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I'm the guy whose wife is cheating on him. Question for you guys
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Date: April 12th, 2015 12:04 PM Author: cyan fragrant stead ape I want to get into her email. What is a good keylogger I can use to get her pw? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27675618) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 12:08 PM Author: Chestnut Bateful Institution Telephone Either confront her or get over it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27675632) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 12:09 PM Author: cyan fragrant stead ape Not yet. Gotta get all my ducks lined up, man.
I have the upper hand right now cause she doesn't know that I know. |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 1:07 PM Author: aromatic startling stag film First read the Computer Fraud and Abuse Act, the Wiretap Act, and the Electronic Communications Privacy Act, and how they have been applied to people in divorce proceedings. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27675916) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 1:21 PM Author: cyan fragrant stead ape Why? I'm not going to reveal to anyone that I got into her email. I just want to see how far back they have been communicating. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27675974) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 1:22 PM Author: Purple sound barrier why? you sound like a closet cuck enthusiast (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27675980) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 1:46 PM Author: Sooty location tank you have an expectation of privacy from your own spouse on a jointly owned computer? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27676124) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 1:58 PM Author: smoky soggy rigpig chad The CFAA can be very harsh. Expectation of privacy doesn't even necessarily apply. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27676203) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 2:10 PM Author: Sooty location tank any links? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27676309) |
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Date: April 13th, 2015 12:58 AM Author: Wine Jew Shrine as always, you are hilariously risk averse, even for a lawyer. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27680442) |
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Date: April 13th, 2015 9:04 AM Author: dull curious old irish cottage The way you are confronting this might be one of the factors that is contributing to your dysfunctional marriage. A betrayal like this is traumatizing and painful, but if you have any respect for your relationship (obviously so difficult to have an ounce of respect for her at the moment), you might want to reconsider how you approach this. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27681100) |
Date: April 12th, 2015 12:05 PM Author: Provocative Locus Travel Guidebook You confirmed she's cheating? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27675619) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 12:07 PM Author: cyan fragrant stead ape Yes 100% confirmed now. I am going to hire a private investigator this week to document it in case it will help in the divorce proceedings.
I know everyone here is saying it won't make a difference but whatever. I have to try. |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 12:08 PM Author: fuchsia toilet seat How did you 100% confirm? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27675634) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 12:09 PM Author: Orchid Plaza Fanboi PP (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27675652) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 12:10 PM Author: cyan fragrant stead ape I had a friend track her car. She drove to his house, picked him up, the first thing they did was kiss (mini makeout session, actually), and then they went to a very nice hotel. I don't need any more confirmation than that. She's a fucking whore. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27675655) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 12:11 PM Author: fuchsia toilet seat Same guy as before - the one whose window you went to? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27675660) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 12:17 PM Author: cyan fragrant stead ape Yeah, same guy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27675706) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 12:22 PM Author: fuchsia toilet seat Alright well. Sounds like she's cheating. What good will a PI do? It's no fault divorce. The judge isn't going to give her less of your money just because she was fucking another man.
If preserving your cash / minimizing how much damage the divorce is going to do your assets is the ultimate goal, your best bet is to confront her, in a wY that makes her feel guilty rather than defensive and justified (as in don't invade her email or hire a PI) and in her guilt get to her to agree to a contractual division of assets that favors you |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 12:23 PM Author: cyan fragrant stead ape Well I'm meeting with a couple divorce attorneys tomorrow and on Tuesday so I'll ask them just to be sure.
But my basic google search says that in VA it is among the factors a judge can consider in a fault-divorce. |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 12:33 PM Author: fuchsia toilet seat See my edit above. I think youre taking the wrong and much riskier approach (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27675791) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 12:40 PM Author: cyan fragrant stead ape Yeah I see your point. My mind is all over the place right now. I hope meeting with an attorney will guide me a bit. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27675828) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 1:41 PM Author: Dead bawdyhouse half-breed yeah bro talk to some folks who actually do this shit for a living (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27676090) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 12:34 PM Author: canary sick mood fuck that, act like nothing is wrong and move your assets over a month's time (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27675799) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 12:40 PM Author: cyan fragrant stead ape Is that even possible though? I hear people do this all the time but I don't see how there wouldn't be a papertrail.
I bet there's some way to look up bank accounts using a social security number. |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 1:46 PM Author: canary sick mood if its completely liquid and spent on "home improvements" and "trips" or "surprises", what are they going to do? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27676120) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 1:47 PM Author: Dead bawdyhouse half-breed Just take it all out and hit up some casinos, claim you went into a tailspin when you thought your wife was cheating (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27676136) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 1:52 PM Author: Self-centered boyish deer antler halford This.
Also might be a good time to start collecting watches. A bucketfull of rolexes will hold their value and it's much easier to hide those than a bank account. Just bury them in a PVC tube on state land and mark it with GPS. |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 1:54 PM Author: Sooty location tank What if you converted it all into bitcoin and claimed you spent the money on drugs or online gambling? Keep the wallet on a USB drive or SD card that you hide up your ass. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27676179) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 12:12 PM Author: saffron hairraiser cuck codepig lol at your terrible flame (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27675670) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 12:17 PM Author: cyan fragrant stead ape ok (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27675707) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 12:09 PM Author: Chestnut Bateful Institution Telephone No you don't. You can act like an adult and move on with a minimum of mess (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27675647) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 12:11 PM Author: cyan fragrant stead ape Bro, I need to do this for me. I will have regrets if I don't. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27675663) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 12:45 PM Author: Chestnut Bateful Institution Telephone Here's the thing, you don't need to do this. At all. You're just setting yourself up for unnecessary pain and mess. You think you want answered but you really don't. Plus as mentioned above you are setting yourself up to look like an immature asshole. Reevaluate. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27675850) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 12:11 PM Author: Provocative Locus Travel Guidebook Jfc (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27675662) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 12:11 PM Author: cyan fragrant stead ape ? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27675665) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 12:13 PM Author: Insanely Creepy Locale Selfie www.google.com (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27675676) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 12:18 PM Author: cyan fragrant stead ape too many malware-type programs show up in the google results (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27675711) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 12:15 PM Author: Cheese-eating abnormal stain roast beef Hire Joey Greco. He'll sort you out. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27675698) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 12:19 PM Author: Gold mewling fat ankles shut up (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27675716) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 12:24 PM Author: cyan fragrant stead ape why? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27675740) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 12:24 PM Author: brindle doctorate hell Was she a whore before you married her? Did you believe her when she said "but that is the past?" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27675741) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 12:28 PM Author: cyan fragrant stead ape No, she was a virgin when we started dating. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27675762) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 12:28 PM Author: brindle doctorate hell lol wtf
How old was she? |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 12:31 PM Author: cyan fragrant stead ape We started dating when we were 17
Life sucks |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 12:35 PM Author: brindle doctorate hell How long have you two been married? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27675809) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 12:41 PM Author: cyan fragrant stead ape We dated for a long time. Married 7 years. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27675834) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 1:10 PM Author: brindle doctorate hell And now it's all going down the shitter (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27675930) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 1:21 PM Author: cyan fragrant stead ape Thanks (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27675976) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 12:32 PM Author: wonderful gay filthpig parlour Have you thought about pursuing a cuck lifestyle? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27675786) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 12:41 PM Author: cyan fragrant stead ape No. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27675836) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 12:55 PM Author: Supple Affirmative Action brother, you are living the cuck lifestyle now. does it anger you that she's probably letting this guy fuck her pussy raw and cum in it? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27675874) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 1:38 PM Author: Drab galvanic gay wizard becky u have a kid, man, u r a dad, and u write like this
fucked up |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 1:58 PM Author: Unhinged pisswyrm Lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27676208) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 2:01 PM Author: titillating sapphire nibblets (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27676232) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 1:37 PM Author: Unhinged pisswyrm Have u considered spanking her ruthlessly and then pounding her harder than you've ever pounded her before? Then tell her you'll kill her if she talks to him again? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27676064) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 1:43 PM Author: rose arousing associate oh man she's going to take all your money in the divorce (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27676105) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 1:44 PM Author: Stirring magenta native Ljl at men who willingly get into these kinds of arrangements. Can there be any doubt that marriage is a scam? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27676109) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 1:47 PM Author: rose arousing associate he's so fucked (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27676131) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 1:48 PM Author: canary sick mood my father in law moved almost all of his money to another country before a divorce, nothing came of it and she claimed stock losses (which he had in the millions) as the source of the disappearance, a year after he brought it all back no problem (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27676145) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 2:02 PM Author: Flushed comical dilemma potus (legal advice) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27676243) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 1:48 PM Author: Sooty location tank LJL at anyone who invests in stocks. Look at Enron. Can there be any doubt that investing is a scam? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27676138) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 1:51 PM Author: Drab galvanic gay wizard becky is ur wife fucking him right now in some DC hotel? how did things emotionally get to this point? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27676164) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 2:07 PM Author: Dun stage kitty Where did she tell you was going while she's out for this tryst? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27676290) |
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Date: April 12th, 2015 5:26 PM Author: crusty famous landscape painting whorehouse This thread is relevant to my interests. Backstory link? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27677773) |
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Date: April 13th, 2015 1:52 AM Author: orange sadistic property brethren Legitimately good advice to follow. Assume she uses Windows and is a median computer user.
First step is to crack her windows password using RainbowCrack.
Next step is to view her saved passwords. Try
IE PassView, Protected Storage PassView, Mail PassView
here http://www.nirsoft.net/password_recovery_tools.html
Given she is a she, there is a 50% chance she saved her password. If so, you are in, easy peasy. If not, you could try her windows password on her email, but there is a chance it will throw her a 'someone tried to log in from your account' error.
If not, download a keylogger, install, and test. Try Refog Free Keylogger. Testing is important because her AV program may pick it up. Restart at least twice and log in with her credentials, then run a full scan, etc. The idea is to prevent her getting an anti virus popup. If you get one, you can either add an exemption to her anti virus, try a different keylogger, or disable her antivirus. (I usually use a different program, but it is designed for remote setup so I'm suggesting this, easy one.)
If you want to be safer, you can buy hardware keyloggers. They cannot be detected using software, but you'll have to pay and wait for shipping.
Answer the following for better answers:
How techsavy is she?
What OS are you using?
What email provider does she use?
Can you steal her phone easily (and give it back to her of course)?
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Date: April 13th, 2015 11:03 AM Author: insecure aqua resort do you all have kids (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2853528&forum_id=2#27681442) |