptop temple
  12/25/14
...
Electric unholy institution
  12/26/14
lol
vivacious becky
  12/26/14
jumped the shark
puce party of the first part
  12/26/14
cr
effete primrose tank meetinghouse
  12/26/14
You're a woman and you proposed? No wonder it ended in disa...
Floppy aggressive shitlib
  12/25/14
We don't have a traditional kind of relationship. That's wha...
Red harsh gaming laptop temple
  12/25/14
You need to get rid of him because he is not that into you
Topaz Zombie-like Double Fault
  12/25/14
I'm realizing this. It's just weird because we have lived to...
Red harsh gaming laptop temple
  12/25/14
OP is arrow. Obviously. Or doobs pretending to be arrow.
Cowardly Excitant Factory Reset Button Spot
  12/25/14
false. op is female. but it could be flame
effete primrose tank meetinghouse
  12/25/14
OP is "female" the same way my coffee table is &qu...
insane hissy fit casino
  12/25/14
I'm a female poster
Red harsh gaming laptop temple
  12/25/14
You're a pseudorandom sequence of punctuation marks, represe...
insane hissy fit casino
  12/25/14
'She' could be a plucky, clueless Asian female, I'm willing ...
mustard office juggernaut
  12/25/14
I'm using my actual moniker, just changed to pumo because I'...
Red harsh gaming laptop temple
  12/25/14
You're an inanimate fucking object
contagious charcoal lodge
  12/25/14
come on dude, you should know better than this.
Emerald slimy locus
  12/25/14
Maybe OP didn't get down on one knee.
High-end Fuchsia Friendly Grandma Locale
  12/25/14
I didn't. I think the one knee thing is ridiculous for eithe...
Red harsh gaming laptop temple
  12/25/14
This flame is making me delirious!
mustard office juggernaut
  12/25/14
Your flame makes me smile!
maize cruise ship
  12/25/14
My o|||||||o is still in the shop
mustard office juggernaut
  12/25/14
Thoughts & prayers in this difficult time, brother.
maize cruise ship
  12/25/14
ty, I pick it up tomorrow
mustard office juggernaut
  12/25/14
you guessed right
Shimmering stage
  12/25/14
arrow sure does need to gas himself
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  12/25/14
this is a new low, doobs
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mustard office juggernaut
  12/25/14
It's even more depressing when my actual life tragedy is dis...
Red harsh gaming laptop temple
  12/25/14
...
Adventurous library
  12/26/14
in on doobs
milky stag film gunner
  12/25/14
you lose.
Red harsh gaming laptop temple
  12/25/14
Feel bad for you. Sorry.
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  12/25/14
cr. what an awful xmas. only way to salvage it now is murder...
titillating irate lettuce
  12/25/14
When you are called upon to discuss it, you don't say "...
tan famous landscape painting
  12/25/14
Thanks for the advice. I'll use a version of this
Red harsh gaming laptop temple
  12/25/14
no. this is face-saving horseshit and will make you feel mor...
effete primrose tank meetinghouse
  12/25/14
Tso heroic! Besides, he actually didn't say no.
tan famous landscape painting
  12/25/14
I think you can argue that not saying yes in this scenario m...
Red harsh gaming laptop temple
  12/25/14
Skinny girl is confirmed doobs right
Rose swashbuckling coldplay fan
  12/25/14
did she finish her cheeseburger?
mustard office juggernaut
  12/25/14
I outted doobs as a creep a while ago by posting transcripts...
Red harsh gaming laptop temple
  12/25/14
skinny girl has been on tinychat. she's confirmed not doobs,...
effete primrose tank meetinghouse
  12/25/14
(doobs)
Shimmering stage
  12/25/14
...
Razzle-dazzle Sooty Stead
  12/26/14
(pumette responding to pumette)
sable place of business depressive
  12/26/14
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  12/30/14
has he had your ass
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  12/25/14
If not flame this is sad but honestly the chances of this tu...
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  12/25/14
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  12/25/14
sick catty femposter on femposter violence bro
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  12/26/14
you don't have to report bak to anyone! if anyone asks ab...
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  12/25/14
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  12/25/14
that's what you get for thinking you could land a chad. Larr...
Doobsian internet-worthy tanning salon selfie
  12/26/14
cr. his blood is on ur hands
effete primrose tank meetinghouse
  12/26/14
How bad is his credit? That could be the deal breaker here.
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  12/26/14
Doobs did you imagine a man wearing around an engagement rin...
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  12/26/14
good move not to gloat about successful flame too early. got...
big mischievous boltzmann
  12/26/14
...
Diverse bonkers pistol
  12/26/14
isn't he a vegan? oy vey
sable place of business depressive
  12/26/14
wow you have a lot of balls sister. i could never pull somet...
Diverse bonkers pistol
  12/26/14
WTF doobs
frozen ruby business firm
  12/26/14
how long have you dated? i would honestly feel weird and ki...
puce party of the first part
  12/26/14
lol yeah maybe
sable place of business depressive
  12/30/14
Wait, so reading through this thread, you are not into tradi...
alcoholic odious masturbator public bath
  12/26/14
although this thread is flame and also jfc doobs, this does ...
Adventurous library
  12/26/14
*gives you a flower*
aromatic property
  12/26/14
:( but hey if you need some good rebound sex to cheer...
Emerald slimy locus
  12/30/14
totally amazing how everyone on xo doesnt understand basic h...
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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:23 PM
Author: Red harsh gaming laptop temple

fml.

And because I was stupid and told people I was going to do it, I'm going to have to let them know what happened.

Maybe just killself?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996752)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:23 PM
Author: mustard office juggernaut

tell us what happened

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996754)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:26 PM
Author: Red harsh gaming laptop temple

So I waited until after I made him dinner, and we were having a glass of wine by the little christmas tree.

I told him I had one more gift for him, and went into my propoal.

He replied "What?" about ten times... then goes, "Why me?" then talked about his bad credit for a minute, then goes, "You're so weird".

Then he said, "Well it's not a definite no."

Damn, I really should killself.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996765)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:26 PM
Author: razzmatazz bawdyhouse

stfu doobs

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996767)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:27 PM
Author: Red harsh gaming laptop temple

I wish I were flame.

This actually happened. And today's been an entire day of awkwardness because he still lives here.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996773)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:35 PM
Author: motley whorehouse toaster



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996813)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:36 PM
Author: effete primrose tank meetinghouse

it isn't

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996815)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:58 PM
Author: Sick talented sandwich



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996916)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 12:34 AM
Author: Razzle-dazzle Sooty Stead

100% certain

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26998911)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:01 AM
Author: Vibrant Milk

Abso-doobsly

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999744)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:03 AM
Author: Comical Plaza Dysfunction

Indoobitably

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999747)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:27 PM
Author: effete primrose tank meetinghouse

wow. i'm sorry. yeah, it sounds like this is over.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996768)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:29 PM
Author: Red harsh gaming laptop temple

Yeah. The weird part is, I have no idea if we're fucking engaged or not, because when I tried to take the ring back and just forget it ever happened he said he wanted to keep it. Then asked "What does this mean?" about five more times. We're both non confrontational introverts.

I mean of course we're not engaged because I do have some pride left. But jfc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996782)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:29 PM
Author: effete primrose tank meetinghouse

wtf? wanted to keep it?

you need to find out ASAP what he really thinks about this. i don't understand how you could even end the conversation without being sure

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996785)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:31 PM
Author: Red harsh gaming laptop temple

yeah, so he kept the ring, and wore it but it turned out to be a little too small. He's been sucking up to me hardcore ever since last night, but we haven't talked about it at all today.

Since we live together, I'm trying to work up the nerve to tell him to leave for a while so I can figure out how i feel about everything.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996790)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:32 PM
Author: effete primrose tank meetinghouse

yea that sounds hard. but what the fuck is he thinking? why would he suck up to you after rejecting you? what does he even want?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996795)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:37 PM
Author: Red harsh gaming laptop temple

Right? I have no idea what's really going on in his head. I'm just going to try to get through the new year dealing with my fuckup of telling other people that I was going to propose.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996822)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:48 PM
Author: effete primrose tank meetinghouse

fuckup how? you shouldn't feel ashamed it's just unfortunate

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996870)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:52 PM
Author: Red harsh gaming laptop temple

If I hadn't of told anyone I wouldn't have to hear the disappointment when I tell them what happened. I know everyone cares about me and will be nice about it, but I'm too empathic for my own good.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996886)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:57 PM
Author: effete primrose tank meetinghouse

maybe. anyway i would worry more about yourself and your situation with him than about how other people are gonna think and feel

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996910)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:00 PM
Author: Red harsh gaming laptop temple

Yeah. You're right. It's not that I'm worried about how people are going to feel more than myself... it's just that one extra thing that's going to be a kick in the face. Thanks for being nice.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996923)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:01 PM
Author: effete primrose tank meetinghouse

why wouldn't i be? i remember how excited you were about this dood and i think it really sucks that it turned out that way.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996928)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:09 PM
Author: Red harsh gaming laptop temple

:-) Thanks. Honestly, I would have preferred he just say "no."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996974)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:40 PM
Author: Floppy aggressive shitlib

He wants to keep fucking her of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996834)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:32 PM
Author: contagious charcoal lodge

Bold guess here: He's Jewish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996794)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:39 PM
Author: Red harsh gaming laptop temple

athiest

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996833)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:27 PM
Author: High-end Fuchsia Friendly Grandma Locale

You must ATD immediately.

Were you not SURE she would say YES? (rhetorical Q obvsly)

TBF, we told a bunch of people my wife was pregnant the first time at like 8 weeks. Miscarried. Hilarious, huh?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996775)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:33 PM
Author: tan famous landscape painting

EVERYBODY miscarries the first time. If you don't know about it, she miscarried Darnell's baby.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997132)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:34 PM
Author: titillating irate lettuce

link?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997141)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:44 PM
Author: tan famous landscape painting

i have four kids by four different women. I know firsthand.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997183)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:27 PM
Author: Comical Plaza Dysfunction

Flame

Assuming not flame, why the fuck are you, as a female, proposing? Don't you know that's a recipe for disaster?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996772)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:27 PM
Author: motley whorehouse toaster



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996774)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:28 PM
Author: effete primrose tank meetinghouse

i disagree. women always wonder whether the men they're with are really in it for the long term. proposing is the best way to find out.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996778)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:32 PM
Author: Comical Plaza Dysfunction

LOL, no! Guys will be irritated by a woman proposing, unless the guy is some bitchmade "super progressive" liberal beta shithead. You may as well cut off a guy's balls by proposing to him. A man should be in the driver's seat; let him propose.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996796)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:33 PM
Author: effete primrose tank meetinghouse

guess i'm bitchmade but i don't see the issue. it's not like it'll come as a true surprise either way

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996802)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:36 PM
Author: Comical Plaza Dysfunction

Regardless, if a man wants to marry a woman, he'll propose. If he hasn't proposed yet, it's because he doesn't want to marry the woman, or he's not ready yet. Either way, if the woman proposes, it's almost a guaranteed failure.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996818)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:37 PM
Author: High-end Fuchsia Friendly Grandma Locale

CR

If a woman proposed to me... I would say "No" out of principle. Then ATD.

Would immediately think the chick was not stable. Also, why would I want a woman so eager to usurp my masculinity?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996820)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:39 PM
Author: Red harsh gaming laptop temple

no offense here, but you aren't the kind of guy a girl would propose to. If I were dating a different kind of guy, I would have acted differently.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996832)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:41 PM
Author: High-end Fuchsia Friendly Grandma Locale

Harsh, but fair

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996842)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:38 PM
Author: Floppy aggressive shitlib

Fuck no. Forcing the issue by proposing is the best way to ensure he says no right now even if he is open to it in the long term.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996824)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:43 PM
Author: Comical Plaza Dysfunction

OK fine. If a woman just wants confirmation that he has no intention of marrying her so she can move on, then yes, maybe it's a good idea. But then it sounds like she's proposing SO THAT he will say no.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996851)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:46 PM
Author: Red harsh gaming laptop temple

That wasn't my situation, but I don't see anything wrong with what you said.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996865)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:49 PM
Author: Comical Plaza Dysfunction

Didn't you think that if he wanted and was ready to marry you, he would have proposed or was getting ready to propose?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996873)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:50 PM
Author: Red harsh gaming laptop temple

I don't regret asking. I'm proud of myself for having the courage to go after what I want even knowing it could turn out this way. Still stings though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997211)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:28 PM
Author: High-end Fuchsia Friendly Grandma Locale

Can't assume female, can we?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996779)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:54 PM
Author: contagious charcoal lodge

Strongly disagree - why can't women propose? Women already, often enough, play a hand in picking out the ring and financing it. Relationships are a team effort, and if one team member finds the right opportunity to ask the question, why can't she go for it?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996895)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:55 PM
Author: Shimmering stage

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996900)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:58 PM
Author: High-end Fuchsia Friendly Grandma Locale

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996911)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:58 PM
Author: Comical Plaza Dysfunction

stfu Julia

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996912)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:29 PM
Author: titillating irate lettuce

lol, OP clearly isnt a female. check your cis heteronormative privilege



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997102)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:28 PM
Author: motley whorehouse toaster



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996777)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:29 PM
Author: Red harsh gaming laptop temple

I bought a ring for him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996784)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:33 PM
Author: motley whorehouse toaster



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996801)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:38 PM
Author: Red harsh gaming laptop temple

he isn't close to his mother but I asked his identical twin

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996823)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 6:22 AM
Author: Electric unholy institution



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999553)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:01 AM
Author: vivacious becky

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999742)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:38 AM
Author: puce party of the first part

jumped the shark

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999820)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:39 AM
Author: effete primrose tank meetinghouse

cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999822)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:28 PM
Author: Floppy aggressive shitlib

You're a woman and you proposed? No wonder it ended in disaster.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996780)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:30 PM
Author: Red harsh gaming laptop temple

We don't have a traditional kind of relationship. That's what makes it fun. I don't want a traditional type because I've had that and its boring. But this sucks, so who knows.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996787)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:30 PM
Author: Topaz Zombie-like Double Fault

You need to get rid of him because he is not that into you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996788)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:32 PM
Author: Red harsh gaming laptop temple

I'm realizing this. It's just weird because we have lived together for a year and everything is awesome. Maybe he's just not into the marriage thing, or maybe he's just using me for companionship. I don't know.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996791)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:34 PM
Author: Cowardly Excitant Factory Reset Button Spot

OP is arrow. Obviously.

Or doobs pretending to be arrow.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996805)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:35 PM
Author: effete primrose tank meetinghouse

false. op is female. but it could be flame

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996808)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:38 PM
Author: insane hissy fit casino

OP is "female" the same way my coffee table is "female"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996826)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:40 PM
Author: Red harsh gaming laptop temple

I'm a female poster

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996837)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:43 PM
Author: insane hissy fit casino

You're a pseudorandom sequence of punctuation marks, representing an anonymous user of a racist law chat tweet. No part of this indicates you're a female. Post tits or GTFO

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996847)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:44 PM
Author: mustard office juggernaut

'She' could be a plucky, clueless Asian female, I'm willing to believe such a girl might propose to her handsome

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996852)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:44 PM
Author: Red harsh gaming laptop temple

I'm using my actual moniker, just changed to pumo because I'm not flaming and wanted some actual advice from anonymous people. but whatever.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996855)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:58 PM
Author: contagious charcoal lodge

You're an inanimate fucking object

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997252)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 10:17 PM
Author: Emerald slimy locus

come on dude, you should know better than this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26998204)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:35 PM
Author: High-end Fuchsia Friendly Grandma Locale

Maybe OP didn't get down on one knee.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996811)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:41 PM
Author: Red harsh gaming laptop temple

I didn't. I think the one knee thing is ridiculous for either gender.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996841)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:38 PM
Author: mustard office juggernaut

This flame is making me delirious!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996825)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:40 PM
Author: maize cruise ship

Your flame makes me smile!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996836)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:41 PM
Author: mustard office juggernaut

My

o|||||||o

is still in the shop

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996840)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:42 PM
Author: maize cruise ship

Thoughts & prayers in this difficult time, brother.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996844)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:43 PM
Author: mustard office juggernaut

ty, I pick it up tomorrow

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996848)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:45 PM
Author: Shimmering stage

you guessed right

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996860)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:57 PM
Author: Fishy overrated theatre

arrow sure does need to gas himself

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996904)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:12 PM
Author: Slippery stirring hall athletic conference

this is a new low, doobs

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996983)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:12 PM
Author: motley whorehouse toaster



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996985)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:12 PM
Author: insane hissy fit casino



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996990)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:14 PM
Author: mustard office juggernaut



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997004)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:27 PM
Author: Red harsh gaming laptop temple

It's even more depressing when my actual life tragedy is dismissed as doobs flame.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997093)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 4:27 PM
Author: Adventurous library



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#27001057)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:31 PM
Author: milky stag film gunner

in on doobs

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997112)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:32 PM
Author: Red harsh gaming laptop temple

you lose.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997122)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:34 PM
Author: White trust fund

Feel bad for you. Sorry.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997140)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:35 PM
Author: titillating irate lettuce

cr. what an awful xmas. only way to salvage it now is murder her would be fiance and his entire bloodline

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997146)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:36 PM
Author: tan famous landscape painting

When you are called upon to discuss it, you don't say "he said no", you say, we are are not ready to decide for certain yet, so we are still thinking over our long term plans.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997152)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:38 PM
Author: Red harsh gaming laptop temple

Thanks for the advice. I'll use a version of this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997163)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:41 PM
Author: effete primrose tank meetinghouse

no. this is face-saving horseshit and will make you feel more ashamed in the long haul. you should tell the truth. it'll be okay.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997174)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:43 PM
Author: tan famous landscape painting

Tso heroic! Besides, he actually didn't say no.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997181)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:47 PM
Author: Red harsh gaming laptop temple

I think you can argue that not saying yes in this scenario means saying no. I am going to say that it didn't go as planned and I'm not sure what that means right now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997194)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:49 PM
Author: Rose swashbuckling coldplay fan

Skinny girl is confirmed doobs right

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997204)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:50 PM
Author: mustard office juggernaut

did she finish her cheeseburger?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997213)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:52 PM
Author: Red harsh gaming laptop temple

I outted doobs as a creep a while ago by posting transcripts of our chats that showed him being creepy. So... no.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997224)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:59 PM
Author: effete primrose tank meetinghouse

skinny girl has been on tinychat. she's confirmed not doobs, just like pumette

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997269)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 7:17 PM
Author: Shimmering stage

(doobs)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997368)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 12:36 AM
Author: Razzle-dazzle Sooty Stead



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26998918)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 4:39 AM
Author: sable place of business depressive

(pumette responding to pumette)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999515)



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Date: December 30th, 2014 10:43 AM
Author: buff startling field



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#27023349)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:51 PM
Author: Submissive Fanboi

has he had your ass

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997219)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 9:09 PM
Author: wine violent halford national

If not flame this is sad but honestly the chances of this turning out well were always pretty low.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26998011)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 11:54 PM
Author: saffron arousing theater



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26998742)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 10:57 AM
Author: sable place of business depressive

sick catty femposter on femposter violence bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999735)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:31 AM
Author: Diverse bonkers pistol



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999793)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 10:15 PM
Author: Dull Trailer Park Idiot

you don't have to report bak to anyone!

if anyone asks about the christmas eve proposal, just say you chickened out (or turkeyed out as the case may be)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26998200)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 11:23 PM
Author: Drab Senate Nowag



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26998594)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 12:08 AM
Author: Doobsian internet-worthy tanning salon selfie

that's what you get for thinking you could land a chad. Larry Joe Bird would have said yes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26998813)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:00 AM
Author: effete primrose tank meetinghouse

cr. his blood is on ur hands

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999740)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 12:15 AM
Author: house-broken charismatic antidepressant drug university

How bad is his credit? That could be the deal breaker here.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26998838)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 12:43 AM
Author: hairraiser church building

Doobs did you imagine a man wearing around an engagement ring flashing his new rock at all his bois

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26998942)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 1:00 AM
Author: big mischievous boltzmann

good move not to gloat about successful flame too early. gotta let dat pot simmer

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999005)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:33 AM
Author: Diverse bonkers pistol



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999798)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 4:35 AM
Author: sable place of business depressive

isn't he a vegan? oy vey

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999511)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:32 AM
Author: Diverse bonkers pistol

wow you have a lot of balls sister. i could never pull something like that off.

i still think this is flame though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999796)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:33 AM
Author: frozen ruby business firm

WTF doobs

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999797)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:38 AM
Author: puce party of the first part

how long have you dated?

i would honestly feel weird and kind of beta if a chick did this to me

maybe it threw him off and he'd rather be the one doing the proposing?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999817)



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Date: December 30th, 2014 4:38 AM
Author: sable place of business depressive

lol yeah maybe

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#27022847)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 1:41 PM
Author: alcoholic odious masturbator public bath

Wait, so reading through this thread, you are not into traditional relationship thing, blah, blah, blah. He's not into these traditions either. Yet, despite both of you being against tradition, you still want to enter into the union of marriage with this bro? So badly that you usurped traditional roles to get this shit started? Just lol at you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#27000282)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 4:27 PM
Author: Adventurous library

although this thread is flame and also jfc doobs, this does give me a great idea for a reality tv show about aspies dating.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#27001052)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 5:20 PM
Author: aromatic property

*gives you a flower*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#27001282)



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Date: December 30th, 2014 4:41 AM
Author: Emerald slimy locus

:(

but hey if you need some good rebound sex to cheer you up im always available. BHC on-call 24/7/365



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#27022852)



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Date: December 30th, 2014 3:17 PM
Author: Amber Brunch

totally amazing how everyone on xo doesnt understand basic human interaction

he was obviously planning to propose to you on NYE but you beat him to the punch. now that you're all sad and vulnerable, he's going to propose soon and you'll be way happier this way

plus, when ya'll tell your jealous friends the story, it makes you seem alpha and him like a white knight.

i mean truly a win-win for both of you lovebirds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#27024759)