no joke. she was pushing a stroller.

to compound the surreality, she was standing in the frozen foods aisle.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=571728&forum_id=2#7507568)

dude. i know it sounds like sick xoxo humor. but it is completely true.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=571728&forum_id=2#7507578)

what should I have said to her?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=571728&forum_id=2#7507580)

huh?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=571728&forum_id=2#7507607)

didn't notice.

she posts a lot (or used to) on this SF website called Yelp, which is a ratings site for local restaurants, bars, shops.

as of the tragedy, her tagline is "31 year old widow"

http://www.yelp.com/user_details?userid=R2NYGnt_yfMadjJ-2Bc1tA

ah...i see she has now changed it to "pioneer lady"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=571728&forum_id=2#7507728)

"Unfortunately, my husband was unable to fulfill the familial obligations this year."

DAMN.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=571728&forum_id=2#7507943)

she's taking it well.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=571728&forum_id=2#7507986)

it's real.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=571728&forum_id=2#7508290)

match point"

The story is a fable about the role that luck plays in determining everyone's destiny. As protagonist Chris Wilton notes in an opening voice-over:

The man who said "I'd rather be lucky than good" saw deeply into life. People are afraid to face how great a part of life is dependent on luck. It's scary to think so much is out of one's control. There are moments in a match when the ball hits the top of the net and for a split second it can either go forward or fall back. With a little luck it goes forward and you win. Or maybe it doesn't and you lose.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Match_Point

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=571728&forum_id=2#7508307)

haha this is fucked up. this cant be real.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=571728&forum_id=2#7508397)

Who is going to be the first to email her to ask if she'll only date Azn guys for husband #2?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=571728&forum_id=2#7508126)

Baby's first Christmas and no Daddy to play Santa is a real downer. My trip down South turned sour when a certain grieving in-law's sadness turned to anger and I was forced to find alternate accomodations. At first, the thought of loading up the children, the gifts, and the holiday joy and heading to a hotel was nearly incapacitating. However, my parents saved the day by driving out from New Mexico and renting a fantastic set of adjoining rooms to save my sanity and my children's Christmas. Things took a turn for the better when Aunties and Uncles showed up to spread good cheer. Plus, the hotel is equipped with a heated pool and a hot tub. This isn't the Regis, but it's good enough for me; and I can't wait to wake up to a Christmas morning swim!

Minus one star for no vegetarian dinner option at the adjoining restaurant.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=571728&forum_id=2#7508182)

http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?f=/c/a/2007/01/14/INGC7N6NFT1.DTL

Note that he lives in Thousand Oaks, CA, which is near where she was visiting.

He's probably pissed off at this bit of the story, as recounted by James' wife:

"At nearly the same moment that they started past the sign, it began snowing and they ran across snow on the road. James wanted to turn around on the road but Kati thought it was too dangerous given how narrow the road was combined with the darkness and the steep sides."

http://sfgate.com/cgi-bin/blogs/nwzchik/detail?blogid=32&entry_id=12776

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=571728&forum_id=2#7508274)

Yeah I know, Korean culture is fucked up.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=571728&forum_id=2#7508345)

It was, dumbfuck. He followed her fucktarded suggestions that led to his death.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=571728&forum_id=2#7508364)