Here is AutoAdmit’s “Challenge to Reputation Defender.” If Reputation Defender and its clients want the threads removed, Reputation Defender should acknowledge these points together with me, and we can all move on. It doesn't cost anyone anything to acknowledge some facts, and I'm sure their clients would agree that it's a small price to pay for a resolution:
A) Reputation Defender acknowledges that by failing to make any effort to engage me for nearly a month and a half until March 13, even though they had been retained by at least one student (pro-bono) since late January, they allowed the issue to escalate rather than seriously endeavoring to defuse it.
B) Reputation Defender acknowledges that instead of making an effort to engage me, they contacted Google Adsense, my server company, law deans, bloggers, and others over a period of a month, which has only made me far less willing to do anything to help give them a “feather in their cap” or to work with the people who would like to have their content removed.
C) Reputation Defender acknowledges it had a lapse in judgment by openly antagonizing the AutoAdmit community with its "Challenge to AutoAdmit.com" webpage and its publicity hounding and media appearances, rather than ever attempting to engage me and quietly work with me to resolve the issue for over a month. This provoked an extremist, whom Mr. Ciolli and I have condemned but whose private actions elsewhere on the Internet I cannot control, to dig up more damaging information on one of Reputation Defender’s clients and forward it to the entire Yale faculty. Note that nearly everyone on AutoAdmit discouraged the person from doing this. By opting to wage an open war against a community of die-hards in order to generate publicity, Reputation Defender put its clients’ interests in jeopardy and essentially caused their client to suffer more irreparable damage and distress.
D) Reputation Defender acknowledges that the first correspondence between AutoAdmit and Reputation Defender was on March 2, when AutoAdmit initiated contact with Reputation Defender to inform them that while AutoAdmit was in no way connected to the “T 14 Talent” website, Mr. Ciolli had in fact been able to convince the owner of the website to shut it down on March 1.
Ironically, this good-will effort was made before AutoAdmit ever even heard of Reputation Defender. This organization appeared on our radar only after the Penn Dean’s office informed Mr. Ciolli on March 2 that Reputation Defender was contacting law deans and spreading the impression that we somehow had control over the “T 14 Talent” website. It was also on March 2 that we were contacted by the Washington Post. Ross Chanin’s response to the first letter from Mr. Ciolli was a brief, vague note demanding that we clean up AutoAdmit, but offering no specific requests. When Mr. Ciolli responded with my personal e-mail address, referring Mr. Chanin to me as the person to talk to in order to resolve any issues, Mr. Chanin refused to write me. Given the fact that the media had already been brought in, we quickly became suspicious of Reputation Defender.
E) Reputation Defender acknowledges that Mr. Ciolli has never had the authority to make any editorial or policy decisions relating to the AutoAdmit message board without my explicit approval, and that Reputation Defender was wrong to portray Mr. Ciolli as a decision maker after being made aware of this fact, including but not limited to its correspondence with law deans and on its campaign website. Reputation Defender further acknowledges that Mr. Ciolli resigned from AutoAdmit on March 12 and no longer has any equity or other stake in the AutoAdmit message board.
F) I will acknowledge that there have been times when I have not paid a lot of attention to the message board, and that that is partly to blame for this fiasco. Maintaining the message board is not my occupation. (Neither is insurance sales, but that’s another discussion.) AutoAdmit is largely a domain for its inhabitants to make into the environment they desire. Until a couple of days ago, I hadn't checked my autoadmit.com e-mail for months. I had not received or dealt with e-mails particularly from one of the people involved in this dispute. When I heard about the "T 14 Talent” controversy via Mr. Ciolli, it just struck me as more of the same kind of juvenile garbage that I’ve found myself rolling my eyes at hundreds of times before. And you know what? It was. But that doesn’t mean it wasn't hurtful, or that it didn’t warrant action. When Mr. Ciolli was able to convince the person who ran the website to shut it down, we felt we were only doing good. None of this is to say that I don’t regret that I was unresponsive to the requests of at least one person who became unwillingly involved in the mess, or that she didn’t deserve for her request to be heeded after asking me politely, which she did. I will acknowledge that this was my mistake and sincerely apologize to the affected individual.
G) Reputation Defender acknowledges that AutoAdmit had already been in the process of developing optional moderation capabilities which would hide "dirty" threads from Google indexing before Reputation Defender ever stepped into the picture.
Reputation Defender and AutoAdmit will agree on the following course of action:
1) Reputation Defender will publicly state that it acknowledges points A through G and will stop antagonizing the AutoAdmit community by taking down the "Challenge to AutoAdmit.com" website.
2) I will resume removing specific threads for individuals who contact me directly and in a professional manner, without threatening litigation, subject to my discretion as always. I will make more of an effort to check my e-mail and not let people slip through the cracks. This, of course, means I will begin with the individuals at hand.
3) Specifically, I will remove threads on Brittan Heller if she apologizes to me (in private) for hinting that she would resort to litigation in her very first e-mail to me two years ago, and later enlisting Professor Brian Leiter of the University of Texas Law School (more about Brian Leiter) to wage a failed harassment and defamation campaign against me and Anthony Ciolli on her behalf. This is the main reason this has dragged on for two years, Ms. Heller, and I'm sorry that it wasn't resolved before you resorted to working against me by proxy.
4) Reputation Defender and AutoAdmit will publicly state that they consider their spat resolved and will jointly ask all communities to cease escalations.
5) I will make a commitment to the Yale community and to the entire academic community that the AutoAdmit website will soon begin to transform into an even better resource for current and prospective students. I will continue to implement the improvements to the AutoAdmit website that I was already in the process of developing, which should significantly reduce future complaints. This is what I’ve wanted to do for a long time.
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I will not deal with a middleman “advocacy” group like Reputation Defender ever. Judging from the irreparable damage that was incurred by one of its clients as a result of its “pro-bono” campaign, the media exploitation and fallout, and its attempts to create an environment of personal and professional pressure on me and Mr. Ciolli, it’s clear to me that an organization like Reputation Defender causes much more nuclear fallout for everyone than there ever would be in the first place.
My question is this: If Reputation Defender has its clients' best interests as its top priority, then wouldn’t Reputation Defender have wanted to take the most obvious, direct and potentially expeditious route toward achieving its ostensible goals for its clients: making an effort to engage us quickly, personally, and quietly, rather than trying to irritate me and avoiding me for over a month? Also, wouldn't Reputation Defender have been willing to work with me a little bit to accommodate my relatively simple needs? Ethically, are not Michael Fertik and Ross Chanin obligated to bounce the offer off their clients to see whether it is palatable to them? Does it cost Reputation Defender any money to agree to a few points that they know accurately portray the facts, or is Reputation Defender more concerned about its own reputation and its own future business prospects than its clients? Also, if Reputation Defender offered to perform pro bono services for the yet to be named individuals, is there any doubt that Reputation Defender has a significant interest in stirring up and sustaining a national media frenzy over this, even appearing on Good Morning America? Does Reputation Defender really want to get content taken down, or do they simply want to enjoy the ride?
Think beyond the surface about what went on. Beware of this organization. For two guys with legal training from the very best schools and a background in speech-writing, their strategic thinking, diplomacy, crisis management, and negotiation skills are an embarrassment.
Everyone makes mistakes. I have made mistakes, and so has Reputation Defender, and their company can very gracefully survive this if its officers just decide to act as reasonable human beings and admit to some judgment errors like I am willing to do. Reputation Defender can say anything they want on their website, but I will not negotiate with them anymore, and if they don’t clearly concede each and every one of the outlined facts, we can all continue to hate each other and get nowhere. At this point, it’s all or nothing; my offer is on the table, and I think it’s reasonable.
I hope Michael Fertik and Ross Chanin choose to make peace, because I don’t want these girls to have to suffer through this anymore because of a male ego contest. The truth is, it’s not Mr. Fertik’s or Mr. Chanin’s choice: it’s their clients’. Once again, I would have helped at least one of these girls earlier if Reputation Defender had made any genuine effort to get in touch with me. But let Reputation Defender file a frivolous lawsuit against me if they want to exploit this for even more media attention. At least I know I haven’t done anything tortious or deliberately unethical.
Jarret Cohen